been successful in turning someone you had "feelings", "love" for into a "booty call" ? If so, how did that work out for ya? were you able to "get your feelings" under "control" ?
No way. Never wanted to. If I have feelings for them, I wouldn't want to sabotage the potential for us to be something serious. And being a booty call pretty much leaves you in that category.
Just a question, looking for other points of views, Aqua had said something to me like this and thought it to be "normal" but i have not been able to get my mind around it.....I tried the "booty call" thing, it didnt work for me, tried the "one night stand" thing, it dint either, just not made for it i guess.......still new to it all in my opinion........
booty call - friends with bennies to me are the same thing. i'm a professional at separating my feelings. i have only had 2 FWB so i'm no way near able to give advice. but i know this. with how well i am with controlling my feeligns, i would never attempt the FWB with someone i wanted for a relationship. that to me, is asking for trouble. Thats pure self torture. nooooo thanks.
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If so, how did that work out for ya? were you able to "get your feelings" under "control" ?