Keep them guessing?

I'm just wondering and I guess this is kind of a stupid thing to wonder about, but my curiosity has me wondering. I read a lot where people say keep a Gemini guessing and it will keep them interested. Ok, here goes my stupid question, what does that mean? Can anyone elaborate on that? I mean, keep them guessing about everything? Like, if you are in a relationship, never tell them where you're going or what you're doing? Or, if you're trying to get in a relationship with one, act like you like them one day then the next day don't? Or, does it mean if you're friends, do strange stuff so they'll wonder about your sanity, lol. I'm joking. I'm just not real good at keeping people guessing about anything. Or they just don't guess, they assume or think they know they have me all figured out...how annoying!

make them figure things out, don't let them know your every move right away..keep a little playful mystery to things..

Thanks Juicy. I think I see what you're saying. I've been trying to get some Gemini's attention for months, lol, actually more than months. I did have it at one time then he stopped showing any interest. I've posted on here about him before. We work together and don't really talk, we just say hello to each other and that's it. I would go out of my way to try to see him but lately though, I just gave up. I'm still interested but I stopped letting it show. Not to play games or anything, just got tired of trying. Sure enough, here he comes all "near" me, he doesn't talk to me he just comes around like he wants me to see him. We're both really shy, which doesn't match either sign I know, but it's really frustrating. I don't work when he's working most of the time so that doesn't help in getting to know him either, and management doesn't like work relationships either. I can't go into much detail here, but he also has a minor facial defect that I think makes him introverted around people he doesn't know well, especially women. For the people I've seen him talking to, and it's mostly men, he talks and talks and talks. He only talks to one woman and he's known her for years. I just wish I knew what's going on in his mind. I don't think I'll ever know. I feel like just walking up to him and telling him I think he's cute regardless of how he sees himself but I know that would freak him out. I could just give him my phone number and tell him either call and lets get this over with or don't and stop trying to get my attention then not giving it back when he gets it! Oh, the pride of a Leo!

No actually Gemini's are known for being quite shy at first, whatever there first reaction is..is to do the opposite. So if he is shy around you thats a very good thing! hmmm lets see i would leave a message on his desk saying "Call Me Sometime your number and a smiley face" something playful but direct and i'm sure he will call you back. Because i know thats how i am around someone and so is my bestfriend (which is a boy gem) We get very nervous. Go figure! haha but he will come around after chatting with him for a bit he wont shut up, depending on his chart and the type of person of course but usually .. he'll talk about anything and everything differen't , switch from differen't topics =) no thanks needed, let me know if you need any help =)

Hi, I new on this site and wish I had know about it 2 years ago. I began a friendship with a Gemini Man at that time. After a couple of months, we began having feelings for each other. We were getting closer until he decided to tell me he wasn't ready for a relationship. He needed to bring some closure with his ex wife who lives out of state. He had since brought closure with her. We still saw each other but he was getting distant. We never got physical only kissing. But he stopped doing that. His friends tell me that he likes me and he knows I'm in love with him. I did all the wrong things. I'm a Capricorn and am a very nice person. I give things to him, I took him to the hospital to get a procedure done, I've given things to his church, (He's a minister and so am I), but he's holding back. This is what he told one of our mutual friends. I know now that I need to pull back from him so he will come to me. This has worked in the past but I responde too fast and he backs up again. We are totally compatable. I know I hendered things when I told him I loved him but the first time I told him he responded by giving me the deepest kiss I've ever gotten. Please help me get my Gemini man back. I Love him like no other man ever in my life. He's 15 years older than I am but my ex-husband was much older than that. My friend sings in the choir at my church with my ex-husband and told me last year that it made him uncomfortable. I understood that but it didn't seem to matter to him when we first started seeing each other.

Help I Love Him and I want him back

Gemini Lover

I think you must be crazy for wanting your Gemini man back, but....if you do.......

Give him lots of space
Give him the chance to "miss" you
When he comes for you, play hard to get, have something else to do
You need to prove that you a woman in your own right and have your own life to live
Dont tell people who are close to him you love him so "word gets back"
Make sure they tell him you are so busy these days......blah blah blah.....

In my experience Men (not just geminis) enjoy the chase. Follow that line and it will become second nature. Dont be so available, clingy, needy or possessive. Trust me. Doing this you will be hooking him and you may find out you dont want him after all. Then you'll wnat to know how to get rid!
Mary x

P.s. sorry - missed something - re: not telling your Gem man where you are going. Jesus, I just tried this and was he spanked a*sed or what— He went so sulky I could have kicked him from here to next week! As far as I am concerned, I can come and go when I want and I'm not responsible to anyone and dont have to tell them where I've been. However, if keeping the peace is important...then yes, tell him where you're going.
Mary :-/

wise words from the mighty Kris....