Should I Just Leave This Gemini Alone

Why are you even having sex with someone you don't trust?

Posted by Superseven
I know what you mean. I met a sag woman that was iver ten years younger than me and there was a magnetic attraction between us. I always shy away fom sag women though. They arwnt my cup of tea.

You guys arent that far apart in age. Psychologists do say that girls are naturally more mature than boys by three or four years.

You have Leo moon like me so i see why you like him so much. Leo's and Gems go together really well, ofcourse the other planetary positions play a huge factor.

I can tell that you genuinely like him. Write him something.

Yes I genuinely do but I don't think it's reciprocated. @superseven I really appreciate your input! Why do you shy away from us? Alot of people say that our signs aren't compatible but I believe that anything is possible. With my gemini I think that I was just blindsided with his abruptness to just leave it alone after one mishap (I guess I feel just as blindsided as he does after I handled the situation the way that I did) but I will write him I just don't want to annoy him.

Posted by JennGem
How bad did she freak about a bump on his thing? I wouldn't go to all that trouble unless you made a huge deal of it. You are the only one that knows how you truly behaved. I will say I have said something like that to a boyfriend before and we stayed together. He explained he had always had it and it wasn't anything.

Sag doesn't do anything for me, my brother is one. We get along great, but.......

I honestly did not freak out that bad in my opinion. I know it did catch him by surprised... I say I freaked him out because those were his words...

Posted by Superseven
Thanks for getting that for me.

Please hide that message because you have the city you were born and your birth date on there. I didn't need that, plus the people that know how to do damage with that little bit of info will use it. You can never be too careful with stuff like that.

The hide feature is on your right, next to the quote button.

Thank you!

I'm a gemini. For me once it's done from my part, it means i would never look back.

Posted by Superseven
Well its too soon for you to come down to any final conclusions. Let him work through what he needs to in his mind. He might just be using the silence to get back at you??_Give it a week or two if you're willing to wait things out that long. I say you wait a week to make contact if he hasn't contacted you in between that time.

How did you guys meet?

We met at work, ( another bad idea) but I don't see him at all at work. But it started as innocent chatting snd one thing led to another. I just went with the flow with him

Posted by Superseven
That was actually what I wanted to know..."if you two work together?" It's good that you two don't see each other every day. And theres nothing wrong with going with the flow thats when the beautiful moments happen.

If you don't mind me asking, what attracted you to him?

Well I liked the fact that he just went with the flow and his outlook on life in my opinion was the opposite of mines. I'm more of the type that likes to plan and try and control things in life where he tackles life as it happens and just do things as he feels. He also intrigued me and made me want to discover who he was and what he was about. Our physical chemistry was out of this world but we also connected through our humor. I took your advise and wrote him a lengthy text and apologizing and he did not respond at all. That to me says that he is done so I guess I will be done also. Maybe the other person is right in saying that he hit it a quit lol ( I have to laugh although I don't find it comical) but I guess I thought we were in a different place than we were. But while I'm disappointed I will accept this and just move on... I don't like feeling used... But since I was a big girl and had sex with him too soon I will just swallow any feelings that I have

@OP, what was the timeline from the time you were together and tried to communicate with him? Gems are understanding and it might take more time for him to come around but it sure will take all the effort from your end. It was an embarrassing experience for both of you, but we all make mistakes and that's usually one thing that gems are aware of and will admit.

Posted by gemeliorist
@OP, what was the timeline from the time you were together and tried to communicate with him? Gems are understanding and it might take more time for him to come around but it sure will take all the effort from your end. It was an embarrassing experience for both of you, but we all make mistakes and that's usually one thing that gems are aware of and will admit.

so this past saturday is when the whole misunderstanding happened. I tried to communicate with him sunday. He did respond but he was really short and referred to me using my full name which he never does. Then monday and tuesday i called and texted and no response. I know that is it early, i just dont want him to be mad.

Posted by Geminivixen
Sagg and Gems are love matches, I'm not a big fan of Sagg when it comes to relationships.. I find you guys to selfish and drama queens/kings! But I like you guys in friendship. Here's where you went wrong.. Words are Everything & so is action. You should of worded it differently if you know what I mean.. and also you came on to him to strong. Your older then him, he had his fun with you and now hes OUT. Especially that you said that statement hes for sure OUT. BUT, like greengemini said.. If he really wants you back he will come back on HIS terms NOT Yours. We are Geminis we do as we please, how we please and when we please lol sad but true but if we really like you we will return and you can't question it.. either take it or leave it and don't fuck it up again! I'm sure you can find a older guy.. Gemini men can be immature sometimes and can come across as two faced.. the older the Gemini man get's the wiser he is. Find a older Gemini since you really like us so much 🙂

^^This

Plus the fact that you are even trying to "understand" us is something most people never will be able to do. You either be ok with who we are (elusive) or you don't date us. Summing us up is impossible. Plus I don't think you have any idea what you're doing with this guy. Gemini males take a very long time to find themselves. Plus he's younger than you and young Geminis like a good time. We DON'T take anyone including ourselves seriously. Someone said earlier "hit it and quit it" and this is probably the most guilty of all signs. Especially when you are dealing with a younger man you should know better than giving that up too quick. Gemini females though it takes us a while but we do come around before they do. It took me until maybe my mid 20's to calm down and actually start thinking about having an actual relationship. Then when I hit my early 30's (Im 34 now) I JUST started to entertain the idea of living together with someone and possibly being engaged. I probably won't be ready fully until I know this person is absolutely without a doubt the one (if that exists). But most of the time im too busy studying them and sitting on the fence whether or not I can compromise with their short comings.

And this whole Gem & Sagg thing is a myth. We are NOT a good couple. I cannot stand them as a sign (no offense to some of you). But they just cant make a commitment to save their life and if they do it's a shit ton of them. Like girlfriend after girlfriend hoping around. Hell to the no.

@OP we are all different but I can relate to what Xin said with the exception of taking others seriously and being able to move on quickly. Yes both do happen however, the opposite does as well. I have always wanted and looked for a stable relationship and a few of the gemini men (it's a rarity) that I know do as well. Gems like the chase and to be chased especially the young ones. Only time will tell if he comes back, but you mentioned that he responded to your attempt to communicate but he was short and used your full name, something he has not done before. That to me indicates anger, that he wants you to know that he's angry, you did bad. He would have ignored you if he wasn't interested in something from you. Not sure what that something is though...

A week was nothing for me if I was upset, it could take a couple of weeks to a month for me to feel like speaking to you if I was hurt and angry when I was younger. Now I could do a few years if ever. lol It's up to you if you want to try every now and then to communicate with him. It's great that you have boundaries and it doesn't seem like you would grovel or belittle yourself to gain his favour. Good luck 🙂

Posted by gemeliorist
@OP we are all different but I can relate to what Xin said with the exception of taking others seriously and being able to move on quickly. Yes both do happen however, the opposite does as well. I have always wanted and looked for a stable relationship and a few of the gemini men (it's a rarity) that I know do as well. Gems like the chase and to be chased especially the young ones. Only time will tell if he comes back, but you mentioned that he responded to your attempt to communicate but he was short and used your full name, something he has not done before. That to me indicates anger, that he wants you to know that he's angry, you did bad. He would have ignored you if he wasn't interested in something from you. Not sure what that something is though...

A week was nothing for me if I was upset, it could take a couple of weeks to a month for me to feel like speaking to you if I was hurt and angry when I was younger. Now I could do a few years if ever. lol It's up to you if you want to try every now and then to communicate with him. It's great that you have boundaries and it doesn't seem like you would grovel or belittle yourself to gain his favour. Good luck 🙂

Thank you for your insight @gemeliorist