Some Geminis are different.

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Posted by May31Baby
I agree. Geminis are seen as flighty and flakey. Like we cant be serious about anything, cant commit, always cheat. Not true! But we do talk alot, no denying that fact haha



Yup we like to talk. You can thank mercury for that little favor.

This crap about Gems being flighty etc. is unfounded imho. Sure, I can discuss a zillion topics in one discussion and go off on a few tangents on occasion, but it's only because my mind can change direction as fast as a F-16. It's the way we're wired. I can start and complete a project just as well as any other sign. If you give me two projects or more to do at the same time, I'm usually the only one who can multi task. Gems shine in this dept. If I give my husband two tasks to do, he totally freaks out. I don't think it's because he's a Scorpio, however. I think it's because he's a man. 😉

I love humor and find a lot of it in my daily life. But I'm also very serious and intense when need be; especially when I want to accomplish something.
It drives me nuts when other people around me don't have that same drive.

I've known a handful of people who have cheated; none were Geminis. I'm not saying we're perfect. NO ONE is perfect. However, cheating isn't about a
sign or birth date. It's about maturity and quality of one's relationship. Some people remain committed to their spouse no matter what. Others can't honor their vows. Being faithful is a choice.
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I am amazingly Gem! Mostly the talking but as a few people have put it lately that my sun/mercury yes are both in Gemini but sit in the VIII house. My Taurus venus/mars also add an earthy seriousness to my personality and my Libra moon/rising make me extremely fair. So I do really think about every option and it's always weighed and the obvious (logical) route is always taken. HOWEVER. The VIII house make me a force to deal with when it comes to verbal spats. I also DO NOT put up with any type of mistreatment. If it's not fair IT'S NOT F'ING FAIR. Not just based on emotions or what I think is right it's literally unfair period. And I will come after you. I am also very suspicious, curious, and I will investigate everything! Thank you VIII house LOL! Guilty until proven innocent. I always have a watchful eye and my brain is constantly shifting, sifting, filing things away. Mercurial and fair but also the poison of a Scorp, and the horns of the Taurus.
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Posted by JuneBugGem
I would have to agree with you. We get stereotyped as being 'loose' sexually too. That REALLY bothers me quite a bit. I'm very picky about who I like and I believe in love and romance, not hooking up and definitely not 'experimenting'.

I kinda like the idea of not contracting and spreading VD's to the one I love. If I fall in love with someone and the feeling's mutual, I'm staying with them for life, not running away, running around or playing mind games. 🙂



Well then I definitely don't fit the stereotype of being sexually loose. Just saying that sounds bad. LOL

I didn't date in HS, but all my best friends were guys.

I had two BF's in 4 years in college. But nothing ever got very serious.

I finally found my soul mate at age 32 and married him when I turned 34.

I have no doubt that the morals instilled in me had a lot to do with my dating choices. And when I married my husband in July of 1998,
I married him for life. End of story.