Libra Mooners - Ever feel too passive or lazy?

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It's something I really try to fight hard against; but I do find myself often indulging in leisurely activities quite often -- it hasn't caught up with me physically lol but I'm admittedly a procrastinator and avoid things I don't want to do sometimes. I'd rather be reading a book, listening to music or writing than executing certain priorities; we're all guilty of this desire, but I've found myself giving into it too much. And I've noticed Libra suns I know indulging in this behavior from time to time. I'm not saying it's out of control or that everyone with Libra placements does this but every description I've read about Libra moons and their tendency to get a bit lazy fits my behaviors quite well.

Anyone else ever feel a bit too 'eh' sometimes with their Libra moons? I like that it's mine, but I do think it makes me a little weaker in certain aspects. I can never make a solid decision either! Always too many freakin' choices :/
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beautifuldisaster:

You m'dear are so similar to me, it's starting to be a bit scary lol thank you for your encouragement!

Yes, absolutely. If I don't feel as if I'm in harmony with people and the things around me, it really hurts my spirit and I become withdrawn and emotional -- this reaction may also correlate with my Taurus Venus and Scorpio Pluto, but not entirely sure. All I know is, I need a happy balance and to feel fulfilled and enriched.

That is exactly how I should be viewing it; we're very sensitive people, so I believe we turn to these outlets to retrieve our balance and harmony. It's just what we need to do to cope, I'm starting to realize. I've only just learned about my moon sign and now I'm learning how to nurture and process it's reactions, ya know? It's a very interesting, freeing experience. So I appreciate your insight greatly!
That is the best advice I've received on how to view and understand the nature of my moon sign.

I milked my long weekend with leisurely activity and still felt like it vanished lol I'm such an indulgent Libra Moon 😛 and I'm so grateful that I'm not alone!
Do you ever find yourself getting lazy at work or feeling uninspired?

You're certainly not deluding yourself, or me! You've really hit the nail on the head with the nature of Libra placements.




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i love leeb moons. not a leeb moon myself. but i quite enjoy the leeb moons in my life. by far my favorite libra placement.

Rolly, what's your moon babe?

& why thank ya kind sir. I tell you I have to agree with that sediment , haha. 🙂
my moon is aries. but you sent me that thing about my chart once that had that info in it. you said you read it all actually. if you remember correctly.













(now that i've been sufficiently creepy i will say this is scorched. made a new account. 😄 )
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It's no wonder you enjoy Leeb moons so much; Aries is the opposite, but works oh-so-well with Leebs majority of the time. I'm an Aries sun.
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Posted by wecarealot
lol yes. I'm in a ferocious lazy spell right now. Somehow I manage to still do laundry (lol) and go to the gym, but I just can't be bothered to do anything after work. I just want to curl up in bed and go to sleep and that's usually what I do.

I do think my Libra moon and rising have made me weak in the past. I'm starting to appreciate it more since, in retrospect, the combo of an Aries sun and Libra moon has helped me analyze my own thoughts and feelings. I can't deny the benefits of that. But it has also made me easily affected by other people, easily distracted, and easily hurt. And it's embarrassing how non-confrontational I've been in the past as a result of it (esp for an Aries...huge blow to my ego and self-esteem).

So I don't know, it's a mixed bag. I'd love to have an Aries or Cap moon but then I can't help but think of the things I'd lose from my current placements.
I can absolutely relate to this, especially the part in bold. I was feeling this strongly last night, I was feeling so overly-sensitive due to certain things a quick-tongued Scorpio sun said to me and I was in tears, felt so misunderstood and embarrassed. I totally get how you feel when you say you're easily affected and hurt by others. Absolutely -- it's a supreme vulnerability; feels like a wide open target, sometimes.
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Posted by beautifuldiaster
Awe my love, it does not make you weak but quite the opposite!


I think libra moons need to experience harmony in their lives. Any libra for that matter. shit just needs to make sense. So, when we procrastinate and put off what we think we need to do, we see it as ugly.

BUT...

WHAT IF, you instead viewed it as a charger. As if your laziness what your way of recharging up the old battery to kick some more tail? We must learn to never do anything that we associate negative feelings with.

So if we must (and we will) relax for R&R, tell yourself it is for pleasure and future greatness. Associate positivity with it instead of negative emotions.


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This is coming from the girl who had yesterday off, a house to pack up and GUESS WHAT I DID?

I laid out, I read a book, I cooked two dinners and froze one, I watched 2 movies, and I took a nap.

Today, I went to work and ran.

Life is good. So is rest and so is work.

Can I relate? Yes. I say this all and wonder if I only delude myself hahaha 😄
No one would guess based on my chart, but I'm Libra dominant. What you described above is soooo me! LOL. If only I were independently wealthy. Scratch that, if I were I'd be a slovenly pig with no ambition. Thank god for the earth in my chart, lol.
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i've tried uploading a pic and it won't let me. 😐 i will once the board stops failing.

but we should talk about leeb moon things. LEEB MOON THINGS.
It has yet to allow me to upload a new pic that I want and refuses to update any profile info I have -- so a lot of us are stuck until things improve. :/

Haha you're too cute! LEEB MOONS Rule all.The nicest people you'll ever encounter 😛

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making bad choices on impulse? sounds aries moonish. sucks you guys have that to deal with too.
Well let me rephrase,
At least for me, when I don't weigh the pros and cons of making a decision, and lets say someone/something(like Time) is pressuring me to make a fast choice it's usually I end up making the wrong one.

It's something I'm still in the process of working on because clearly it can hold me back if I constantly have to analyze things top to bottom before taking action. I could lose the opportunity before I can Yes or No.

Not all Libra Moons of course, but I'm still young so yeah.
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Hey, I'm twenty-six and I still operate this way sometimes lol so don't be too hard on yourself. The important thing is to recognize certain Libra placement tendencies and find your balance, as beautifuldisaster has been saying, from my interpretation. She articulated it so much more profoundly, though I feel lol We can be free in our nature and kind to ourselves while learn about what it is that's making us act and react in these ways. And then in turn understand how to deal with it before we make mistakes, if we feel we have a pattern of making them. You get what I'm saying? Give yourself a break and get to know your impulses a little bit more. You'll find a lot more balance that way -- which is ESSENTIAL for Libra placements!
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I just learned something about myself today, which could branch off of the last few posts.

I had to make own closure with an Aries sun, Pisces moon last night. We have a confusing past, but the intimate part is always great; our Aries placements had an understanding, However, conflict arises when our moons clearly clash; the moons are our inner core, so it wasn't going to work unless both of us were willing to be open-minded and diligent. I've worked well with a lot of water placements, and we've found plenty of understanding for each other. But not when they're not evolved enough -- I've done some work and have learned a lot about water signs and make an effort to respect the way they operate. I just think he wasn't understanding me yet. Not because he's a different element, but because he hasn't had much growth. He's on his own path, and what I had to learn is that he and I have different energy, in the sense that he's not willing to find common ground. And honestly he was getting far too negative for me this morning. So that gave me not only the closure I desired, but I got my balance back! ^_^

Just thought I'd share an experience of true self-identification and nurturing -- felt so good!