Synastry. Will scorp lady kill me? Lilith-bonanza

I will try to make this short. If anyone of you people any thoughts or experince of this please share with me.

So im a cancer who have been single for a year now, coming from a 9-year relationship.
Some weeks ago i asked a friend at work if she had any scorpio-friends who is single. She said that she had and that she would try to fix me up on a date with one of them.
So this tuesday we and some other friends from work will meet up at the scorp-girl's place for a little party before we go to a festival in our town.

Background info, good to know, about her:
Scorp-girl recently broke up from a 6-year relationship and her ex-boyfriend now is dating one of her (former?) best friends.

My curiosity couldnt keep me from filling our birth-data in a synastry-chart and the 'score' is one of the highest i've seen. Further i've read some about this Lilith-asteroid that seems sometimes bring some crazy obsession to whom it might impact. I've looked at some charts of girls i dated with before and i've only found a single lilith-impact (her lilith my venus) with one former girl and she cheated on her boyfriend with me last week....

So here is scorp-girl's Lilith against my planets:

Lilith Sextile Sun 0.28
Lilith Sextile Mercury 2.35
Lilith Quincunx Neptune 2.51
Lilith Quincunx Pluto 0.94
Lilith Conjunction Chiron 0.66
Lilith Square True Node 2.45
Lilith Quincunx Ascendant 1.71

My Lilith against hers:
Lilith Sextile Mercury 0.97
Lilith Conjunction Mars 1.45
Lilith Trine Jupiter 1.17
Lilith Trine Chiron 2.52
Lilith Quincunx True Node 1.49

I know my birth-time but not hers, i've tried swapping her time at the chart but the Lilith-aspects dont seem to change much.

Our planets:
Her: Mine:
Sun 18 Sco 57' 27" Sun 18 Can 20' 53"
Moon 02 Sco 11' 42" Moon 25 Gem 58' 54"
Mercury 11 Sag 40' 32" Mercury 20 Can 25' 05" R
Venus 02 Sco 14' 10" Venus 16 Gem 18' 05"
Mars 09 Lib 15' 19" Mars 29 Vir 51' 12"
Jupiter 09 Aqu 32' 23" Jupiter 07 Vir 37' 25"
Saturn 29 Sco 19' 42" Saturn 22 Vir 09' 05"
Uranus 16 Sag 28' 58" Uranus 21 Sco 40' 02" R
Neptune 01 Cap 47' 38" Neptune 20 Sag 34' 21" R
Pluto 05 Sco 15' 14" Pluto 19 Lib 00' 21"
Chiron 13 Gem 13' 48" R Chiron 17 Tau 24' 22"
Lilith 18 Tau 00' 53" Lilith 10 Lib 42' 33"
True Node 09 Tau 12' 58" True Node 20 Leo 30' 40" R
P.of Fortune 25 Sco 40' 05" P. of Fortune 23 Vir 59' 0

🙂 well i've read some nasty stuff about this 'deathstar' Lilith and after all she is a scorpio and has alot of scorpio in her chart so i guess if we get involved with each other it may turn out fantastic or hellish 😛.
Im sure still looking forward to meeting this person and see what she's like.