Advice!

Hi all

I met a Taurus woman a couple months ago when I was home for Christmas. She works with my mom and we had an instant connection. I'm a Sagittarius by the way. Anyway, I developed a huge crush on her and I can't shake it. She started to be very chatty and flirty. She looked directly into my eyes when she would talk to me. She gave me her number and her iPad message info so we could keep in touch when I went back home to Ireland so I instantly started texting her while still in the US.

The texting quickly turned to flirting from both sides. I'm a woman, too so I was surprised as I am gay but she has only been with men I believe. After lots of flirty messages, she said that she was too old for me and it had nothing to do with me. There is a huge age gap but she still was flirty after saying that. I kept it going, sending funny messages about how age doesn't matter to me and she stayed stubborn but flirted back.

We then went to a basketball game with my mom included and she sat next to me and was very touchy feely. Then we had dinner alone and she said we had a connection but she didn't want to say a romantic connection because of the age difference but she always tells me I'm hot blah blah. She also told me that I make her laugh and that that is a good thing.

Now that I'm back in Ireland for a couple months, I don't know how to keep the lines of communication open. Most of all, I really cherish her and the deep connection that we have but i really like her on a romantic level and I don't want her to think I am losing interest. I also don't want to come off as needy and annoying. She has texted me a few times first (pictures of where she used to live, pictures of her pets, etc) and I have texted her flirty things, too.

Until I'm back home to see her physically, what should I do? I can't stop thinking about her and I tell her all the time she's beautiful, which she says I am, too. I need some advice as its my first time dealing with a Taurus.

Right, so the fact that she said she would entertain it and that I am super hot without me asking doesn't mean anything? The fact that she started the flirting? And that she said we were soulmates?

Also, my question was more how do I let her know I'm here for her in any sense while I am not physically there...?

I guess I don't understand why the response is about her sexuality? Did nothing else in my post stick out?

And how do I stay a good friend to her when I am an ocean away? Text her a lot or wait for her to text me? Tell her I'm thinking of her...? I don't want to be annoying and this is the first time I've dealt with a Taurus, I'm just lost on how to keep communication lines open and flowing.

@ OP.- Right now the only thing you guys can do is keep the communication and honesty at all times, tell her hey I am glad to have met you and we should keep talking even though we're apart now.. If it is meant for friendship to begin as it already has. Then keep it consistent and take it from there..

Maybe send her care packages, she would probably do something too. I flirt with sags or guys I like only.. I can't help it something makes me what to explore more with Sagittarius . Lol... I meet tons of Sagittarius males, I have never met a Sagittarius woman ever... It is always a spark between us.

I don't know why but it's the excitement we like out of you that makes us be open minded to whatever possibilities we see fit at the time, that's the attraction of course... Sometimes Sagittarius can be hella of a lot more controlling and critical than Taurus. If they have a tough rising or moon it could work, But the more sensitive people not used to someone overly more controlling it will be some clashing going on...

@Op- How far apart are you guys? and How did you meet her? It was the physical attraction and her smile, or something in her personality that initially attracted her to you in the first place that lured you in naturally...Lpl it wasn't forced it was meant to have happen whether it is just an experience or fling or potential lover. Or a new friendship but that is it.. While you are getting to talk to her ask her some questions and see if you have common interests, get to know her, and don't rush..

She's in Arkansas, I'm in Ireland. I've lived in Ireland for 5 years now but I'm moving back home to Arkansas in 2 months. I met her as she is a coworker of my moms. There is something that I'm attracted to physically about her but I can't put my finger on it. She normally wouldn't look like someone who is my type but her personality is.

When we first started talking, I don't know, I can't explain it, I just felt like an energy and it's not something I've really felt before. Then when we started talking, I found out we have all the same interests. It sounds silly was going to order lunch and asked what I would like...I told her and it ended up being the exact same thing she ordered for herself. We then talked about music, movies, and tv and turns out we like identical things.

I text her on pinger and iPad messaging. I want to flirt with her all the time but I also don't want to freak her out. I don't know how Taurus like to be complimented. Like I said, I just say that she's beautiful all the time because I really think that but I don't want her to think I'm just saying it.

It's hard to explain but i just felt an energy and she said she felt a connection too but she keeps mentioning the age difference so I don't know what to do. I don't want her to think I'm giving up or losing interest. In a friendship or a relationship.

Posted by busyeyes88
Sag and Taurus are not a good mix they speak completely different languages. Their energies and they way they do things are completely different. Very hard indeed. Sags like to control alot but they are not very reliable so should really do this.. Both males and females try to do this and taurus will not put up with that..

Friendship is a good start and just see what happens...

I know...She's the first Taurus that I've met and I can't get her off my mind. I'm actually a weird sag as I have only been in long term relationships and I'm a homebody! Imagine that.

I just want to show her I care but I also want to keep flirting 🙂

I don't know, she flirts too so it's mutual. I guess by flirting, I just want her to know I'm interested in her. She says we are already great friends and I love that she considers us that. I'm not her senior. She is 18 years older than me but I've dated someone 15 years older so it is nothing new to me.

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I don't know? I guess I don't know why she kept flirting and told me we are soulmates if she was too old. From what I read about Taurus, they are very honest, like sags. I didn't think she'd say those things just to appease me.

I'm most interested in keeping her as a good friend and allow our relationship to continue to grow but the mixed signals are confusing.