Advice on dating a fellow Taurus, or Cancer?

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FivebyFive
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So I just joined Match.com after getting out of a very lack luster relationship with a Aquarius that lasted a 1 year.

I have to admit the only reason I spent the 35.00 for an account was because I sow this Taurus guys profile and I had to talk to him! I am a taurus myself, and I've never dated a fellow bull. Had sex with a few...crazy...wild...mind blowing sex. However I've never dated a bull. But like I said this guys profile caught my eye and I had to have him!!!

We exchanged email back and fourth. Him always saying "I can't wait to hear from you again!". The last email was my own and I sent him a whooper of one, full with tons of personality and family info, and now I'm thinking I might have come on too strong. Took me three days to write it!! I kept on adding more and more till it became a novel...

He's read it, and has longed online for the last two days and added new pictures to his profile yet in havnt heard back from him at all! I'm semi going nuts....this is the first guy in a long time that's got me feeling this way, and it's kinda exciting because were the same. Our profile reads like twins and were 93% compatiable according to match.

Is it bad that I'm soooo good at wooing other signs yet suck at my very own. I feel like if it was any other sign I wouldn't be sweating it but when it comes to fellow bulls I'm like so lost.

Well anyway...I did meet a cancer, and a Aries. Both of which seem cool. The cancer more then the anything. Felt a connection with him, it was strange, it was like finding someone who speaks English in rural china....it was crazy.

Any advice on Cancer? Or two taurus together?
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Posted by FivebyFive
@suntauvengem....he keeps on looking at my profile so I know something's up. I hope I didn't scare him.

Have you dated a fellow bull? What are the arguments like?

Being seriously involved with one...I don't think we will have any argument... his moon in Pisces so he's extra caring.. venus in Taurus so extra solid... Two bulls need to accommodate and compromise. He said he's very very stubborn with other people even his mum but for me he will say yes to anything ..so far he's proved his point but I will keep you posted down the track. I hate fighting and so is he so I really don't think we will argue..
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SunTauVenGem
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by FivebyFive

Any advice on Cancer? Or two taurus together?



If the Cancer/Taurus is evolved, it should be a great match...It also depends on his other placements.

This was my experience...

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/first-love-experience-4542853/
This was of course, many many moons ago...😉
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I never ever dated cancer... Hardly would I get to know one.... 😉 I think I'm too extrovert for a cancer due to my airy placements
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Posted by SunTauVenGem
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by FivebyFive

Any advice on Cancer? Or two taurus together?



If the Cancer/Taurus is evolved, it should be a great match...It also depends on his other placements.

This was my experience...

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/first-love-experience-4542853/
This was of course, many many moons ago...😉

I never ever dated cancer... Hardly would I get to know one.... 😉 I think I'm too extrovert for a cancer due to my airy placements
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Not all Cancers are introverts. He may have placements that make him very extroverted. I seem to find the extroverted outgoing Crabs.
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Posted by FivebyFive
@suntauvengem....he keeps on looking at my profile so I know something's up. I hope I didn't scare him.

Have you dated a fellow bull? What are the arguments like?




@fivebyfive I am female bull and was with male bull 27yrs. Arguments were few, but when we did have one....2 bulls charging. Not in the physical sense, but emotionally hot! A lot of jealousy when we were younger, but we outgrew that, then the rest of years, just an occasional difference regarding money/family. He was mostly laid back kind of guy, hard working, dedicated. But every now and then our stubbornness locked horns. Not quite sure why your match guy hasn't gotten back to you. When I like someone I can't get them out of my mind. But keep talking with the other guys. Sometimes those dating sites are like that....someone comes on strong, then bam they're gone. Good luck!
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FivebyFive
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Geogianbull"..thank you.

I'm usually so great at reading and talking to people. I have re-reads what I wrote to him several times to try and pinpoint what I could have said to make him pull a whoodinnei on me, and I've gotten nothing? Answered all hi questions truthfully and even let him in to see some of my lesser flaws.

In his profile he keeps on stressing how he likes someone who is genuine, "respects people" and above all has manners. So that got me thinking maybe he didn't do this on purpose? I mentioned to him that I was sorry for the late emailed reply back (two days later after he sent me the last one), but I was busy preparing for a move to the east coast. I sent him the 4 page letter (a pun...it was prob like two) and at the end I told him I was going to be busy with friends in who will be in town until the 3rd & then I'm flying back to the east coast that morning.

So I was thinking maybe it's not him just straight ignoring me...maybe he's being respectful to the fact I have friends in town and planning a big move? I guess I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, and put myself in his shoes. What would I as a taurus, and a man do?

It just seems quite funny because at the moment I have two emails from guys who I started talking to after him that seem promising yet I can't let the one guy go. Not till I get an explanation on why he disappeared! I'm a big boy, and quite the tuna. So I ain't trippin if he's not interested, I just hate falsehoods, phonies, and flakes and if you put in your profile your all about manners then got damit be about them! Send a brother a simple "not interested" response it's really quite that simple.

Damn...it makes me really think do I play these saw like mind hunger games with dudes as well?