advice on Taurus girl

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Langvad
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Hi, a while back I posted about this friend I have who I have fallen for. I revealed my feelings for her which was a stupid thing because of bad timing as she got separated a couple of months back.
She said to me, as it is right now I only see u as this amazing friend, and as a Cap I took that really hard and wanted to cut her out of my life cause I felt hurt.
The next thing that happened was very shocking and new to me, as I texted her and told her that we probably shouldn't see each other again, she wrote back, if that's the way it should be then there's was nothing to do and that she would miss me and couldn't imagine not talking to me anymore. She wrote these nice things about me and I wrote back how much she means to me etc. After that we found out that both of us broke down and cried, she even cried in front of a customer at her workplace.
We ended up agreeing that we should try working out (as she is my training partner) and see how it would go. When there is a bond so strong which we obviously got, then I would like to ask u Taurus women on ur take, on what that could mean? We have an amazing chemistry and have this thing that we can look at each other and almost know what the other one is thinking. No matter how bad her mood is I can always make her smile and laugh to cheer her up, but as she is very "closed" she doesn't write to me if what I do means alot to her or... which is frustrating abit frustrating to me.
I told her one time after an argument that it was hard for me because I have feelings for her and I can't understand how something that seems so right can be so wrong, where as she smiled and said that she just couldn't think about that right now, which I understand.
She is the only girl I have never been able to just cut out of my life and honestly I can't imagine my life without her eventhough sometimes she seems abit thoughtless to me.
For the most part she has an amazing personality and humour and if there is just 1 day we haven't seen eachother she has alot of things to tell me. I hope it means alot to her that I'm there for her and will do just about anything for her, as I know she wouldn't take advantage of it, it's just hard cause I know we are so right for eachother and I don't even know if she finds anything about me attractive as she doesn't compliment my physical attributes, she did say that I'm crazy in a good way and have a good heart though.
So Taurus girls, do u think there is hope for me and her in t
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Time. Give it time. A Taurus gives 100% and beyond to a partner. If the heart has not healed then it cannot give that to someone else. Most..for I cannot say all..are like this. Approaching something serious IS serious, and nothing in half measures.
Our friends are treasured and we do love them dearly. I know it hurts on your end right now and is confusing. Do try to simply be her anchor, rise above self. She needs her mates, you never can tell what may take root from that. So lay the seeds and show her what you're made of. The good man in her life.
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sashavittoria1
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Okay Taurus I all about showing rather than telling, and as a Taurus woman I'm deinitely like that. So if she's attracted to you physically she'll show by touching or sitting near you, IF you guys are comfortable enough together which it seems like you are since you work out and have known each other for some time. Taureans are very PHYSICAL.

As for the time thing, OMG yes. Give it time. Taureans are very committed and if she just got separated it'll probably take a while for her to move on.

But it does seem like she likes you and really values you as a friend. Don't lose that!
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Langvad
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12 Years

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@sashavittoria1 well we have never had a problem touching, well she was abit more hesitant towards what she did when she was married and now it is like things are different between us also she has no problem being close to me.
Also it is like she makes a point of telling me that she is not getting back together with her ex if that means anything?
Anyway I will wait as long as it takes for her, and I think if there is going to be something more between us it will eventually happen.
But thanks for ur answers I will do what u write I should do.