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The Scarcity Theory Of Value
The Reality: People place a high value on something they have to work for.
You want your man to value you, you want him to put energy and effort into the relationship, you want him to puruse you with dignity, it's what you deserve. Permit this to happen.
Action Steps: When dating, don't always be available. Don't respond to texts immediately. Don't pick up the phone all the time. Don't return calls immediately. Don't rearrange your plans to accommodate a man. And never settle for being a booty call. Remain independent, yet flexible, and follow a certain set of "dating rules" for yourself.
The Result: The Scarcity Theory Of Value begins to work. He starts to see you as valuable. He begins to understand that your time is valuable, you are valuable, you are not desperate, and other things and people demand you time as well. His brain begins to subconsciously associate you with being valuable. It's human nature to process the message in that manner, male or female, which is why this law is applied to economics in the marketplace. Use this factor of human behavior to your advantage.
Men instinctively know this. Hell, they use this tactic every single day — on you. So get with the program.
The Reality: People place a high value on something they have to work for.
You want your man to value you, you want him to put energy and effort into the relationship, you want him to puruse you with dignity, it's what you deserve. Permit this to happen.
Action Steps: When dating, don't always be available. Don't respond to texts immediately. Don't pick up the phone all the time. Don't return calls immediately. Don't rearrange your plans to accommodate a man. And never settle for being a booty call. Remain independent, yet flexible, and follow a certain set of "dating rules" for yourself.
The Result: The Scarcity Theory Of Value begins to work. He starts to see you as valuable. He begins to understand that your time is valuable, you are valuable, you are not desperate, and other things and people demand you time as well. His brain begins to subconsciously associate you with being valuable. It's human nature to process the message in that manner, male or female, which is why this law is applied to economics in the marketplace. Use this factor of human behavior to your advantage.
Men instinctively know this. Hell, they use this tactic every single day — on you. So get with the program.
Research Suggests That Uncertainty Heightens Romantic Attraction
It's a fact, uncertainty creates attraction. Yet another factor that men instinctively know, understand and use to their advantage — DAILY. It goes back to — people want what they can't have.
Here's what happens in the human brain. When uncertainty exists, when you can't have something that you desire . . . you think about it constantly. When your man doesn't answer a text or ignores a call, you begin to think about him non-stop. What you don't realize is that all this heavy duty thinking is actually creating more desire for him. He knows that this uncertainty is heightening your attraction for him and there's actual research to back this theory up (PDF).
So now you need to flip the script and use this particular aspect of human behavior to your advantage.
So how do you do that? Take a lesson from him. Play it cool, ladies. In the early days of dating, never let a man know you??re crazy about him. That is, unless you??re looking for the —hit and run?? type of situation.
Fact: If you let your man know immediately that you??re falling for him and/or you sleep with him too soon (no sooner than one or two months, ladies), he will immediately move you into the —backup?? or —plan B?? situation.
Why? Because the thrill is gone and he's already tasted the goods. He now knows he doesn't have to put another ounce of energy into you. He's got you right where he wants you — under his thumb. And he now knows he can disappear for days, weeks, months, years. And if he wants you again, if he's bored or other women have rejected him, he'll need an ego boost so he'll be likely to ring you and then, BAM - there you are. Rearranging your schedule, jumping through hoops and giddy that he's contacted you again.
Fact: Once a man has fully —conquered?? something, he's apt to lose interest in it. You need to never let him think he's got you or won you over, even if you know he already has.
Action Steps: Never talk about the future in the early days of dating. Never jump through hoops and never let him see you're giddy about what's taking place. Play it cool, just like men do. Hang back, be fun, be spontaneous and be open. But do this on your time and as you see fit. Most likely, he'll poke around with leading statements so he can get a feel for whether or not you're into him.
It's a fact, uncertainty creates attraction. Yet another factor that men instinctively know, understand and use to their advantage — DAILY. It goes back to — people want what they can't have.
Here's what happens in the human brain. When uncertainty exists, when you can't have something that you desire . . . you think about it constantly. When your man doesn't answer a text or ignores a call, you begin to think about him non-stop. What you don't realize is that all this heavy duty thinking is actually creating more desire for him. He knows that this uncertainty is heightening your attraction for him and there's actual research to back this theory up (PDF).
So now you need to flip the script and use this particular aspect of human behavior to your advantage.
So how do you do that? Take a lesson from him. Play it cool, ladies. In the early days of dating, never let a man know you??re crazy about him. That is, unless you??re looking for the —hit and run?? type of situation.
Fact: If you let your man know immediately that you??re falling for him and/or you sleep with him too soon (no sooner than one or two months, ladies), he will immediately move you into the —backup?? or —plan B?? situation.
Why? Because the thrill is gone and he's already tasted the goods. He now knows he doesn't have to put another ounce of energy into you. He's got you right where he wants you — under his thumb. And he now knows he can disappear for days, weeks, months, years. And if he wants you again, if he's bored or other women have rejected him, he'll need an ego boost so he'll be likely to ring you and then, BAM - there you are. Rearranging your schedule, jumping through hoops and giddy that he's contacted you again.
Fact: Once a man has fully —conquered?? something, he's apt to lose interest in it. You need to never let him think he's got you or won you over, even if you know he already has.
Action Steps: Never talk about the future in the early days of dating. Never jump through hoops and never let him see you're giddy about what's taking place. Play it cool, just like men do. Hang back, be fun, be spontaneous and be open. But do this on your time and as you see fit. Most likely, he'll poke around with leading statements so he can get a feel for whether or not you're into him.
Men Pull Stunts To Gauge Your Feelings And Reassure Themselves
This is the oldest trick in the book and a known fact as to how men reassure themselves. You can expect a man to distance himself and pull back before diving in headfirst and/or right after having sex. So just know this and be prepared for it ladies. Don't panic and go off the rails.
When men feel uncertain and seek reassurance, they don't do it like women do — by talking about their feelings and emotions over coffee or a bottle of wine all night long. Men seek reassurance by pulling stunts, like making you jealous, making you worry or the the good ole?? disappearing man act.
Ever notice how the punk player laughs, smiles and smirks when his girlfriend goes off into a jealous rage about another woman calling or approaching him? Watch for that, the Billy Idol half smile. Experts in human behavior and body language refer to that tiny half smile as "duping delight." It's a sure sign that he's pleased as punch about the attention he's getting, how important he feels at that moment, and about how much his girl cares for him. Really insecure guys, like players, pull stuff like this all the time to make themselves feel important, wanted and confident.
Because let's face it, if you didn't care, you wouldn't be going off, half-cocked, about the issue.
This is the oldest trick in the book and a known fact as to how men reassure themselves. You can expect a man to distance himself and pull back before diving in headfirst and/or right after having sex. So just know this and be prepared for it ladies. Don't panic and go off the rails.
When men feel uncertain and seek reassurance, they don't do it like women do — by talking about their feelings and emotions over coffee or a bottle of wine all night long. Men seek reassurance by pulling stunts, like making you jealous, making you worry or the the good ole?? disappearing man act.
Ever notice how the punk player laughs, smiles and smirks when his girlfriend goes off into a jealous rage about another woman calling or approaching him? Watch for that, the Billy Idol half smile. Experts in human behavior and body language refer to that tiny half smile as "duping delight." It's a sure sign that he's pleased as punch about the attention he's getting, how important he feels at that moment, and about how much his girl cares for him. Really insecure guys, like players, pull stuff like this all the time to make themselves feel important, wanted and confident.
Because let's face it, if you didn't care, you wouldn't be going off, half-cocked, about the issue.
Posted by scorpioglitter
The Scarcity Theory Of Value
The Reality: People place a high value on something they have to work for.
You want your man to value you, you want him to put energy and effort into the relationship, you want him to puruse you with dignity, it's what you deserve. Permit this to happen.
Action Steps: When dating, don't always be available. Don't respond to texts immediately. Don't pick up the phone all the time. Don't return calls immediately. Don't rearrange your plans to accommodate a man. And never settle for being a booty call. Remain independent, yet flexible, and follow a certain set of "dating rules" for yourself.
The Result: The Scarcity Theory Of Value begins to work. He starts to see you as valuable. He begins to understand that your time is valuable, you are valuable, you are not desperate, and other things and people demand you time as well. His brain begins to subconsciously associate you with being valuable. It's human nature to process the message in that manner, male or female, which is why this law is applied to economics in the marketplace. Use this factor of human behavior to your advantage.
Men instinctively know this. Hell, they use this tactic every single day — on you. So get with the program.
Very well said!
In the process of picking up the pieces of my broken heart a Taurus left all over the place!
Sometimes you need to get back to the 'basics!' Thanks for reminding me! :-)
What To Do When Your Man Disappears: The Rubber Band Theory
When he goes MIA, you do too. You fall off his radar, hell you fall off the face of the earth, and all he hears are crickets chirping in the distance on a silent night.
How That Works: It tells him that you??re okay giving him space and that he's not that incredibly important to you. Being alone is okay with you and besides, there are others out there who want your time as well, so this really isn't a big deal. You have other options and your strong, emotionally.
The Result: He's thinking about you non stop. He's not getting the reaction he thought he??d get. You're different and he's actually admiring your emotional strength. He's impressed by it. But it's also triggering HIS insecurities. Is there someone else? Is she over me? Why isn't she blowing up my phone?
Once he moves through that thought process, much like a rubber band, he'll spring back towards you. He'll think, "I'd better go check and see what's going on."
This is based on a dating theory called "The Rubber Band Theory" which concludes that this is part of the male intimacy process - getting close, then pulling away to think, remain independent, feel manly and not get too caught up in HIS emotions. Men do this to maintain a nice, healthy balance.
I'm telling you ladies, if you send one text, make one phone call — you??re going to BLOW THIS. He??ll be gone in sixty seconds. He??ll instantly know there is no other man on the scene and his attraction for you will disappear in a flash. You will look emotionally pathetic to him.
Maintain your strength in this situation. One of two things will happen:
He??ll stay gone for good. In which case, you??ve got your answer, no more waiting around for him — and you??ve dodged a bullet here because he wasn't that into you to begin with. And had you stuck around for more games, grief and pain, more is definitely what you will have received.
He??ll suddenly reappear. He??ll have had time to think, he??ll have had plenty of space and the rubber band effect will kick in — and he'll come around to seek you out. He'll mis you and that's what you want him to do.
In psychology, there are two kinds of love, passionate and companionate. And passionate love is defined as an intense longing for union with another individual (PDF).
Men and women both tend to equate longing with love and many scientists and anthropologists believe it to be a cult
When he goes MIA, you do too. You fall off his radar, hell you fall off the face of the earth, and all he hears are crickets chirping in the distance on a silent night.
How That Works: It tells him that you??re okay giving him space and that he's not that incredibly important to you. Being alone is okay with you and besides, there are others out there who want your time as well, so this really isn't a big deal. You have other options and your strong, emotionally.
The Result: He's thinking about you non stop. He's not getting the reaction he thought he??d get. You're different and he's actually admiring your emotional strength. He's impressed by it. But it's also triggering HIS insecurities. Is there someone else? Is she over me? Why isn't she blowing up my phone?
Once he moves through that thought process, much like a rubber band, he'll spring back towards you. He'll think, "I'd better go check and see what's going on."
This is based on a dating theory called "The Rubber Band Theory" which concludes that this is part of the male intimacy process - getting close, then pulling away to think, remain independent, feel manly and not get too caught up in HIS emotions. Men do this to maintain a nice, healthy balance.
I'm telling you ladies, if you send one text, make one phone call — you??re going to BLOW THIS. He??ll be gone in sixty seconds. He??ll instantly know there is no other man on the scene and his attraction for you will disappear in a flash. You will look emotionally pathetic to him.
Maintain your strength in this situation. One of two things will happen:
He??ll stay gone for good. In which case, you??ve got your answer, no more waiting around for him — and you??ve dodged a bullet here because he wasn't that into you to begin with. And had you stuck around for more games, grief and pain, more is definitely what you will have received.
He??ll suddenly reappear. He??ll have had time to think, he??ll have had plenty of space and the rubber band effect will kick in — and he'll come around to seek you out. He'll mis you and that's what you want him to do.
In psychology, there are two kinds of love, passionate and companionate. And passionate love is defined as an intense longing for union with another individual (PDF).
Men and women both tend to equate longing with love and many scientists and anthropologists believe it to be a cult
What To Do When Your Man Reappears: Behavioral Mirroring
If he's gone, good riddance. He wasn't into you anyway and/or he's insecure. If he reappears, you get a second chance, girls, so don't blow it. You flip the switch and work your voodoo magic on his ass. You take control and you move things forward in your way and on your time and at your pace, not his.
He's just revealed to you that YOU now have HIM. Gotcha little bastard — game on. (And remember, he started all this by making himself scarce, by not answering texts, and acting like he doesn't care. You don't want to play this game, but they insist on it — so here you are, game face on.)
If he's worth it, here's what you do when he suddenly reappears:
Action Step: Don't answer that text or return that call for two or three days. Yes, three days, girls, this is important. You're taking a stance and you don't budge on that or he'll call you on that, he'll sense hesitation and weakness, and he'll take control again. Simply use another psychological tactic called mirroring and mirror his behavior. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all is fair in love and war.
What He Hears: This poor treatment is not something you'll overlook. You won't go off the rails about it, but you're no dummy either and now he knows this. You have a life and you're going to live it, with or without him. You know the meaning of consequence and bad behavior doesn't earn your attention. Bad behavior earns consequences, those of which you're not afraid to dole out, and you will hold him accountable for his actions. You will not reward him for them.
There's a great old saying I love, "Never treat someone like your priority while they're treating you like their option."
Action Step: Make your response friendly, casual and keep it carefree. In otherwords, you could care less and these little pranks mean nothing to you.
If you get the proverbial, —Hey?? text or some sorry ass excuse for where the hell he's been for a month (he was abducted by aliens) then three days later, you simply ignore the excuse he provided and say:
—Hey what's up? It was nice to hear from you, I hope things are going well. I??ve been so busy lately, we??ll have to get together sometime soon. Have a great day, talk to ya?? later!??
If he's gone, good riddance. He wasn't into you anyway and/or he's insecure. If he reappears, you get a second chance, girls, so don't blow it. You flip the switch and work your voodoo magic on his ass. You take control and you move things forward in your way and on your time and at your pace, not his.
He's just revealed to you that YOU now have HIM. Gotcha little bastard — game on. (And remember, he started all this by making himself scarce, by not answering texts, and acting like he doesn't care. You don't want to play this game, but they insist on it — so here you are, game face on.)
If he's worth it, here's what you do when he suddenly reappears:
Action Step: Don't answer that text or return that call for two or three days. Yes, three days, girls, this is important. You're taking a stance and you don't budge on that or he'll call you on that, he'll sense hesitation and weakness, and he'll take control again. Simply use another psychological tactic called mirroring and mirror his behavior. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all is fair in love and war.
What He Hears: This poor treatment is not something you'll overlook. You won't go off the rails about it, but you're no dummy either and now he knows this. You have a life and you're going to live it, with or without him. You know the meaning of consequence and bad behavior doesn't earn your attention. Bad behavior earns consequences, those of which you're not afraid to dole out, and you will hold him accountable for his actions. You will not reward him for them.
There's a great old saying I love, "Never treat someone like your priority while they're treating you like their option."
Action Step: Make your response friendly, casual and keep it carefree. In otherwords, you could care less and these little pranks mean nothing to you.
If you get the proverbial, —Hey?? text or some sorry ass excuse for where the hell he's been for a month (he was abducted by aliens) then three days later, you simply ignore the excuse he provided and say:
—Hey what's up? It was nice to hear from you, I hope things are going well. I??ve been so busy lately, we??ll have to get together sometime soon. Have a great day, talk to ya?? later!??
What He Hears: You??re still there but now you're farther apart. Remember the rubber band theory, ladies. Men like a little bit of tension, it's exciting and makes them curious. Treating you like this will not be the way to your heart and does not make you want to spend time with him. He knows what he did was wrong, you don't have to tell him. So now, he's a bit confused and you have the uncertainty factor of human behavior working to your advantage. And remember, uncertainty creates romantic attraction.
If he disappears for good, he was an insecure guy who was beat at his own game. What up now, player? And the last thing on earth you want to date is an insecure guy who is a player, so be gone fool.
Insecure guys are a bit different concerning this prank — they do it just to prove they can get a girl to jump. They don't even have to like her. Deep down, they don't feel like a man. Making a woman jump makes them feel manly. You don't need a guy who is out to prove something to himself. Period. You want a man, not an insecure little boy who plays games to feel like a man.
Just give it some time. He??ll think about this and if he's a real man and he genuinely likes you, he??ll be back. Nagging and chasing is what he expects. You not caring and blowing him off is not what he expects. Don't let him push your buttons, push his and throw him for a loop.
If he disappears for good, he was an insecure guy who was beat at his own game. What up now, player? And the last thing on earth you want to date is an insecure guy who is a player, so be gone fool.
Insecure guys are a bit different concerning this prank — they do it just to prove they can get a girl to jump. They don't even have to like her. Deep down, they don't feel like a man. Making a woman jump makes them feel manly. You don't need a guy who is out to prove something to himself. Period. You want a man, not an insecure little boy who plays games to feel like a man.
Just give it some time. He??ll think about this and if he's a real man and he genuinely likes you, he??ll be back. Nagging and chasing is what he expects. You not caring and blowing him off is not what he expects. Don't let him push your buttons, push his and throw him for a loop.
Shake Things Up And Blow Them Off: The Push Pull Method
Ever notice that the men you ignore are generally the one's blowing up your phone? Why is that, you ask? Because you could care less about them and this kicks in a natural human behavior tendency to prove themselves to you, to win you over, to beat out other men, and claim the prize. So they start vying for your attention and going to great lengths to get it.
There's a dating principal that many refer to as "The Push Pull Method." And it works boths ways, on men and women, in most cases. It's a way to be interesting and fun without being too nice or too mean.
I??ll keep this section simple. Playing it safe is boring. A man needs to be unable to predict your next move if he's to find you intriquing. So start to shake things up a bit by creating some tension, pulling back on that rubber band a bit - and hold tight for him to spring back at you.
Ever notice that the men you ignore are generally the one's blowing up your phone? Why is that, you ask? Because you could care less about them and this kicks in a natural human behavior tendency to prove themselves to you, to win you over, to beat out other men, and claim the prize. So they start vying for your attention and going to great lengths to get it.
There's a dating principal that many refer to as "The Push Pull Method." And it works boths ways, on men and women, in most cases. It's a way to be interesting and fun without being too nice or too mean.
I??ll keep this section simple. Playing it safe is boring. A man needs to be unable to predict your next move if he's to find you intriquing. So start to shake things up a bit by creating some tension, pulling back on that rubber band a bit - and hold tight for him to spring back at you.
Men Are Competitive and Love To Chase
For women, the end result is what's exciting, the future. For men, it's the opposite, it's the journey that's thrilling to them, the here and now.
Men like to hunt. It plays on their natural, psychological tendency to enjoy competition. Permit yourself to become the prey and let them hunt you. Remember, it's also part of the human psychological condition to place a higher value on something you have to work for and in the modern day marketplace, it's being used everyday.
There's a great line in the movie, "The Break-Up." When Vince Vaughn and his buddy go into a nightclub, they say, "Let's seperate the weak ones from the pack." Clearly they were on the hunt.
Ladies, you??re the prey. He's the hunter. Now run!
For women, the end result is what's exciting, the future. For men, it's the opposite, it's the journey that's thrilling to them, the here and now.
Men like to hunt. It plays on their natural, psychological tendency to enjoy competition. Permit yourself to become the prey and let them hunt you. Remember, it's also part of the human psychological condition to place a higher value on something you have to work for and in the modern day marketplace, it's being used everyday.
There's a great line in the movie, "The Break-Up." When Vince Vaughn and his buddy go into a nightclub, they say, "Let's seperate the weak ones from the pack." Clearly they were on the hunt.
Ladies, you??re the prey. He's the hunter. Now run!
Posted by LurverlurverPosted by scorpioglitter
The Scarcity Theory Of Value
The Reality: People place a high value on something they have to work for.
You want your man to value you, you want him to put energy and effort into the relationship, you want him to puruse you with dignity, it's what you deserve. Permit this to happen.
Action Steps: When dating, don't always be available. Don't respond to texts immediately. Don't pick up the phone all the time. Don't return calls immediately. Don't rearrange your plans to accommodate a man. And never settle for being a booty call. Remain independent, yet flexible, and follow a certain set of "dating rules" for yourself.
The Result: The Scarcity Theory Of Value begins to work. He starts to see you as valuable. He begins to understand that your time is valuable, you are valuable, you are not desperate, and other things and people demand you time as well. His brain begins to subconsciously associate you with being valuable. It's human nature to process the message in that manner, male or female, which is why this law is applied to economics in the marketplace. Use this factor of human behavior to your advantage.
Men instinctively know this. Hell, they use this tactic every single day — on you. So get with the program.
Very well said!
In the process of picking up the pieces of my broken heart a Taurus left all over the place!
Sometimes you need to get back to the 'basics!' Thanks for reminding me! :-)click to expand
you're very welcome! i personally think it makes a lot of sense, and makes it easier to decode relathionships...hope it helps someone. Sure helped me! 😉
Posted by sandynads
scarcity doesn't work on taurus. they use it on you. male coquettes dem bulls.
y men marry bitches works for taurus IMHO. iv never read it but the title is self explanatory.
I've never read it either, might just give it a try...
If what you call 'men' aka little boys who play games to feel like men, like to hunt then why dont they just go and hunt some animals and kill them for something to do.
This is such BULLSHIT!!
Men, not little boys who want to feel like men, do behave this way they know they are MEN!!
Enough with the psycobabble bullshit please.
This is such BULLSHIT!!
Men, not little boys who want to feel like men, do behave this way they know they are MEN!!
Enough with the psycobabble bullshit please.
since when did love become such a game !!! such a fool ...what happened to the taurus consistency ..if he dissapear for 24 hours does that count ?
* sigh * does that mean i have to get involved with his stupid mind game ? rubber band approach ! its so damn stupid.. ! he was so close and sweet then bammmm like i don't mean a thing ! mind playing it is !
* sigh * does that mean i have to get involved with his stupid mind game ? rubber band approach ! its so damn stupid.. ! he was so close and sweet then bammmm like i don't mean a thing ! mind playing it is !
Posted by sandynads
scarcity doesn't work on taurus. they use it on you. male coquettes dem bulls.
y men marry bitches works for taurus IMHO. iv never read it but the title is self explanatory.
these are excerpts from Why men love bitches
havent read the sequel yet
Posted by Rabbit
LOL @ this shit
If you have a genuine connection with a genuine person, neither of you need to pull this stupid shit.
No wonder so many people are single *smgdh*
thats what I always thought but it seems like the people who play the most games are the happiest
Posted by scorpioglitter
They're honing these skills from childhood. Very early on young boys learn that the best way to get what they want from the woman in their life, namely mom, is to play on her emotions.
Oh boy, the call out.
Hi Lurverlurver,
Your comment is true.. but again there is no FORMULA on how to be a successful in relationship.
I kept saying that to my taurus bf. we got back again and live with him ..
women should practice how to date a man without too much emotional consumption.
This is what I do and even when we broke up.. still I stick to the ''NC'' thing that he wanted.
I gave him the dosage he needs... lol
I really don't get it though.
I am a Taurus and I am the opposite of what is being described in these threads. However, I am currently stuck with a Scorp girl who again matches most of the stuff suggested here...
This isn't specific to any sign. I really think that it boils down to whether you are emotionally ready for a relationship or grown up enough to understand that the heart and feelings are sensitive and you can't mess with them... period.
Where I am currently at, I feel like just giving up because she gives me hints of interest, hints of care, and then turns around and casts it away like nothing. I wanna give up, but I wanna hold on...
Most people don't have a clue what they want, and eventually give in to what is left after they have burned all bridges and opportunities they had. This is really a maturity issue for me. If you don't like me or gonna friend zone a dude do it straight off the bat. If your gonna mess around and never show interest in anycase apart from cheap skate jungle justice monkey love bs fwb... bugger off.
Lastly, I think we allow to much of this on our selves as well. We make something out of nothing. If it ain't there it never was and probably never will be. Two sides to every coin. We have our selves to blame as much as the person not being straight up enough.
There is no guide, no fixed method, and no single sign responsible. If your disappointed, be disappointed at your self for allowing it, or disappointed for not listening. Simple as that.
I am a Taurus and I am the opposite of what is being described in these threads. However, I am currently stuck with a Scorp girl who again matches most of the stuff suggested here...
This isn't specific to any sign. I really think that it boils down to whether you are emotionally ready for a relationship or grown up enough to understand that the heart and feelings are sensitive and you can't mess with them... period.
Where I am currently at, I feel like just giving up because she gives me hints of interest, hints of care, and then turns around and casts it away like nothing. I wanna give up, but I wanna hold on...
Most people don't have a clue what they want, and eventually give in to what is left after they have burned all bridges and opportunities they had. This is really a maturity issue for me. If you don't like me or gonna friend zone a dude do it straight off the bat. If your gonna mess around and never show interest in anycase apart from cheap skate jungle justice monkey love bs fwb... bugger off.
Lastly, I think we allow to much of this on our selves as well. We make something out of nothing. If it ain't there it never was and probably never will be. Two sides to every coin. We have our selves to blame as much as the person not being straight up enough.
There is no guide, no fixed method, and no single sign responsible. If your disappointed, be disappointed at your self for allowing it, or disappointed for not listening. Simple as that.
Oh, I love Aphrodite!
Who doesn't love the goddess of love?
I can say I've been a victim of this but the other way around, definitely always to available, ready, and willing. It exists on both sides of things.
I've read that blog already... very nice and practical advice by mirror of Aphrodite. very true indeed regarding the dark side of taurean
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Ok, Ladies . . this one's for you. I see the multitude of comments left by women here under the post titled, —Experiences With A Taurus Male?? asking questions such as:
"He was so nice, he started off so strong. Where did he go? What should I do? I text him and he doesn't respond. I call and he doesn't answer. Help!??
Standing your ground in the early days of dating is absolutely necessary for your sanity, dignity and relationship perspective. Unless, of course, you prefer to be a co-dependant Polly Anna instead.
Men, just like children, will always test their boundaries with you. It's just a fact of life. They don't sit around plotting and planning this behavior intentionally. It's psychological, preprogrammed. It's a gift of insight into the female species from good ole' Mother Nature. At its purest form, it's meant to give them the upper hand - so they can succssfully mate, procreate and perpetuate the human species. It's behavior they're not aware of - but utilizing daily.
They're honing these skills from childhood. Very early on young boys learn that the best way to get what they want from the woman in their life, namely mom, is to play on her emotions. And as we speak, some little boy on some playground somewhere is punching the little girl he likes in the arm, running away, laughing.
It is what it is, girls. Accept it.
This is not —games?? or manipulation of some sort. You need to remember is this — men do indeed play games. It's pure instinct. Men are acutely aware of the factors that trigger —attraction.?? And if you don't get a grip and counter these moves that every single man in the world will use on you — then you??re going to become the woman with 17 cats faster than you can say, —Bastard.??
First thing you need to understand, and it's one factor that men are born understanding, is . . .