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If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Pisces
you are . . .

The Succulent Slave of Love


There is a sensitive, dreamy quality about your approach to love that somewhat belies your strong and very physical erotic appetites. You are the Mars in Capricorn Lover most in touch with your feelings. You require a sense of emotional commitment and security from your relationships and you have a weakness for glamour and fantasy in you sex life. Some people might even jump to the conclusion that you are a romantic but, beneath all this sweetness and frivolity, you still have a very practical and hard-nosed attitude toward sex.


Since you often appear shy and vulnerable, it is sometimes assumed that you are essentially a passive Lover. Nothing could be farther from the truth. You generally control your relationships in very subtle ways, using emotional leverage and feelings of obligation and duty to get your way, but you can be much more direct when such measures are required. People who enter your fantasy world of love with expectations of a simple good time are often disappointed. There's a lot of work to be done within that sexy dream world of yours and you expect it to be done well.


The oddest example of The Succulent Slave of Love is Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (born Jan. 27, 1836 adb,) the author of "Venus in Furs" and the man for whom the term —masochism?? was coined. Essentially, Sacher-Masoch asked women to beat and humiliate him but his fantasy went farther than that. The woman not only had to treat him like a servant, she had to betray him with just the right kind of snarling rogue. Sacher-Masoch spent much of his life trying to engineer this sexual drama first with a woman he paid and then with his wife.??His wife played the dominate role in these strange proceedings but always according to scenarios meticulously planned by Sacher-Masoch.

Hahahaha, love it!


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If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Ariesyou are . . .
The Hurry Home Body
You are the most confrontational of the Mars in Cancer Lovers. You??re not going to sit back all sexy and nice and hope someone gives you the love and emotional support you need; you go out and demand it. Nor are you likely to be satisfied with merely security and comfort in your relationships. You have a strong sense of pride and you also need your partner to recognize all your talents and abilities. Of all the Mars in Cancer Lovers you are the most protective of your Beloved and the most likely to come out swinging if you feel that your partner is being threatened. You are not afraid to fight for what you need but you are even more willing to fight for the one you love.




Your erotic life is naturally full of fire, conflict and crazy passion. Your feelings are so strong and your desires so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you are giving yourself completely, the next you are angrily demanding a refund. The person who loves you must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.

No bad....made me lol! ^^^^^^^ sexy and a challenge perfect! 🙂
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If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Aries
you are . . .

The Sensual Savage


You are a competitive Mars in Taurus Lover. You are always looking for a challenge in your love life even it is just trying to top your last encounter. Even though you have this luscious capacity for physical pleasure, you are never altogether satisfied with your sexuality. No matter what kind of sex you??re getting, you find yourself wanting more, or better, or maybe just different. This restlessness often disrupts you basically conservative approach to sex and leads you into bad relationships and embarrassing situations.


On the positive side, you are the Mars in Taurus lover least likely to settle into a predictable, sensual rut in your love life. You are always ready for a new experience and not afraid to take chances. You understand that the plodding search for sensation gets boring after a while unless it is accompanied by an element of passion. This intense, even combative approach to desire makes you an exciting, provocative lover who is often hard to satisfy but always worth the trouble.

Our examples for this group include three men who made hasty marriages that they latter regretted. The first is the composer Pyotr Tchaikovksy (born May 10, 1840 adb.) A homosexual, Tchaikovksy was lured into and impulsive marriage to an emotionally unstable woman. Naturally, the marriage proved to be a disaster for both parties .

The second is the abstract expressionist painter Willem De Kooning (born April 4, 1904 adb.) De Kooning married Elaine Fried, who was his student for a time. His young wife proved to be compulsively unfaithful and, even though her lovers included high-profile art critics who boosted the painter??s career, De Kooning was deeply chagrined and retreated into alcoholism. The loud, sometimes violent battles between De Kooning and Fried became a staple for parties and other gathering of the Greenwich Village set long after the couple divorced .

President Andrew Jackson (born March 15, 1767 adb) adored his wife but his impulsive Venus in Aries nature led him to marry her before she was properly divorced from her abusive and philandering first husband. Afterwards, the hot-headed Jackson was quick to challenge to a duel anyone who questioned the legality of his marriage and the honor of his bride.
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This is my taurus guy:

If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Taurusyou are . . .
The Technician of Physical Love
You are the most sensual of the Mars in Gemini Lovers and nowhere are the erotic skills of this type put to better use. Your approach to sex is cool and clear-headed but you also have a hardy appreciation for the joys of the flesh that makes you a very desirable partner. You are not as adventurous as many Lovers of this type. Even though your own ideas about sex may be wide open, you have a stubborn respect for convention and you don't like breaking the rules.


The problems in your love life are typically caused by laziness. Sometimes you settle for relationships that satisfy your physical needs and your natural taste for material comfort but which do not challenge and intrigue you intellectually, condemning yourself to sexual boredom and making you a dissatisfied, listless Lover. You need a partner with whom you have as much intellectual affinity as you do sensual pleasure. These relationships may be a little more risky but at least you??ll be forced to pay attention.

I'd like to think I keep him on his toes lol.

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Candeh15
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And this is me lol:

If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Leo you are . . .
The Sensual Show-Off
You are too demonstrative a Lover with too much of an appreciation for drama and display in your love life to keep it completely secret. And, typically, you??re having too much fun to care. You are a boisterous, fiery Mars in Taurus Lover: warm-hearted, generous and profoundly sensual. You have a taste for the unusual in your sexual experiences and bragging rights matter as much as sensation.


The conservative side of your sexual nature often shows itself most in your need for control. Sex loses its appeal for you the minute you feel you are being forced to play by someone else's rules. There is nothing fancy in your need to control your own sex life. You have no taste for psychological manipulation. You just like to be the person who says where, when, and how the relationship is going to progress. Even if you??re not the person in control, you like it understood that you could be. Anyone willing to live by these rules will find you a very compliant Lover.

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Posted by BellatheBull
If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Aries
you are . . .

The Sensual Savage



Hey, I've got the flip side of yours in case you ever fall into that rabbit hole.

If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Taurus
you are . . .

The Reluctant Extremist


Yours is a difficult combination. A sensualist at heart, you don't really approve of the headlong recklessness of your sexual nature. You would like to slow down and give your senses ample time to drink in each erotic experience but you find that your Mars in Aries nature runs well only in high gear and the more you try to put on the brakes the more ungainly and muddled you appear. You are among the most practical Mars in Aries Lover but, unfortunately, your actions often give little evidence of this wisdom.


On the positive side, in the right situation and with the right partner, your unique combination of sensual patience and volcanic passion can make you a gifted Lover. And there is a sweetness and soft conventionality about your sexual nature that allows you to get away with sexual extremes that might land other Mars in Aries Lovers in jail. If you can learn from your frustrations and build on your strengths, your capacity for erotic expression is unlimited.


CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE RELUCTANT EXTREMIST


Among the famous examples of The Reluctant Extremist we certainly have some sad tales. There's Edward, the Duke of Windsor (June 23, 1894 adb,) who gave up his throne in order to marry a domineering American divorcee named Wallis Simpson?? and silent film comedian Roscoe —Fatty?? Arbuckle (born March 24, 1887 adb,) whose career was shattered after it was alleged that he had sexually assaulted a young woman who died in his home during a party.—? In her 2008 autobiography singer and songwriter Janis Ian (born Apr. 7, 1951 wik) revealed a how she suffered bad and abusive sexual relationships with both genders.?? sOf course, mass murderer Jeffery Dahmer (born May 21, 1960 adb,) took the notion of —bad relationships?? to new and horrific extremes.

This group also includes the enigmatic and erotically supercharged rock musician, Prince (born June 7, 1958 adb)....
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Damn! Even my sex life is a contradiction. Yikes yikes yikes, except for Prince - ahh redeemed
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damn, i'm awesome 🙂

If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Aries
you are . . .


The Extreme Extremist


You have no capacity for soft words or gentle persuasion. You win hearts with the explosive force of your ego or not at all. The intensity of your lovemaking along with your aggressive, sometimes even belligerent approach to relationships will likely frighten away many prospective partners. But those brave enough to weather the storms will find you a passionate, caring and fiercely loyal Lover.


The real problem in your sex life is finding a stopping place. You develop intense bonds with your sexual partners but you rarely give yourself a chance to stop and enjoy the fruits of these relationships. You are always moving away from, or struggling against comfort and complacency. This makes you are a restless and inconsistent Lover who, despite all your fiery passion and loyalty, often has difficulty holding onto love.
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If you have Mars in Sagittarius with Venus in Aries you are . . .

The Leading Love Child
You are a charming, effervescent Lover, so full of life and optimism that no one can resist you for long. Of course, your approach to love is so reckless, so direct, so thoughtless and impulsive that you need every bit of that charm, plus a fair amount of luck just to survive the often calamitous consequences of your actions. From your point of view, good sex is a matter of creating as much excitement, and havoc, as you and your Beloved can tolerate.

It is not just thrills that you??re seeking in your sex life. You??re also looking for experiences that will feed your ego and leave you feeling singular and empowered. Sensation for its own sake holds little interest for you and sexual relationships that offer only basic gratification are essentially useless to you. Because of this you often push your relationships and the people you love to the edge. You want them to love you for the challenge. The pleasure is just a fringe benefit.




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If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Gemini

you are . . .


The Playful Sensualist


You are a deft and inventive Lover who combines Mars in Taurus earthiness with the consummate skill of a thoughtful and unembarrassed connoisseur of physical pleasures. You are the most curious Lover of this type. You pay just as much attention to what can be learned about love and sex intellectually as you do to the instinctive drives of your body. At times this causes you to over-think your love-making, to make something complex out of what (at least for a Mars in Taurus person) should always be simple, but more often your intellectual curiosity only makes you a better informed and more capable partner.


At your worse, you are too clever about sex and love for your own good; too concerned about getting the best deal for your sensual nature. Relationships become transactions: this much sex of a certain quality weighed against this much emotional effort and commitment. Thinking like this can only make your love life soulless and mechanical and drive the people you love most away. You are the cleverest and most skillful Lover of the supremely sensual type but these marvelous capacities are of little use if you have no one with whom you can share them.



Haha Hmmm not sure if that's a good thing or not... I am REALLY playful though.. haha tickling, wrestling, play fights.. Anyone of those that end up in bed... MmmmHmmmmm hahaha 😉


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ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
If you have Mars in Sagittarius with Venus in Aries you are . . .

The Leading Love Child
You are a charming, effervescent Lover, so full of life and optimism that no one can resist you for long.




This bodes well....only a matter of time Mr Bull🙂



".....sexual relationships that offer only basic gratification are essentially useless to you...."

Can't argue with this.