Please help me decipher this Taurus guy's reply?

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he has a cancer moon, 12 May.

I asked him through text if he liked me, and our conversation went like this.
me: "Do you like me"
B: "hahaa""what""yes""are you fishing for compliments or something"
me: "but do you like like me""no, I don't like getting complimented duh"
B: "I think you're really pretty xoxoxoxoxoxo""I don't fancy you""I like you""Wouldn't go as far to say i love you platonically""somewhere in between that"

I completely sensed that he rejected me in a nice way, so I told him to forget that conversation happened, and changed to a new topic. He thinks I asked him that question because I had low self-esteem. But I'm asking this question as my friends all thinks that he meant he liked me, so I'm really confused now.

We also had this conversation before
B: "I think you're really beautiful"
me: "hahaha you'll break my heart if you're lying"
B: "I NEVER LIE"
me: "okay go back to sleep"

And he asked me if I liked him a quite few months ago, spontaneously, and I told him I liked him as a friend, as I didn't think he'd even like someone like me at all, and I thought he was just feeling low.

I'm scorpio btw, 3 Nov. Thank you so much!

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ok trust me when i say this to you..PATIENCE IS THE KEY!!!!!!!!! i have been with my abosolute Adonis Taraus man for alomst a year, and being a pisces i leaped in month 2...i knew what i was doin!! For some strange and odd reason without saying i knew he was my soul mate, and no matter how hard he tried not to feel..HE COULDNT STAY AWAY!! So i took the chance, I had to see how he would react. Nooooo of course he didnt react right away because hes a stubborn bull, but baby when I gave him what he said "he wanted" he didnt..he wanted space i had to find something else to occupy my time, but i gave it to him...and guess what...not even 1 week later..he told me he couldnt stay away...and that he was in fallin in love with me too...but he still is who is is... he doesnt like all the mushy lovey dovey stuff..i respect that but I GOT HIM!!! So dont stop being you and lovin on him, he wont tell you but he loves it!! he eats it up, why becuase he actually trusts you!! thats big for them!!!
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Posted by firstaidkit
he has a cancer moon, 12 May.

I asked him through text if he liked me, and our conversation went like this.
me: "Do you like me"
B: "hahaa""what""yes""are you fishing for compliments or something"
me: "but do you like like me""no, I don't like getting complimented duh"
B: "I think you're really pretty xoxoxoxoxoxo""I don't fancy you""I like you""Wouldn't go as far to say i love you platonically""somewhere in between that"

I completely sensed that he rejected me in a nice way, so I told him to forget that conversation happened, and changed to a new topic. He thinks I asked him that question because I had low self-esteem. But I'm asking this question as my friends all thinks that he meant he liked me, so I'm really confused now.

We also had this conversation before
B: "I think you're really beautiful"
me: "hahaha you'll break my heart if you're lying"
B: "I NEVER LIE"
me: "okay go back to sleep"

And he asked me if I liked him a quite few months ago, spontaneously, and I told him I liked him as a friend, as I didn't think he'd even like someone like me at all, and I thought he was just feeling low.

I'm scorpio btw, 3 Nov. Thank you so much!



-oh bludgeon me with something blunt- so what exactly about this don't you understand? I'm actually confused because everything he said has been straightforward lol I personally HATE when someone tries to do the whole "Oh no, you really don't like me. You're just saying that" fluff after I CLEARLY STATE that I like them. Be forward with him like he's being forward with you. Otherwise you're the only one that will be confused in the end.

Why do people twist our words and then spread around that we're confusing (not directed to you, the topic starter. just in general)? You're overthinking and confusing yourself. Stop being your own worst enemy. Been there done that. Do yourself a favor and just stop thinking and just start feeling.
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aftershine
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i dont wanns sound harsh...yeahh you are just one of the girls in his harem... 😢

taurus are bulls LITERALLY if they like you they chase you like they've seen the color red...and no matter how much you resist they will forcibly but lovingly 😉 make you their princess whether you like it or not and put that crown on your head.

If he did like you, yes he would be complimenting you like he has been except you just said you have told him your feelings a few times...so maybe he is shy and the first 2 times he wasnt able to tell you BUT taurus men arent cowards he would have told you his feelings by the third time...

there you have it, my opinion^ 🙂
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Posted by aftershine
i dont wanns sound harsh...yeahh you are just one of the girls in his harem... 😢

taurus are bulls LITERALLY if they like you they chase you like they've seen the color red...and no matter how much you resist they will forcibly but lovingly 😉 make you their princess whether you like it or not and put that crown on your head.

If he did like you, yes he would be complimenting you like he has been except you just said you have told him your feelings a few times...so maybe he is shy and the first 2 times he wasnt able to tell you BUT taurus men arent cowards he would have told you his feelings by the third time...

there you have it, my opinion^ 🙂




I would have to say this opinion is completely wrong. They never storm after you from the get go...but plod slowly along..increasing the value as time passes. I think to assume you are a 'harem girl' based on the information you provided here is quite a stretch. Thats pretty much like me saying: Geminis are crazy. They make stuff up...so take that how you will. BACK TO THE OP: Miss Scorpio- I think your bull does like you, and it's important to realize they say what they mean, even if they are evasive and playful- which he is here. He's not going to answer exactly how you want, because you're forcing an answer, but he will answer honestly. He means exactly what he says, so no need to be suspicious. He likes you, but doesn't love you. He is attracted to you, but not overwhelmingly so. This ISNT bad, this is a great starting place, and you can build on this. Be charming and loving and he will come around. I wouldn't press on him anymore about this as it isn't very fun to be cornered about your feelings.
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Nope, don't agree with anyone on here.

Again, similar story to the rest. He made a pass before, you said just friends, and now your out of your mind because NOW you care... Really?

Why do you ladies do this? This is the how many'th thread about this. You blow the guy off, muuuuuccch later realize, hey, he is actually great and then freak out and over analyze every word FORGETTING that you told him just friends.

And every darn time it's a bull... What gives?

He liked you, and probably still does, but YOU blew him off. We, like most others, hate rejection and fear it, and you went and did just that. Now you draw him out hoping for what? Him asking you again after you blew him off before? We don't easily bump our heads twice. Actions and words have consequences.

Be straight up, or take what you have, because that is what you asked for in the first place. He might come around again, but forget it if you think he is just going to jump. You already blew him off once, now it is he's game at his pace.
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Posted by firstaidkit


B: "I think you're really beautiful"
me: "hahaha you'll break my heart if you're lying"
B: "I NEVER LIE"
me: "okay go back to sleep"



Yes you are insecure.

Word to the wise for some (not all) of the Scorps who post on these boards...

Human beings are not always as complex and mysterious as you would like them to be. No hidden agendas. No invisible pysche. No pyscho-analysis of human behavior. You create a psych patient when there is none!

He's interested. Very straightforward. No mental headache necessary.

Take this advice. Read below.
Posted by kupochan
You're overthinking and confusing yourself. Stop being your own worst enemy. Been there done that. Do yourself a favor and just stop thinking and just start feeling./
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Posted by kupochan

Why do people twist our words and then spread around that we're confusing



I have witnessed this countless times.

Taurus: Straightforward.
Other Person: Psychoanalyzes.

Taurus: Physically affectionate
Other Person: Cold and withdrawn

Taurus: Enjoys the moment with the person. Steals a few glances. Flirt. Blushes. Smile.
Other Person: Overnalyzes the moment, does not reciprocate, attempts to control the moment instead of seize the opportunity to be in the moment as well.

Taurus loses interest.

Other person: Confused.