sagitarius woman taurus man

Hi i met this Taurus man way back in 1999 and instantly felt attracted we ended up having a very casual relationship for roughly 8 months anyway it ended peacefully. Although i felt I had stronger feelings than he did in it. Anyway last year he found me on facebook we were supposed to meet up in October and i thought i had been stood up and i sent a message saying this was nonsense as most woman do if they think they have been stood up. Anyway at new years he rang me and said you hate me you hate me and i said i don't even know who you are anyway he told me who he was and me being,myself said nah i don't hate anyone. Anyway two weeks alter he caught up with me and he came round and we had a few drinks and left without a hug and i thought weird— Anyway I text him the next morning and said last night was awesome he replied yeah it was really good then a week goes by and nothing. So on Friday I messaged him on facebook outlined everything crappy that had happened in the past cause i was angry remember im sag very fiery lol anyway he found the message Sunday and was really hurt and rang me and yelled down the phone what was that all about. and i panicked and hung up when i tried to text his phone and tried to apologize he was like i am sorry for everything that has happened and I will delete your phone number—? I have tried to apologize and he just says its for the best what shoudl i do here taurus are very complicated to understand I believe we have met up after all this time for a reason

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Posted by Wynter
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Loopypops---

What were you looking for?
Closure?
Friendship?
Potential Relationship?
FWB?

Find out what you're looking for by eliminating all the drama.

Your story seems vague, and what's stated isn't remotely practical.

You stated that back in '99 that the two of you ended things peacefully and amicably.
But then there were a lot of unresolved issues.
He sensed this, asked you a DIRECT question, and you gave him a passive aggressive untruthful response.
Then you proceed to send him a fiery email about those unresolved issues.

What advice were you looking for?

umm taurus bull 1977 well the way i see it i was young and silly at the time i would sit there with eyes wide open fluttering eye lashes fluttering and he could tell me to jump of a bridge and i would do it well the ending was him turning up int he middle of my sons birthday party accusing me of cheating me telling him it was a load of bollix and him shaking his head and saying nope nope you did... i saw no need to hold any grudges as that would be a bit spiteful.... But when he came back he did stand me up he did come make full on contact and then disappear again and then turn up and have a nice meeting. What do i want i dunno but i expect if someone says they are going to keep contact that they do not pick me up and put me down when they choose hes the one right now that's acting hurt and throwing tantrums right now. It was necessary to clear the air i think it is important everyone knows how the other feels I am probably heading towards wanting a relationship but at the moment we arent even talking and judging by his hurt and upset behavior yesterday he was probably heading that way too

What advice were you looking for? taurus you cant be serious isnt it obvious lol
i trying to figure out a way of approaching this person and the issue so they take notice so i can sort the whole mess out at the moment he was not receptive to any communication yesterday and said he would delete my phone number and like every time i tried to communicate he was like i think this is best seems a shame that if two people have known each other so long to lose this over something like this ans he seems to be a typical taurus very quiet doesn't say anything unless he has something to say STUBBORN you know the best he almost seems like a cliche of a taurus

1999—?!! Girl, you crazy! LMAO

You wasting his and you own time he not talkimg to you and wont be ever

Posted by loopypops
What advice were you looking for? taurus you cant be serious isnt it obvious lol

Actually, no, it wasn't obvious.
The two of you have not been in a relationship for 15 years.
You were not clear about what you wanted, just some fiery passive aggressive attempts to get his attention.

He's avoiding you.

Leave it alone. Continue to pursue this with much gusto and determination, and his resentment will turn into RAGE. You seem to think this is all cute. Save the drama for someone else. He's a Bull, those horns will come up. This will not be pretty. He may never forgive you.

I think the two of you need some time apart.

Utilize this time to learn how to communicate effectively, be a little more rational, and no offense...do some soul searching, you appear resentful, bitter, and somewhat childish. Not being harsh, just constructive criticism.

Chances are, if and when he does decide to contact you....you would be in a much better place, mentally.


Good Luck.

yeah I agree with you totally it was also this need within in me to let him now the hurt he caused and unload something of a burden he contacted me after all this time up until October i didn't even know where he was nor had i really even thought of it. Sometimes as you asid we can get caught up in a fairytale idea that this person has wandered back into your life again for some fanciful and romantic reason you know what i mean but thanks Taurus 1977 you do make a lot of sense i haven't contacted him since Sunday and I am more kicking myself that when he rang i didn't talk to him cause it probably would have been resolved.

I agree with TaurusBull1977. If there is one thing that will aggravate a Taurus (regardless of gender) is passive aggressive behavior.

hey thanks guys for your help was very informative umm i would say i wasnt passive aggressive im pretty sure my message was aggressive aggressive lol As of today he has seen my apology no reply but hasn't blocked me on facebook im not holding a lot of hope for any resolution so that's just how it goes sometimes.