stay or walk away

i keep thinking about taurus guy, but i'm afraid to let him know.....he calls and we talk but it's been six weeks since we seen each other, why want he make a move? i know he talks to women....i still enjoy my life too but i want him......i thought taurus men need physical....i guess he's not interested, any suggestion's anyone....he knows i like him....should i just walk away from this friendship? or be patient , 9 months already.

Posted by libra24
i keep thinking about taurus guy, but i'm afraid to let him know.....he calls and we talk but it's been six weeks since we seen each other, why want he make a move? i know he talks to women....i still enjoy my life too but i want him......i thought taurus men need physical....i guess he's not interested, any suggestion's anyone....he knows i like him....should i just walk away from this friendship? or be patient , 9 months already.

Are you the girl from Atlanta who met him online?

im from orlando and yes he lives in albany ga

I didn't think libra was compatible with Taurus people. How did you met? And what have you brought to the table to make this work? The both of you..

@libra24-Yeah Taurus need physical attention but thAt is not all. Patience for one and communication for two. And if you both compromise little bit more then it should balance things out. If you put more into anything. It's a struggle. IT is like Taurus need stimulation alot. And can be quite Stubborn. And by nine months should have had the talk. It does seem nowadays you can take risks and just see.and there is no hurry. What are the things you like about him?

Well I've never dated or been with a Taurus guy ever...so IDK if him and I are compatible....I feel as tho we have things in common but then again he don't speak about his feelings....as far as bringing something to the table...I made the first step in going to see him six weeks ago....I feel it's his turn ....unless he's not interested in me like that....he calls , initiates but still I wanna know....just cause a man work two jobs doesn't excuse him from making time....maybe I should just keep it as friends

I believe the communication is there....however I recently sent him a pic of me and stated all I want is you!!!... I was in my feelings but I spoke my mind...I thought it would've scared him....but he called me a day later, we talked on the phone for about an hour, but not about what I sent him....about other stuff ...I noticed that about him....if I reveal any feelings.... he calls but want say anything about what u said...so that leaves me to think he's not feeling me in that way, but then again why would he call.

Two days ago he called me a little frustrated telling me about his family issue's, I was there for him listening and giving him feedback....he had call me twice that day.....yesterday u got off at 7 pm....he called me like 7:05 pm and we talked for a little bit...mainly about my day, he told me he had spent the day with his daughter....so I feel we communicate, my problem is are we ever gonna meet again...

Taurus and libra can work with proper compromise and patience. Before you make any final decisions, talk to him about his intentions and where you two stand. Then move from there.

@impulsv OK....

He lives really far hun :/

True but if anyone is interested in someone they will make the time...four hours is not too far....but I just have to see it for what it is.....

@libra24- Hm a major thing though is he has two jobs, like I do .. It is hard trust when I say that. I would make time on my off day but all I want to do is sleep.

In fact nine months is cool. I would just invite you over for dinner. I love cooking and conversation with out sex in mind.

Another thing though is he has a kid, really that is hard work too. And he may still be attached to the baby momma..or not. And four hours is along way. You drove four hours and he hasn't. He has to find a baby sitter.. oh yeah patience is a virtue in this one.

Question are you ready to be a step parent if you are a couple? You have to know that. You also should know you Are his support but that's it. The kid has a mother. Do you even know the history of them?

@impulsv- yeah I know it sucks. We can only give op so much advice. She has to do what she has too to move on.

Yes I don't like ldr. So I won't. I just know that won't last too long. I've tried shorter distance still that didn't work. Haha. But that was most personality traits not meshing well.. it's a win lose situation for Taurus unfortunately. I rather focus on my kid and job and be shown through actions some way though if I like someone else.

I was talking about op situation. I don't have kids but if I did my focus is on my kids and life. So @OP-Look for someone else who doesn't have kids already..and has onejob. That can make time.

@ wicked yes true and vice versa there are a lot of people in the world so chances are slim, and i don't wanna be hurt....so i may just ask him ...but i think he wants to be friends...just don't understand why does he call, he could talk to other women if he'd like.

@impulsv wow....i see ..this taurus guy is buildng himself....he talks about that a lot....he wants a house in 3 years, he's investing money in stocks and bonds....and works crazy hours.....don't think he's ready for a relationship....but the more i think about it...don't think i am either, i work two jobs, and start school in january....i'm putting my goals first...so maybe not the right time, even if it could happen...someone has to be willing to move, and i'm not surrendering unless i felt something on his end, in this case i feel he likes me but not there yet.

@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 thanks for the advice....i only know what he told me about them, she doesn't let him get his daughter a lot....he says because she still wants to be with him, but he doesn't....so idk....i'm not there. I do know he loves her...in every decision he talks about..he includes his daughter, i totally understand...i don't have kids but if i did they would be priority. i just want to forget about him, i mean i don't wanna block him..he didn't do anything wrong...however i need to do what's best for me, i wanted to send him a post card for xmas...don't even think it's worthed....so impulsv i'll take your advice and cut my losses, my emotion's are getting too heavy like right now i'm telling myself WAKE THE FUCK UP.....(weird) i know lol.... i'm the prize....if any man wants me....he needs to know that, not the other way around (REALITY CHECK) thanks you guy's for the awesome advice....

@wicked thanks for the advice ...I'll keep that in mind