Taurus and Cancer- What's Your Secret?

Hey guys,

I recently had an experience with a Cancer woman??_ beautiful, friendly, warm. Long story but as soon as I told her that I had feelings, it's like someone flipped a switch in her head. Everyone on the Cancer forums pretty much say I crossed the line, but she was the one who was flirting with me first??_ LOL women, I love you but you make me crazy!

Any successful Taurus / Cancer pairs on here? What's your secret 'cause I am falling for this woman! And I hope that I haven't lost her for good.

peace~
sgtkilljoy

Pursue that mess! I say mess, although endearingly, because it might get messy. Don't take that sudden mood change as a negative. Even though it may seem like she's turned off, she might just be dealing with her own personal demons aka alltheemotionsintheuniverse, which may lead to major indecisiveness. Assert yourself, but not in a pushy way. You're a Taurus, so chances are you have already made your choice and are gonna stick by it. That's a sexy attribute to a cancer.

I hope this helps!

She told you ahead of time that she didn't want to get involved with anyone she worked with. Flirting is something most Cancers do without hardly thinking of it and it doesn't always mean anything serious.

Posted by MoonArtist
She told you ahead of time that she didn't want to get involved with anyone she worked with. Flirting is something most Cancers do without hardly thinking of it and it doesn't always mean anything serious.

I wish I knew this a few weeks ago! She's very talented at flirting 😉 And us bulls aren't all that graceful when it comes to guessing a person's feelings, so I took it at face value!

Posted by KittyKnitter
be low key but be consistent.

No problems there! I'm typical- stubborn but predictable in some ways I guess 🙂

Posted by Hooliho
Pursue that mess! I say mess, although endearingly, because it might get messy. Don't take that sudden mood change as a negative. Even though it may seem like she's turned off, she might just be dealing with her own personal demons aka alltheemotionsintheuniverse, which may lead to major indecisiveness. Assert yourself, but not in a pushy way. You're a Taurus, so chances are you have already made your choice and are gonna stick by it. That's a sexy attribute to a cancer.

I hope this helps!

This made me laugh- thank you! After feeling horrible for the last week, I am realizing that she needs space and time. At this point I don't care if it evolves into anything, I just want my friend back. And being someone who likes to problem-solve, it's hard not knowing for sure what I did wrong- when I apologized for crossing the line, her words were "That's not it", but wouldn't tell me what the problem was.

Ah. I love women. No, I really, really do. 🙂

cheers,
killjoy

Taurus men are really straight forward and that's a good thing, but some Cancer women aren't as blunt. It takes a lot for them to open up and let you know how they feel. If she says she's uninterested then I would back of. But I would keep pursuing her just don't be as bold maybe? I am a Taurus female and I dated a Cancer male, and I will put it to you this way it was a horrible match. Cancer's can be VERY insecure,jealous, and emotional.

Good luck xx

Hi xxbritxxtay,

Yes, spot on. At this point, I am giving her what she's asked for (time) and I don't want to be pushy because I believe it will only make things worse. Today she was cordial with me but barely looked at me??_ don't know. She was incredibly warm and caring before I confessed my feelings and ran from me. But I do respect her feelings and if she wants to pursue friendship again, I'll be right here.

I don't think I've ever had any Cancer friends or love interests??_Though a Pisces had my heart for the longest time.

cheers mate
killjoy

Posted by sgtkilljoy

Posted by MoonArtist
She told you ahead of time that she didn't want to get involved with anyone she worked with. Flirting is something most Cancers do without hardly thinking of it and it doesn't always mean anything serious.

I wish I knew this a few weeks ago! She's very talented at flirting 😉 And us bulls aren't all that graceful when it comes to guessing a person's feelings, so I took it at face value!

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I know. I'm a cancer and I flirt all the damn time. Most take it as just fun but every once in a while some guy will think it means more than it does.

If you really do want her friendship then just be honest with her, apologize that you think you made her uncomfortable, tell her you do value her as a friend and not just as a love interest or crush and see how she handles it. One word of warning, though. Ask yourself if YOU can handle just being friends with her if that's all she does with you and it never goes into a romance thing, because it wouldn't be fair to either of you to end up with resentment a year down the line.

ah cancers can be difficult man, if he apologizes and says he values her as a friend she's might think he was playing games when he said he had feelings for her and that he's taking it back because he thinks he can't win her or something.

as much as it makes her uncomfortable, if do apologize for making feel that way, I'd advise that you still make it clear to her that you do have feelings for her and that's that. but don't be pushy, of course because she could just shell away and never come out.