Taurus ex vanishes after showing up out of nowhere

so,
I'm gonna need some clarification from the taurus ladies (i'll try to keep this as short as possible lol).
Well i made a couple previous posts about my situation with my taurus ex. And the latest one was saying how she showed back up. Well after she randomly called me to hang out, we hung for about a week. Talking, hanging, cuddling, etc. Almost like it used to be (didnt hook up though). As we were hanging shes telling me how she still has some of the things i bought her and how she missed the things we were doing at the time and all that. saying how much history we have together (almost as if shes thinking out loud and cant help it). She was even making plans for us in the future like going places and inviting me over. And then one day, she jus stops texting in mid conversation and stops responding. And i havnt talked to her since. Been about a month.


What i'm confused about is the fact that i thought when a taurus was done, they were done for good. But she showed back up and even apologized for not talking to me and not respondning to me. she said she was just trying to be a good gf to the other dude (which i highly respect). She also said things werent going so well with the other guy. We didnt touch too much on the subject, but they way we were hanging she wouldnt do if she was with another guy in a serious way.. I dont know if she started catching feelings again and got shook. Or if other guy showed back up again. I just dont know lol. Thoughts?

P.S. need more detail, let me know.

I had a taurus girlfriend in high school. She had the shortest attention span ever. She would start dating a guy and then all of a sudden stop being interested in him without a reason. It was like flipping a light switch. The guy's heart would be broken and she would act like nothing happened. Sometimes she "might" get back with a guy if he had money or if she wanted something and then she would leave him again. I don't know if it is a Taurus thing with the women but they do tend to go for guys that have status, popularity or money. I'm just sayin....

Hi, as a Taurus, I think she just needed somebody during the time she reached out to you. She probly felt abandoned by the other guy (which is her current BF), or maybe they had a fight or something, or he was away and she was feeling lonely. I know this is bad and I'm not saying all Tauruses are like this but I've done this once to my ex BF. I knew he was gonna be there and he wouldn't say no to me so to cover up my loneliness, I chilled with him. I needed somebody to fill up that empty space I was feeling cause my BF at that time was away.

If she didn't respond to you after that time you guys hung out, I guess things between her and the bf are okay now and she doesn't need you anymore. I'm sorry but I think that's what it is. But then again, we never really know. That's just me. My opinion based on my experience. I hope this helps. Goodluck!

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I don't know if it is a Taurus thing with the women but they do tend to go for guys that have status, popularity or money. I'm just sayin....

No I wouldn't say it's a Taurus thing cause I'm definitely not like that. Hopefully that's not the case with him though. Let's just hope for the best, or you can ask her, confront her and be straight up with her. I'm pretty sure she'll tell you what's up. If she doesn't, then I don't know. I don't know what kind of Taurus she is. LOL jk

I can't speak for her behavior really, ( if I were exclusive with a man I wouldn't be over at someone elses for hang time/saliva swap..taken is taken ) but one thing that is a definite. We aren't done until WE say we are. If she was using you for a bolster instead of taking up issue with her dude that's unfair to you, and immature on her part. You don't need to be an emotional tampon for anyone Scorpio. All in, or all out.

yea i though that was the reason too because she was feeling lonely or whatever. But it doesnt really bother me like it would if this happened a couple months ago. Really justed wanted to hear from other bulls on reasons for this kind of action. Her loss...

Definitely.

Pls don't take it the wrong way. Thank you.

This is one thing I've noticed and more than once on threads where there is a real question over a Taurus femme. I will try to be brief ( I'm not at all when I get a good bit of steam going, fair warning ). It's about immature or younger vs. older, more experienced. As a younger woman I deeply enjoyed flexing that power. That sensuality, that vibe. Using it to my advantage to cajole and dazzle. And I was invincible in this. A goddess walking the earth that thought each and every man should just fall under my rule and come panting when I crooked a finger. Whether I wanted them or not. And it wasn't about being an unfaithful cow or any of that rubbish..it was simply that I gloried in being female and testing boundaries. Wanting to be desired, feel beautiful. A rather Queen at Court feeling. All the dogs should heel and sit at my command.
Now that I'm a bit older, hella wiser; I find that yes, I still DO deep down enjoy this aspect of myself, but it's not necessary to flaunt it. It just simmers and perks along, like banked embers waiting to flare into being and if someone sees it in my mannerisms, my walk, my talk.. well hell. They're pretty in tune with me now, aren't they? Have some mental acuity and can sense what I'm about. And in all honesty as the years have went by all that matters is being all this to one man. I took that attitude up fairly early on actually. That was my distillation once I'd gotten past the older teen/early 20s.
I suspect that this is at the root of a lot of the questions about 'more than one' or 'why does she flirt with..', etc, etc. Something to ponder at any rate.

Yep that's true^^^. The tarus women that I know like that power also and they know how to use it. Especially when they want something or someone.