I just reconnected with one recently, I am fairly certain that we are just friends for now. I would like to progress the relationship at some point though, I really enjoy our time together. Two days ago, we marathoned; PS I love you, Identity Thief, and The Client List. She helped me move out of my apartment, and we are going to the movies this Sunday... Once again, I am getting the vibe that we are just friends for now. My question, I guess, is how would you recommend proceeding further?
Taurus Woman...?
I think she is under the impression that she intends to pay for her ticket... not that I was intending on letting that happen. I say this because she wanted to wait until after her payday.
Besides, it would be positively uncouth to have her pay for something that I had asked her to join.

Light and subtle romantic physical affection is very good. It plants a seed. And once you've sparked her romantic interest, don't YOU freak out and pretend you were just being "friendly". Keep it consistent. Don't be confusing.
I texted her saying that I enjoyed being with her that night. She texted back saying, "me too, haven't laughed that much in a long time". I will take that as a good sign! :p
Are there any things that I should/shouldn't do while at the movies? (obviously I shoudln't feel her up...)
Update: We ended up watching movies at her place with another friend. When is the soonest I should let her know my feelings for her? Also, how do I go about doing it? She has stated that she finds confidence to be attractive, however, I don't want to come off too strong like I usually do.
Update: A mutual friend of ours asked her how she felt about me, and I quote, "This is from Amber; Cuz he's a in my shit egotistical military brat but im still gonna be his friend cuz he's nice and i need to be nicer to the nice guys and not the bad boys lol. No im not interested in him like that at all. He's a good guy just not for me." Well I guess that answers that question, though I suppose by "in my shit", I guess I am not supposed to care about what happens to her? I wasn't even trying to be romantic or anything, just being there as a friend. Though I think the whole, "im still gonna be his friend cuz he's nice and i need to be nicer to the nice guys and not the bad boys lol"... is kind of bull. It makes it sound as though she is only being nice out of obligation.

I wouldnt stop being her friend. Really sounds like she has been hurt by the bad boys and is just doesnt know what she wants. Please be aware that a lot of married people didnt like their spouse before they got married. Well a lot of my married friends told me that about them.feel her out a bit more before u give up. Play a little hard to get we like to chase a little. Dont talk to her for a couple days then she'll wonder why. Then confront her about what she said which will catch her off guard, if she respond positive then keep wooing her. If not then she really not into u.
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