understanding the bull.

so, I've been dating a taurus male for a few months now and he's been on holiday for 5 weeks now.
it was all good over the first 4 weeks, getting texts from him almost every day..
but then last week we had our first quarrel because out of the blue, he said i was guilt tripping him into having to contact me and that i should understand that he is on vacation and should be enjoying himself.
i was really hurt because i never asked him to text me everyday. he wrote back again saying he felt guilty if he doesnt message me all the time.
because of that, i said that i didn't expect a text everyday, but i would be there for him when he's got time and doesn't feel obliged to write to me (it made me feel horrible that i was an obligation)...
it's been 5 days now and I've not heard from him.
I'm feeling insecure. and getting very upset. what should i think from this?
Im arian and I always place my loved ones in priority, and that means that i constantly think of them and want to be in contact with them. but this bull is not....
is this normal?

you are never going to win this one. get away while you can...

may i ask what your sign is??

--Jack

Sounds like a Cancer/Pisces to me but could be Aries as well from what she said (Arian)

JMO, let him relax a bit, he is on vacation when he gets off vaca, send him a txt that you miss him and want to get together and talk, that way some priorities can be laid out for both parties to understand

Posted by insecurities
he said i was guilt tripping him into having to contact me and that i should understand that he is on vacation and should be enjoying himself.
i was really hurt because i never asked him to text me everyday. he wrote back again saying he felt guilty if he doesnt message me all the time.

it's been 5 days now and I've not heard from him.
I'm feeling insecure. and getting very upset. what should i think from this?
Im arian and I always place my loved ones in priority, and that means that i constantly think of them and want to be in contact with them. but this bull is not....
is this normal?

OK Arian... I am a Taurus with Venus in Aries, so I completely get your whole firey passion wanting to consume any and EVERY part of your Taurus because it was so lively and you two hit if off quickly.

Taureans move slow, and he is slowing the pace down. If he wants to spend vacation, let him. In the meantime, Go find a hobby.or something that will take your mind off of him.

If he feels guilty for not texting you..then let HIM text you. Follow his lead. and be patient.

i am an aries..
and I'm not very patient when it comes to this waiting game..

Then a taurus isn't for you.. we don't live on "RUSH" & "PRESSED" modes..When its fast, it fizzles.
I sympathized with you bcuz I do have a VinAries... I want things NOW-NOW-NOW!! When it comes to romance, but slow & steady really wins the race..

Can't Hurry Love hun...u Just have to WAIT!

Posted by TAURUSbelle
Then a taurus isn't for you.. we don't live on "RUSH" & "PRESSED" modes..When its fast, it fizzles.

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