Unusual Taurean Man Predicament

Hello everyone. I am a brand new member to the forum who has enjoyed many of your past and present conversations which have offered wisdom, insight and much laughter. I decided to pose my own Taurean tale here to see what type of feedback I might get. It is mostly a societal issue with me and my newly befriended Taurean but one that I have to look at realistically unclouded by emotion.

Let me start by saying that for almost 20 years (starting from when I was in high school to up to about 10 years ago)I was hopelessly in love with a Taurus man even though we had never officially ever been a couple. We did have our attempted sexual encounters over the years (utter disasters! nothing like having the reality of your fantasies slap you in the face) and always reconnected like the first time even if we had not seen each other in years, but ultimately our relationship was only ever destined to be that of a close and now fondly remembered friendship.

Fast forward to two weeks ago when I was up late one night hanging out online at this dating website I recently joined when I received a pictureless IM from this guy. Normally I'm like "no pic no chick" when it comes to chatting these online guys up but for some reason I let it slide. Next thing I know this guy and I have been online talking for 3 hours straight. We just clicked. Talked about any and everything. Exchanged personal emails and said goodnight. The next morning I wake up with a sweet email from him. We hooked up later that day and talked for 5 hours straight this time. Next day another good morning text followed by a nearly 7 hour yakfest. I kid you not...me and this guy were going at it like we were long lost relatives or boon coons or somethinhg. And the momentum continues between us naturally since our first hello. My biggest surprise? When I found out he was a Taurus. My issue? He is 22 and I am 45. He admitted the truth to me and then apologized for lying about it to me. He had portrayed himself as 30. Was I shocked? Hell yes! Very. He says he doesn't care at all not to mention a bunch of other stuff about marriage and babies that I really don't want to go there with him yet at such an extremely early stage of this acquaintance. I know Taurus and Pisces can be good for each other. Just wonder if this is a little too much cougar for girlfriend? LOL Comments please...

pfft,
age is merely a number, our souls are hundreds of years old.

then again,
23 years difference for the human life experience can be a lot,
there will be issues if it gets deeper than only sex, so don't expect much out of it.
since Taurus are naturally players, a guy 22 y/o is gonna be playing with other girls too,
and you as a Pisces, tend to be too sensitive for that, no?

I think you've connected enough to get physical, and from the way it sounds, it's gonna be really good,
so just realize it for that - a sexual encounter.

You can be his secret mistress. 😛

Posted by cutiebullie
age ain't nothing but a number but if you are looking for stability in a relationship - like if you are looking for a
marriage type of guy.. do you think that this 22 year old guy is capable of raising a family—??

and yes he is a player. sorry. you are 45 years old, you should know better.

Better compared to what? The guys twice his age who are whined about on this board in particualar who should have the maturity and ability to be stable and raise a family and yet from all I continously have read have women on here with little to no self worth trying to hold on to them like they are the prize to be after? Just saying. Would you feel differently if I were the man and he were the 22 year old bull babe?

First off, hello to you Prettypisces. 🙂 Secondly I would think a 45 year old man with a 22 year old girl would be having a mid-life crisis.
If you do embark upon this, be completely realistic with what you're up against. Since he is in effect young enough to be your son, you might find over time that your brain will place him in that role. Resentment on his part at being treated like a child, disdain on yours because you feel he's acting the part. His body may be grown, but his brain does not have the life experience yours does.
So, enjoy him if you must. Card him at the door; just be AWARE.

By the time he realizes he wants a family of his own, it really will be too late. If this is a temp affair and you can accept it as such without going in too deep, do you. But if you're looking for love and permanence, would you really want to deny someone the chance to raise their own fam? He has a lifetime to change his mind. You don't.

Posted by cutiebullie

Posted by Prettypisces

Posted by cutiebullie
age ain't nothing but a number but if you are looking for stability in a relationship - like if you are looking for a
marriage type of guy.. do you think that this 22 year old guy is capable of raising a family—??

and yes he is a player. sorry. you are 45 years old, you should know better.

Better compared to what? The guys twice his age who are whined about on this board in particualar who should have the maturity and ability to be stable and raise a family and yet from all I continously have read have women on here with little to no self worth trying to hold on to them like they are the prize to be after? Just saying. Would you feel differently if I were the man and he were the 22 year old bull babe?

Hmm, ive got nothing else left to say. I know you know in your heart that this will never work. But if you want me to tell you that this guy is serious to you ok he is not playing you. Honestly, i didnt even finish reading your story yet, i just read the first part and knew right away that he is playing. Which part? Pretending he is 30. Lol. But if you want me to say he is inlove with you as much as you feel for him, ok i will have to lie right now to pacify you. You asked for comments, that's my comment.

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Thanks for stopping by. LOL

Anything is possible - this would definitely fall under the "exception not the rule" category, but no one really knows what is in someones heart. There was a kid on a forum talking about his parents. He was 19 and he said that his parents met when his mother was 39 and his father was 22, and they ended up getting married and having two kids, and have been together for 23 years. He also said that his parents are in love and that his dad treats his mom very well, but that she doesn't take any crap either LOL, so who knows!

exactly! who knows.

so just hit that already, hahaha. 😛
and then find out.