Mddoogiehowser
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Taurus w/ Scorpio Sag Cusp
I would suggest to pace yourself with dating and don't get too involved too quickly.
It's nice to spend time with someone in a date but then to go away and give yourself time to reflect on things. You can then see things more clearly and evaluate from a more logical position.
One date a week, and when I say date I mean spending a few hours together to possibly half a day. This means you can slowly build without jumping in. It sounds like you had a nice weekend together so ensure you give yourself some time to reflect and miss her or see if you miss her. Perhaps arrange another date but keep it a little shorter and avoid jumping into bed together, save it for later (if you haven't already). That way you won't be too attached too quickly and then, as a consequence, lose interested a few weeks or months later.
Will it all go tits and will you be hurt? Who knows. But by taking it easy and at a good pace will provide the framework for you to build a solid relationship and protect yourself at the same time.
It's nice to spend time with someone in a date but then to go away and give yourself time to reflect on things. You can then see things more clearly and evaluate from a more logical position.
One date a week, and when I say date I mean spending a few hours together to possibly half a day. This means you can slowly build without jumping in. It sounds like you had a nice weekend together so ensure you give yourself some time to reflect and miss her or see if you miss her. Perhaps arrange another date but keep it a little shorter and avoid jumping into bed together, save it for later (if you haven't already). That way you won't be too attached too quickly and then, as a consequence, lose interested a few weeks or months later.
Will it all go tits and will you be hurt? Who knows. But by taking it easy and at a good pace will provide the framework for you to build a solid relationship and protect yourself at the same time.
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Posted by PhoenixStorm
AgentP911 has excellent advice.
I am a scorp and have felt this same strong, magnetic attraction to taurus. I have one taurus pursuing me now and he makes my heart race. But he makes me nervous as hell for these same reasons. lol too much intensity too soon usually ends bad. I am following AgentP’s advice as well and taking it slow and avoiding sex. I feel that sex clouds judgment and forms attachments that aren’t necessary this early in the game without knowing each other and intentions.
Glad to be of assistance!
I'm a Scorpio female and have been with my Taurus fella for five years come January.
After numerous shit dates, not great decisions and general shite, I applied s far stronger dating strategy, as described above, to assist in not getting too involved too quickly. You could say I was pretty fucking harsh to anyone who did not fit what I was looking for. Initially, I did a list of characteristics and qualities that I wanted in a fella. Some superficial such as height and appearance, others were things that would be compatible to hopefully sustain a long term relationship. The list was my friends idea which I'd poo poo'd for years. Until I did it... And fella matches about 95% of the list (I didn't sit there ticking it off but it was in my mind, similar to when you're job hunting - yeah, I know, very romantic!). I discarded people on the dating site for a variety of reasons especially if there was an alarm bell, for example, one guy in his early 40's said he'd been out the night before, got shit faced drunk and had lost his wallet... Yeah, I binned him immediately. That's not gonna work for me!
The date pacing helped plus the Taurus asked me out each time so I wasn't left hanging or in any doubt about his intentions. I was dating two people at the same time. I never felt that big pull between Scorp/Taurus that is so famous but he ticked the right boxes so it worked me for. However, the other guy was 'in the lead' for a while but I was seriously undervaluing the communication between me and the Taurus. It was easy and simple. He's Aries Venus and Mercury so that's probably why.
I do think rushing into sex can cloud things before you've even got to know each other. Unless you want to just shag then fine but it wasn't what I wanted to do. I'm Scorp Venus so having a clear head where I wasn't at all attached to the guys I was dating was helpful to me.
I think I just wanted to enjoy the dating process so I read up on dating with various sites on the Internet, learnt and educated self a bit better, and put boundaries in place.
This approach may not work for others but it worked for me. Wouldn't change me Taurus at all!
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by AgentP911Posted by PhoenixStorm
AgentP911 has excellent advice.
I am a scorp and have felt this same strong, magnetic attraction to taurus. I have one taurus pursuing me now and he makes my heart race. But he makes me nervous as hell for these same reasons. lol too much intensity too soon usually ends bad. I am following AgentP’s advice as well and taking it slow and avoiding sex. I feel that sex clouds judgment and forms attachments that aren’t necessary this early in the game without knowing each other and intentions.
Glad to be of assistance!
I'm a Scorpio female and have been with my Taurus fella for five years come January.
After numerous shit dates, not great decisions and general shite, I applied s far stronger dating strategy, as described above, to assist in not getting too involved too quickly. You could say I was pretty fucking harsh to anyone who did not fit what I was looking for. Initially, I did a list of characteristics and qualities that I wanted in a fella. Some superficial such as height and appearance, others were things that would be compatible to hopefully sustain a long term relationship. The list was my friends idea which I'd poo poo'd for years. Until I did it... And fella matches about 95% of the list (I didn't sit there ticking it off but it was in my mind, similar to when you're job hunting - yeah, I know, very romantic!). I discarded people on the dating site for a variety of reasons especially if there was an alarm bell, for example, one guy in his early 40's said he'd been out the night before, got shit faced drunk and had lost his wallet... Yeah, I binned him immediately. That's not gonna work for me!
The date pacing helped plus the Taurus asked me out each time so I wasn't left hanging or in any doubt about his intentions. I was dating two people at the same time. I never felt that big pull between Scorp/Taurus that is so famous but he ticked the right boxes so it worked me for. However, the other guy was 'in the lead' for a while but I was seriously undervaluing the communication between me and the Taurus. It was easy and simple. He's Aries Venus and Mercury so that's probably why.
I do think rushing into sex can cloud things before you've even got to know each other. Unless you want to just shag then fine but it wasn't what I wanted to do. I'm Scorp Venus so having a clear head where I wasn't at all attached to the guys I was dating was helpful to me.
I think I just wanted to enjoy the dating process so I read up on dating with various sites on the Internet, learnt and educated self a bit better, and put boundaries in place.
This approach may not work for others but it worked for me. Wouldn't change me Taurus at all!
This is great insight and very relatable.
The taurus I’m interested in has Pisces moon and Gemini venus, taurus mars.. he is very assertive and very clear what he wants and like you said, conversation is easy. We met at a park yesterday to chat (he wanted to come over but I told him no lol) he asked if I was talking to anyone else and I told him there is also a cancer guy that has been pursuing me for about a month. It was nice to be able to just be open and honest with him but I think that has made him a little more competitive. Lol
In regards to the list, I think cancer guy and I are probably better on paper, but the chemistry with the taurus is insane and unmatched and so he makes me nervous 😬 he’s very into me very early and I guess my concern is that will fizzle once the challenge is gone.click to expand
Honestly, I would date both. You need to have the chemistry and compatability there but I think the overriding point is that people often disregard compatability in favour of chemistry and then when it all goes tits and fizzles out they wonder why. Well, possibly because there wasn't enough to sustain the relationship aside from some great sex - which is nice, of course!
By dating both, you can see whether there's more to the cancer guy for chemistry and if there's more to the Taurus guy with compatability.
That's an interesting combination with Taurus sun and Pisces moon. I have pisces moon. Watch out for the victim complex. Ugh, its terrible. I don't wallow in my own shit and I wouldn't have thought this guy would either with a Gemini Venus. You'll probably get lots of interesting conversations out of him but he could be fickle and flighty. You might need to be stern with him from time to time, ha ha.
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The taurus I’m interested in has Pisces moon and Gemini venus, taurus mars.. he is very assertive and very clear what he wants and like you said, conversation is easy. We met at a park yesterday to chat (he wanted to come over but I told him no lol) he asked if I was talking to anyone else and I told him there is also a cancer guy that has been pursuing me for about a month. It was nice to be able to just be open and honest with him but I think that has made him a little more competitive. Lol
In regards to the list, I think cancer guy and I are probably better on paper, but the chemistry with the taurus is insane and unmatched and so he makes me nervous 😬 he’s very into me very early and I guess my concern is that will fizzle once the challenge is gone.
LMAO!!! So, you've been trashing Aqua Venus for God knows how long, only to now potentially get involved with a Gemini Venus.
Seriously, I'm on the verge of tears... 😆
But the cancer and the taurus both have Gemini venus 😫 and I’m not involved with either of them yet I’m cautious of them both for that reason. Lol I told you before, I don’t know if it’s because of my air rising but I always attract air venus men 😐
Ha, ha... Ha, ha, ha... He, he... 😛
My cap ex had cancer moon, aqua venus and Virgo mars
The cancer has cancer moon, Gemini venus and taurus mars
The taurus has Pisces moon, Gemini venus and taurus mars
I’m noticing a pattern with watery moons, air venus and earth mars lol
It's your destiny... 😈
Lord help me 🥴
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Dread it! Run from it! Destiny still arrives, and you shall know no peace, for we shall forever be there, stalking you.
Signed
-Taurus Sun, Scorpio Moon, Gemini Venus. Oh I'm laughing too hard at this.
Oh, I forgot to mention this, since I was laughing so hard. My mars is in Taurus, so no false sense of security there.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Taureanguy
Oh, I forgot to mention this, since I was laughing so hard. My mars is in Taurus, so no false sense of security there.
So the taurus guy that I’ve been talking to, we went to high school together.. he’s 2 years younger than me. We’ve been friends on fb but I was in a relationship with my sons dad for >10 years. (I’ll be 40 in October so we haven’t seen each other in ~20 years since high school)
Taurus and I recently started talking about a week ago. We’ve seen each other in person only 1 time so far in the last week.. we met at a park and talked for 2 hours. He asked me if I am talking to anyone else and I was honest and told him the cancer guy has been pursuing me for about a month. So I think this has made the taurus guy more competitive... he has asked me a few times to “cut the other guy off” even though there is nothing to cut off. Then he asked me today if I would be his girlfriend 😳 I didn’t think this was typical for taurus I thought they usually go slow. I figured he is probably just saying that so he can try to get the panties 🤣🤣click to expand
Oh jesus. *Facepalms.* I've done territorial shit like this before, I'd say he's likely attracted to you, even since high school, which makes it worse. I'd say it's a mixture of being possessive, a dash of obsession, and libido, so he's Really territorial right now. It's a really tough energy to handle in dealing with ALL of that at once, so I've scared off more than a few potential relationships, and friendships like that as it's one of the few time I go more than a little crazy, given my inability to think clearly during those moments.
My suggestion would be to put the brakes on it, because it isn't healthy for both you, and the Taurus. The good side of this, is that he will calm down after a while from being territorial, once he starts thinking again. The deepest friendships I have my in life, have all gone through this phase, so put that Scorpio side of yourself to work, and establish boundaries. -Remind- him that you two are not dating, only getting to know each other.
Good luck! o7 Hope I didn't scare you too much. I'll be thinking of this some more while I'm at work, when I get the chance.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by TaureanguyPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Taureanguy
Oh, I forgot to mention this, since I was laughing so hard. My mars is in Taurus, so no false sense of security there.
So the taurus guy that I’ve been talking to, we went to high school together.. he’s 2 years younger than me. We’ve been friends on fb but I was in a relationship with my sons dad for >10 years. (I’ll be 40 in October so we haven’t seen each other in ~20 years since high school)
Taurus and I recently started talking about a week ago. We’ve seen each other in person only 1 time so far in the last week.. we met at a park and talked for 2 hours. He asked me if I am talking to anyone else and I was honest and told him the cancer guy has been pursuing me for about a month. So I think this has made the taurus guy more competitive... he has asked me a few times to “cut the other guy off” even though there is nothing to cut off. Then he asked me today if I would be his girlfriend 😳 I didn’t think this was typical for taurus I thought they usually go slow. I figured he is probably just saying that so he can try to get the panties 🤣🤣
Oh jesus. *Facepalms.* I've done territorial shit like this before, I'd say he's likely attracted to you, even since high school, which makes it worse. I'd say it's a mixture of being possessive, a dash of obsession, and libido, so he's Really territorial right now. It's a really tough energy to handle in dealing with ALL of that at once, so I've scared off more than a few potential relationships, and friendships like that as it's one of the few time I go more than a little crazy, given my inability to think clearly during those moments.
My suggestion would be to put the brakes on it, because it isn't healthy for both you, and the Taurus. The good side of this, is that he will calm down after a while from being territorial, once he starts thinking again. The deepest friendships I have my in life, have all gone through this phase, so put that Scorpio side of yourself to work, and establish boundaries. -Remind- him that you two are not dating, only getting to know each other.
Good luck! o7 Hope I didn't scare you too much. I'll be thinking of this some more while I'm at work, when I get the chance.
I actually like him too, he doesn’t scare me 🤣 scorps don’t scare easily. I was more amused than anything. A little hesitant though, and doubting his sincerity... he seems like he’s the playboy type. He’s very good looking but he has some insecurities about something that happened to him and he opened up to me about it. He said he hasn’t told many people, not even his siblings... So we are forming a good friendship too and he seems to trust me.
The chemistry is very intense. Very intense 😅. The attraction to him is equally strong, I just don’t know about the compatibility. (As far as being family oriented, desire to settle down etc)
My sag mars is loving the excitement of this situation, but my venus Virgo is slamming on the brakes lol he makes me nervous.click to expand
Eh, sounds like being cautious is likely the good move then. Since having regrets could kill intimacy.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by TaureanguyPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by TaureanguyPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Taureanguy
Oh, I forgot to mention this, since I was laughing so hard. My mars is in Taurus, so no false sense of security there.
So the taurus guy that I’ve been talking to, we went to high school together.. he’s 2 years younger than me. We’ve been friends on fb but I was in a relationship with my sons dad for >10 years. (I’ll be 40 in October so we haven’t seen each other in ~20 years since high school)
Taurus and I recently started talking about a week ago. We’ve seen each other in person only 1 time so far in the last week.. we met at a park and talked for 2 hours. He asked me if I am talking to anyone else and I was honest and told him the cancer guy has been pursuing me for about a month. So I think this has made the taurus guy more competitive... he has asked me a few times to “cut the other guy off” even though there is nothing to cut off. Then he asked me today if I would be his girlfriend 😳 I didn’t think this was typical for taurus I thought they usually go slow. I figured he is probably just saying that so he can try to get the panties 🤣🤣
Oh jesus. *Facepalms.* I've done territorial shit like this before, I'd say he's likely attracted to you, even since high school, which makes it worse. I'd say it's a mixture of being possessive, a dash of obsession, and libido, so he's Really territorial right now. It's a really tough energy to handle in dealing with ALL of that at once, so I've scared off more than a few potential relationships, and friendships like that as it's one of the few time I go more than a little crazy, given my inability to think clearly during those moments.
My suggestion would be to put the brakes on it, because it isn't healthy for both you, and the Taurus. The good side of this, is that he will calm down after a while from being territorial, once he starts thinking again. The deepest friendships I have my in life, have all gone through this phase, so put that Scorpio side of yourself to work, and establish boundaries. -Remind- him that you two are not dating, only getting to know each other.
Good luck! o7 Hope I didn't scare you too much. I'll be thinking of this some more while I'm at work, when I get the chance.
I actually like him too, he doesn’t scare me 🤣 scorps don’t scare easily. I was more amused than anything. A little hesitant though, and doubting his sincerity... he seems like he’s the playboy type. He’s very good looking but he has some insecurities about something that happened to him and he opened up to me about it. He said he hasn’t told many people, not even his siblings... So we are forming a good friendship too and he seems to trust me.
The chemistry is very intense. Very intense 😅. The attraction to him is equally strong, I just don’t know about the compatibility. (As far as being family oriented, desire to settle down etc)
My sag mars is loving the excitement of this situation, but my venus Virgo is slamming on the brakes lol he makes me nervous.
Eh, sounds like being cautious is likely the good move then. Since having regrets could kill intimacy.
Is Gemini venus typically the player type? I read that y’all get bored easily and your taste or desires change frequently. I’m slightly paranoid that this guy just wants to move fast and then will grow bored with me once the challenge is gone. I have no history with gem venus so not really sure how your minds work lolclick to expand
Not sure about being the player type, but it's more keeping things -fresh-. I know I get bored dealing the same situation, and thoughts, over.. and over.. and over. And I know I'm in real trouble, when I feel like being brain dead is preferable over dealing with someone's complaint for the 50th time.
I do know my mind tends to wander.. a lot, not in a romantic sense, so if I'm not talking to someone, I'm daydreaming, often daydreaming about talking to someone and always about different topics. So it could look like we change tastes, or desires a lot, it's more we don't like getting stuck in mental mud, if that make sense. But if you can switch different topics, or activities on the fly, I think that'll help deal with that part of him more easily. Otherwise, don't be surprised that if you spy on his computer activities, he may have 20 internet tabs of completely different topics of whatever interest him, in that moment.
It's a strange energy for me to deal with, as my other personal planets are in fixed energies. (Exception being Ascendant and North Node/South Node.) Anyways, my resting period is over, heading to work now. Thanks for the mental stimulation. I'll be reading any other posts you send here, I won't be able to reply to them while working.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by TaureanguyPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by TaureanguyPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by TaureanguyPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Taureanguy
Oh, I forgot to mention this, since I was laughing so hard. My mars is in Taurus, so no false sense of security there.
So the taurus guy that I’ve been talking to, we went to high school together.. he’s 2 years younger than me. We’ve been friends on fb but I was in a relationship with my sons dad for >10 years. (I’ll be 40 in October so we haven’t seen each other in ~20 years since high school)
Taurus and I recently started talking about a week ago. We’ve seen each other in person only 1 time so far in the last week.. we met at a park and talked for 2 hours. He asked me if I am talking to anyone else and I was honest and told him the cancer guy has been pursuing me for about a month. So I think this has made the taurus guy more competitive... he has asked me a few times to “cut the other guy off” even though there is nothing to cut off. Then he asked me today if I would be his girlfriend 😳 I didn’t think this was typical for taurus I thought they usually go slow. I figured he is probably just saying that so he can try to get the panties 🤣🤣
Oh jesus. *Facepalms.* I've done territorial shit like this before, I'd say he's likely attracted to you, even since high school, which makes it worse. I'd say it's a mixture of being possessive, a dash of obsession, and libido, so he's Really territorial right now. It's a really tough energy to handle in dealing with ALL of that at once, so I've scared off more than a few potential relationships, and friendships like that as it's one of the few time I go more than a little crazy, given my inability to think clearly during those moments.
My suggestion would be to put the brakes on it, because it isn't healthy for both you, and the Taurus. The good side of this, is that he will calm down after a while from being territorial, once he starts thinking again. The deepest friendships I have my in life, have all gone through this phase, so put that Scorpio side of yourself to work, and establish boundaries. -Remind- him that you two are not dating, only getting to know each other.
Good luck! o7 Hope I didn't scare you too much. I'll be thinking of this some more while I'm at work, when I get the chance.
I actually like him too, he doesn’t scare me 🤣 scorps don’t scare easily. I was more amused than anything. A little hesitant though, and doubting his sincerity... he seems like he’s the playboy type. He’s very good looking but he has some insecurities about something that happened to him and he opened up to me about it. He said he hasn’t told many people, not even his siblings... So we are forming a good friendship too and he seems to trust me.
The chemistry is very intense. Very intense 😅. The attraction to him is equally strong, I just don’t know about the compatibility. (As far as being family oriented, desire to settle down etc)
My sag mars is loving the excitement of this situation, but my venus Virgo is slamming on the brakes lol he makes me nervous.
Eh, sounds like being cautious is likely the good move then. Since having regrets could kill intimacy.
Is Gemini venus typically the player type? I read that y’all get bored easily and your taste or desires change frequently. I’m slightly paranoid that this guy just wants to move fast and then will grow bored with me once the challenge is gone. I have no history with gem venus so not really sure how your minds work lol
Not sure about being the player type, but it's more keeping things -fresh-. I know I get bored dealing the same situation, and thoughts, over.. and over.. and over. And I know I'm in real trouble, when I feel like being brain dead is preferable over dealing with someone's complaint for the 50th time.
I do know my mind tends to wander.. a lot, not in a romantic sense, so if I'm not talking to someone, I'm daydreaming, often daydreaming about talking to someone and always about different topics. So it could look like we change tastes, or desires a lot, it's more we don't like getting stuck in mental mud, if that make sense. But if you can switch different topics, or activities on the fly, I think that'll help deal with that part of him more easily. Otherwise, don't be surprised that if you spy on his computer activities, he may have 20 internet tabs of completely different topics of whatever interest him, in that moment.
It's a strange energy for me to deal with, as my other personal planets are in fixed energies. (Exception being Ascendant and North Node/South Node.) Anyways, my resting period is over, heading to work now. Thanks for the mental stimulation. I'll be reading any other posts you send here, I won't be able to reply to them while working.
Ok so I was wrong.. lol he’s not a gem venus. I entered the wrong birth year I thought he was born in 83 but he was born in 82. He’s got a Scorpio moon, aries venus and Libra mars. I’m glad he still has a watery moon and refreshing that he doesn’t have an air venus lol I think his aries venus might pair nicely with my sag mars 😁😁click to expand
Aries Venus 👍 good placement for Taurus sun I think. It makes them more action go-getter, straight forward types which may well account for his perceived demanding nature. He probably knows what he wants. He will be attracted to action orientated women rather than girly or overly feminine ones so if you have some fire in your chart then that could blend well. Think Laura Croft, Wonder Woman, Xena, Serena or Venus Williams, Sgt Callahan in Police Academy... You get the idea.
If you've been dating the cancer for a month, what's stopping that going further? Personally I'm not a fan of cancerian men, I find them to be quite emotionally manipulative.
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Oh, I forgot to mention this, since I was laughing so hard. My mars is in Taurus, so no false sense of security there.
So the taurus guy that I’ve been talking to, we went to high school together.. he’s 2 years younger than me. We’ve been friends on fb but I was in a relationship with my sons dad for >10 years. (I’ll be 40 in October so we haven’t seen each other in ~20 years since high school)
Taurus and I recently started talking about a week ago. We’ve seen each other in person only 1 time so far in the last week.. we met at a park and talked for 2 hours. He asked me if I am talking to anyone else and I was honest and told him the cancer guy has been pursuing me for about a month. So I think this has made the taurus guy more competitive... he has asked me a few times to “cut the other guy off” even though there is nothing to cut off. Then he asked me today if I would be his girlfriend 😳 I didn’t think this was typical for taurus I thought they usually go slow. I figured he is probably just saying that so he can try to get the panties 🤣🤣
Oh jesus. *Facepalms.* I've done territorial shit like this before, I'd say he's likely attracted to you, even since high school, which makes it worse. I'd say it's a mixture of being possessive, a dash of obsession, and libido, so he's Really territorial right now. It's a really tough energy to handle in dealing with ALL of that at once, so I've scared off more than a few potential relationships, and friendships like that as it's one of the few time I go more than a little crazy, given my inability to think clearly during those moments.
My suggestion would be to put the brakes on it, because it isn't healthy for both you, and the Taurus. The good side of this, is that he will calm down after a while from being territorial, once he starts thinking again. The deepest friendships I have my in life, have all gone through this phase, so put that Scorpio side of yourself to work, and establish boundaries. -Remind- him that you two are not dating, only getting to know each other.
Good luck! o7 Hope I didn't scare you too much. I'll be thinking of this some more while I'm at work, when I get the chance.
I actually like him too, he doesn’t scare me 🤣 scorps don’t scare easily. I was more amused than anything. A little hesitant though, and doubting his sincerity... he seems like he’s the playboy type. He’s very good looking but he has some insecurities about something that happened to him and he opened up to me about it. He said he hasn’t told many people, not even his siblings... So we are forming a good friendship too and he seems to trust me.
The chemistry is very intense. Very intense 😅. The attraction to him is equally strong, I just don’t know about the compatibility. (As far as being family oriented, desire to settle down etc)
My sag mars is loving the excitement of this situation, but my venus Virgo is slamming on the brakes lol he makes me nervous.
Eh, sounds like being cautious is likely the good move then. Since having regrets could kill intimacy.
Is Gemini venus typically the player type? I read that y’all get bored easily and your taste or desires change frequently. I’m slightly paranoid that this guy just wants to move fast and then will grow bored with me once the challenge is gone. I have no history with gem venus so not really sure how your minds work lol
Not sure about being the player type, but it's more keeping things -fresh-. I know I get bored dealing the same situation, and thoughts, over.. and over.. and over. And I know I'm in real trouble, when I feel like being brain dead is preferable over dealing with someone's complaint for the 50th time.
I do know my mind tends to wander.. a lot, not in a romantic sense, so if I'm not talking to someone, I'm daydreaming, often daydreaming about talking to someone and always about different topics. So it could look like we change tastes, or desires a lot, it's more we don't like getting stuck in mental mud, if that make sense. But if you can switch different topics, or activities on the fly, I think that'll help deal with that part of him more easily. Otherwise, don't be surprised that if you spy on his computer activities, he may have 20 internet tabs of completely different topics of whatever interest him, in that moment.
It's a strange energy for me to deal with, as my other personal planets are in fixed energies. (Exception being Ascendant and North Node/South Node.) Anyways, my resting period is over, heading to work now. Thanks for the mental stimulation. I'll be reading any other posts you send here, I won't be able to reply to them while working.
Ok so I was wrong.. lol he’s not a gem venus. I entered the wrong birth year I thought he was born in 83 but he was born in 82. He’s got a Scorpio moon, aries venus and Libra mars. I’m glad he still has a watery moon and refreshing that he doesn’t have an air venus lol I think his aries venus might pair nicely with my sag mars 😁😁
Aries Venus 👍 good placement for Taurus sun I think. It makes them more action go-getter, straight forward types which may well account for his perceived demanding nature. He probably knows what he wants. He will be attracted to action orientated women rather than girly or overly feminine ones so if you have some fire in your chart then that could blend well. Think Laura Croft, Wonder Woman, Xena, Serena or Venus Williams, Sgt Callahan in Police Academy... You get the idea.
If you've been dating the cancer for a month, what's stopping that going further? Personally I'm not a fan of cancerian men, I find them to be quite emotionally manipulative.
The cancer and I haven’t really been dating, really only talking and getting to know each other. We’ve met in person only twice. We met for lunch at panera one time and then the second time we went down by the water and watched the sunset. We haven’t kissed or anything, it’s been strictly platonic. I was attracted to him because compatibility wise— we want the same things. But when I met with him the second time I didn’t feel the spark. There was no magnetic pull.
I met with the taurus last night and the attraction continues to grow stronger. He told me last night he wants to be with me, we have only been talking for a week though it just seems crazy to move that fast. I have a 5 year old son so I am honestly afraid and cautious about forming any new ties or commitments with anyone without knowing them well enough. But I do like him more and more everyday. I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. My Virgo venus is in overdrive and over thinking. 🥴click to expand
Well, if its been a month but only two dates and no spark on the second date then it sounds like it is not going anywhere. I assume the Cancer has not asked you out again/any third date booked in as yet? There's slow and then there's slow!
My fella knew before he met me (Internet dating) that he wanted to be with me (as long as I was not a complete twat etc) and was direct but polite with pursuing and making his intentions clear to me. I actually think men know far sooner that they like someone whereas women can take more time. Think of his men and women might shop for a pair of shoes. Men know the type they need and where to get them. They go to the shop, try them on, buy them and go home. Women may kind of know what shoes they want, go to the first store, try loads on, send half an hour in there, leave, next shop, next shop, four hours later still none the wiser but end up usually back at the same shop with thd first pair. Even then we are still undecided. Might buy two pairs or sizes with the security that we can always return them anyway. Get home. Um and ah then finally make a decision that we are comfortable with. Obviously not All men and women are as described but I think the point sets out that we often need more time to decide on some things.
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