what're the chances?

a little history through time:

2009:

march: met virgo guy @ work.

april - july: good company, good rapport, long talks.

august - november: was off the office for 2 weeks. kept constant communication despite distance, which is strange. in like with virguy. i said as much, do as much. was asked to watch movies, and hanged out. was both teased by colleagues. his reaction to the teasings was to close off and be 😐

december: teasings escalated to the point that it affected friendship. he did hold hands with me while drunk. ended up with having the whole thing blown up to much teasing from fellow colleagues, thereafter and with him professing that he could not remember anything after when drunk. talked nonstop for a week when was asked to go to a concert on march.

2010:

january: after the drunk hand holding. things went downhill. virguy became closed off. i think it was the amount of teasing and the publicity of us being teased. :\ asked virguy what's up? confronted that something's wrong between us and can we please talk this out? his reply: i am okay with this. (WTF?) generic avoidance.

february: we're like strangers at this point. i was worried about the concert at this state, wondering if it'd push through or not. attempted to give back his ticket.

march: a week before the concert virguy re-adds me to his im. makes vague plans on going, stressed on being early. went to the concert. i was early, he was late. the vibes i was getting was that he'd prefer to sleep at home. huh. told him off after the third time that if he really was that knackered, he could go home and sleep, no big deal if he wants to bail. (he ran 15k that morning, 😐)

late march: friends talked. heard that i might be reading too much in his actions. (hand holding, belly pinching -- so this is not like huh? 🙂) ) was asked if i wanted more from him: i said, if we cannot even sustain simple friendship, what's there to ask more of?

april: bounced back to being normal friends, despite the whole awkward phase of being strangers. it's like the awkward phase did not happen. virguy said that when one is drunk, his true colors show. huh. so does he remember things while drunk or not? :\

cont'd:

2010:

may: lots of flirting, staring and subtle gentlemanly gestures. charming b! my wary heart likes him far too much for my logical peace of mind. everything seems to be calculatedly subtly indirectly done.. sneaky b! he has been reading much on seduction and being charming.. too. so. might be a player in the making? :?

a little background on virgo guy:
- had a 4 year long relationship
- 1 year was spent long distance
- broke up twice
- still seems to have strong emotional attachment
- a first decan virguy

certain observations on virgo guy:
- whenever we're in a room, he somehow finds his way to me. (which makes me pleased)
- all non-verbal signs, seem to point to interested.

With the way the things are going, I should be optimistic, but there is this nagging feeling that he might pull another we're strangers thing again.

Any advise?

Oh, eta:

I'm a libra-scorpio cusp.

I'm trying not to confess that I like him, cause the last time I did, he went all we're like strangers on me.

PS. Any advise besides patience that is. 🙂) Which I think I might need in large doses of.

Thanks in advance.

uh oh first decan virgo are the messy virgos especially the one born during the early parts of the cusps like the 23 to the 28 of august they have all those leo influence they dont know if they wanna be a virgo or leo lol.

ima first decan virgo born on the 29 of august the only leo influence in my chart is my moon in leo the rest are air placements ima pretty detached at times.


first decans may seen like be players because they like to be open and friendly with people but are very very picky when it comes to who they want in they're life.

oh yeah first decan virgo are very emotionally expressive when they care about someone.

if your the one you will be about of his crazy life lmao.


good luck to ya.

yo 85 fill in the rest of the info for me lmao.

he sounds like the type who's actions you shouldn't read too much into. not because it isn't true. it probably is. but he clearly isn't comfortable admitting it. some people care first about what the brain says, what they say they feel, rather than their actual feelings. they will make sure that whatever happens falls in line with their words, rather than their feelings, no matter how obvious their feelings might be.

in other words, he sounds very immature. (i don't know how old he is. age and maturity do not always correlate)

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


uh oh first decan virgo are the messy virgos especially the one born during the early parts of the cusps like the 23 to the 28 of august they have all those leo influence they dont know if they wanna be a virgo or leo lol.

ima first decan virgo born on the 29 of august the only leo influence in my chart is my moon in leo the rest are air placements ima pretty detached at times.


first decans may seen like be players because they like to be open and friendly with people but are very very picky when it comes to who they want in they're life.

oh yeah first decan virgo are very emotionally expressive when they care about someone.

if your the one you will be about of his crazy life lmao.


good luck to ya.

yo 85 fill in the rest of the info for me lmao.

@LV: he has the same birthdate as you. he was pretty shy and timid three to five months before, and seeing him now, it's like he evolved into someone who's confident and very very dangerously charming. emotionally expressive? how so? he is caring, but not that consistently caring..

"if your the one you will be about of his crazy life lmao."

if i am the one, i will probably know of it right? and at the soonest possible time? hahaha! 😄

Posted by curious visitor
he sounds like the type who's actions you shouldn't read too much into. not because it isn't true. it probably is. but he clearly isn't comfortable admitting it. some people care first about what the brain says, what they say they feel, rather than their actual feelings. they will make sure that whatever happens falls in line with their words, rather than their feelings, no matter how obvious their feelings might be.

in other words, he sounds very immature. (i don't know how old he is. age and maturity do not always correlate)

@curious visitor: Hmm.. this does somehow fit him. From what other people have also observed. He is 23. Seems to be mature enough, but most comments on this situation do say that it was immature.

Thank you for your thoughts CV!

Hmm.. I guess I shall move on a bit at a time, if there is really nothing to see here.

wow really that's super cool did you do a birth chart to see what he has because if we have a similar chart that will be crazy lol.


sorry for the typo i meant to say apart of his crazy life.


this is what a birth chart is here's mine for a example.


Sun Virgo 6.33 Ascendant Aquarius 11.26
Moon Leo 21.44 II Aries 0.38
Mercury Libra 3.43 III Taurus 7.06
Venus Libra 14.04 IV Gemini 2.30
Mars Virgo 16.43 V Gemini 23.22
Jupiter Cancer 5.32 VI Cancer 14.22
Saturn Capricorn 7.25 R VII Leo 11.26
Uranus Capricorn 1.23 R VIII Libra 0.38
Neptune Capricorn 9.45 R IX Scorpio 7.06
Pluto Scorpio 12.48 Midheaven Sagittarius 2.30
Lilith Libra 22.38 XI Sagittarius 23.22
Asc node Aquarius 25.42 XII Capricorn 14.22

Well, you did say that you two were being teased by colleagues, and it was to the point were it crossed boundaries right? You know the answer, he distanced himself from you to avoid the irritation that these people were creating, and this led to you doubting his intention for the second time he came back because instead of confronting them to stop, he turned away to shack away the embarrassement.

Since you are asking for the qualities of a first decan virgo (how you displayed his birth), he is far more self-conscious than the rest of the decaned- virgos, and you should tell him to avoid the stuff that people say toward him.

^^They can be like solid rocks when they are with their friends, and have a completely different persona then they do when they are with their women, but when they decide to take their lady of love to an event, they take the words that their friends tell them like lashes being snapped against their egos because their women are their vulnerability.

But he remains besides you... SO V

He probably realized that these people are fucking stupid and should keep there jokes and words to themselves, and probably came to an understanding that he doesn\'t want you to fall out of his grasp (loose interest in him due to childish behavior from people outside of the relationship), so he\'s more than likely trying to get you back to trust him...

If he hasn\'t then you should help him overcome it, and/or lie to him that its irritating you, and he\'ll probably tell the cocksuckers to quit the teasing.

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uh oh first decan virgo are the messy virgos especially the one born during the early parts of the cusps like the 23 to the 28 of august they have all those leo influence they dont know if they wanna be a virgo or leo lol.

lol

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


wow really that's super cool did you do a birth chart to see what he has because if we have a similar chart that will be crazy lol.


sorry for the typo i meant to say apart of his crazy life.


this is what a birth chart is here's mine for a example.


Sun Virgo 6.33 Ascendant Aquarius 11.26
Moon Leo 21.44 II Aries 0.38
Mercury Libra 3.43 III Taurus 7.06
Venus Libra 14.04 IV Gemini 2.30
Mars Virgo 16.43 V Gemini 23.22
Jupiter Cancer 5.32 VI Cancer 14.22
Saturn Capricorn 7.25 R VII Leo 11.26
Uranus Capricorn 1.23 R VIII Libra 0.38
Neptune Capricorn 9.45 R IX Scorpio 7.06
Pluto Scorpio 12.48 Midheaven Sagittarius 2.30
Lilith Libra 22.38 XI Sagittarius 23.22
Asc node Aquarius 25.42 XII Capricorn 14.22

@LV:

I did his chart, although I don't know his exact birth time.

See below:

planet sign degree motion
Sun Virgo 5??02'53 in house 3 direct
Moon Gemini 19??16'38 in house 1 direct
Mercury Leo 27??05'06 in house 3 direct
Venus Libra 21??04'46 in house 5 direct
Mars Capricorn 13??13'23 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Pisces 19??34'50 in house 10 retrograde
Saturn Sagittarius 3??26'07 in house 6 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 18??21'28 in house 7 stationary 🍹
Neptune Capricorn 3??07'06 in house 7 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 5??05'14 in house 5 direct
True Node Aries 22??03'24 in house 11 retrograde

Ascendant Gemini 15??02'44
2nd House Cancer 10??38'36
3rd House Leo 6??22'52
Imum Coeli Virgo 5??04'40
5th House Libra 7??51'02
6th House Scorpio 12??24'40
Descendant Sagittarius 15??02'44
8th House Capricorn 10??38'36
9th House Aquarius 6??22'52
Medium Coeli Pisces 5??04'40
11th House Aries 7??51'02
12th House Taurus 12??24'40

yuechan I think you and your virgo moved too fast.
also, when emotion runs hot -- it is normal for them to detach.
You see everything was going so well till you guys held hands.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Well, you did say that you two were being teased by colleagues, and it was to the point were it crossed boundaries right? You know the answer, he distanced himself from you to avoid the irritation that these people were creating, and this led to you doubting his intention for the second time he came back because instead of confronting them to stop, he turned away to shack away the embarrassement.

Since you are asking for the qualities of a first decan virgo (how you displayed his birth), he is far more self-conscious than the rest of the decaned- virgos, and you should tell him to avoid the stuff that people say toward him.

^^They can be like solid rocks when they are with their friends, and have a completely different persona then they do when they are with their women, but when they decide to take their lady of love to an event, they take the words that their friends tell them like lashes being snapped against their egos because their women are their vulnerability.

But he remains besides you... SO V

He probably realized that these people are fucking stupid and should keep there jokes and words to themselves, and probably came to an understanding that he doesn\'t want you to fall out of his grasp (loose interest in him due to childish behavior from people outside of the relationship), so he\'s more than likely trying to get you back to trust him...

If he hasn\'t then you should help him overcome it, and/or lie to him that its irritating you, and he\'ll probably tell the cocksuckers to quit the teasing.

@sorti: Right. I did say to him to avoid the stuff that people say toward him, when the awkward phase started. Because what matters is what we have (good companionship) not what people paint it out to be (romantically). This advise was not effective, as seen by the fallout of friendship for a month or so.

At this point, I am aiming for being a good friend rather than a love interest, not only is this more calming to my nerves, but I rather enjoy his company as a good friend. Based on his reactions whenever this girl was brought up, yes it's a sore point, thus his vunerability.

The point that he remains besides me, I think is born out of a virgoan sense of what's right to do.

@re: Trust. It does look that way. I am rather wary of his actions at this point becau

Posted by yuechan


@sorti: Right. I did say to him to avoid the stuff that people say toward him, when the awkward phase started. Because what matters is what we have (good companionship) not what people paint it out to be (romantically). This advise was not effective, as seen by the fallout of friendship for a month or so.

At this point, I am aiming for being a good friend rather than a love interest, not only is this more calming to my nerves, but I rather enjoy his company as a good friend. Based on his reactions whenever this girl was brought up, yes it's a sore point, thus his vunerability.

Funny, this is the flaw of the first decan virgo. They are very nice and sensitive in privacy but they can become distant when it comes to showing a large display of emotion in a group setting because of their shyness.

The point that he remains besides me, I think is born out of a virgoan sense of what's right to do.

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Hopefully...

But LV is correct, the august born virgos are the worst to deal with. I hope all people avoid them at all cost. 😄

^ Us august virgos aren't all that bad, are we? lol

I remember I used to feel the same way when friends used to tease me, but nowadays I just say "Can I talk to my future wife without the commentary?" I'd just let it fuel my ego by turning it into a joke somehow or just brush it off. Maybe thats my leo moon.

Posted by elliejules
for fuck sake, just fuck him.

I second this motion

Posted by Critique
^ Us august virgos aren't all that bad, are we? lol

Cajunspirit has his reasons, and several users on here stray from august born virgos. Hell, i was asked by a women what my sign was, and after i told her that i was an august virgo, she made a disgusting face and pretty much rode me off. Weird. 😄

I remember I used to feel the same way when friends used to tease me, but nowadays I just say "Can I talk to my future wife without the commentary?" I'd just let it fuel my ego by turning it into a joke somehow or just brush it off. Maybe thats my leo moon.

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That's how it starts because we don't care (or we encourage it), but we don't put a foot down on them, so they are left to do whatever they want and it begins to disturb us, and we don't do anything because we are too stubborn to admit that our friends have found the one real vulnerability we have (which is our women), but this sort of mentality ends with age...HOPEFULLY!

We have to face that fact that our women or us (most of the time) get tired of these jokes that are constantly being thrown at our face.

But I've been told by many people that they couldn't picture me in a relationship.

Posted by Critique
^ Us august virgos aren't all that bad, are we? lol

I remember I used to feel the same way when friends used to tease me, but nowadays I just say "Can I talk to my future wife without the commentary?" I'd just let it fuel my ego by turning it into a joke somehow or just brush it off. Maybe thats my leo moon.

Posted by elliejules
for fuck sake, just fuck him.

I second this motion

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@critique: i think august virgos have much potential, given the right cultivation. i used to be painfully shy too when teased as well, but learned to be able to turn such situations into a more manageable one. ;D

@elliejules and critique: LOL!

You just have to know that August Virgo brings quite a bit of Fire to the party.

Funny thing is that you either have to deal with the first decan\'s (august born) public shyness or their depression.

Either one, there is a bit of work to handle these broken-souls, but they get around once they begin building confidence. Hey, is it better to deal with this or a man with a pokerface who expresses nothing?

Or maybe just not dealing with a virgo at all?

Mmm, my dealings with August Virgo, and granted this is one man we're talking about is that he had both within him. Depression and public shyness. I never chalked this up to low self esteem, but a very real and ingrained air of privacy about the man. But he recognized neither, flat out denied it in fact.
However, it is my very sincere opinion that it would be better dealing or dancing with the devils you know. Lack of expression, poker face is lack of life. Just my take. If someones face is one big flat line _________ with no ^^vv^^vv, what's the point?
And as to the not dealing with Virgos, ever. Not going to happen in my world. I enjoy Virgo, very much. For all the vagaries, differences in opinion, all of it. Mental challenge. On a lot of levels. And this Earth Girl, likes da Earthy Dudes.

Posted by venusianbull
You just have to know that August Virgo brings quite a bit of Fire to the party.

@venusianbull: a subtle flame at that. 🙂

Mmmhmm. Until it's a conflagration. 🙂

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Funny thing is that you either have to deal with the first decan\'s (august born) public shyness or their depression.

Either one, there is a bit of work to handle these broken-souls, but they get around once they begin building confidence. Hey, is it better to deal with this or a man with a pokerface who expresses nothing?

Or maybe just not dealing with a virgo at all?

@sorti: you nailed it right on, sorti. haha! hmm.. this leads me to ask, are virgos fragile emotionally?

they do get around, once their confidence is on.

i'd rather have a man to rant and rage, than to keep everything in and be 😐, but then again anything too volatile can be tiring as well.

on not dealing with a virgo, this would only be entertained when there is absolutely nothing more left between. i'm stubborn like that. 😄

Posted by venusianbull
Mmmhmm. Until it's a conflagration. 🙂

lol! from what i experienced, there was far too much smoke, rather than the flame haha!

Oh dear, LOL. I must have had previous ownership of one different kind of animal then. But I don't think so. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
Mmm, my dealings with August Virgo, and granted this is one man we're talking about is that he had both within him. Depression and public shyness. I never chalked this up to low self esteem, but a very real and ingrained air of privacy about the man. But he recognized neither, flat out denied it in fact.
However, it is my very sincere opinion that it would be better dealing or dancing with the devils you know. Lack of expression, poker face is lack of life. Just my take. If someones face is one big flat line _________ with no ^^vv^^vv, what's the point?
And as to the not dealing with Virgos, ever. Not going to happen in my world. I enjoy Virgo, very much. For all the vagaries, differences in opinion, all of it. Mental challenge. On a lot of levels. And this Earth Girl, likes da Earthy Dudes.

@venusianbull: he seems to have both as well, but right now, his confidence is shining on. and what a sight to behold at that. 😄

take my chances, should i? 🙂

indeed, when someone is 😐 on you, you might as well be alone, right?

same here, i do like virgo's company. just that on some days, i do get tired of all the mixed messages.

on another note, a lot of virgos do well with tauruses.

Posted by yuechan


@sorti: you nailed it right on, sorti. haha! hmm.. this leads me to ask, are virgos fragile emotionally?

they do get around, once their confidence is on.

...I'm august born that's why, so I know this stuff, haha. Yes, virgos are fragile, and because he has done this, the things that he has shrugged off, is now disturbing him.

i'd rather have a man to rant and rage, than to keep everything in and be 😐, but then again anything too volatile can be tiring as well.

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Funny, no matter how much we clam up, you can still notice that we are disturbed, but we are too stubborn to discuss the problem, but if you nag him enough he'll tell you, but it won't be a pretty picture. Don't worry, it takes time. These virgos are unpredictable, you never know what they are going to do.

That is why people stay away from them, as friend and lovers...

I understand, ah well. We aren't liked. 😄

Posted by yuechan

@venusianbull: he seems to have both as well, but right now, his confidence is shining on. and what a sight to behold at that. 😄

take my chances, should i? 🙂

Again, we aren't stupid, when we notice that the things we have done forced the person of our interest to start doubting us, we begin to do whatever it takes to regain your interest.

indeed, when someone is 😐 on you, you might as well be alone, right?

same here, i do like virgo's company. just that on some days, i do get tired of all the mixed messages.

on another note, a lot of virgos do well with tauruses.

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Everyone likes virgo company, but they wouldn't date'em... haha.

yeuchan, I think anything worth the having is worth a chance. I don't let my experience dampen my enthusiasm a bit. As a matter of fact I like to big Virgo up for all the really fabulous qualities they have. Because in my opinion, it's truth, not B.S. I think it's an underrated and most misunderstood sign. So YES. Take a chance. 🙂

Sorti, I still like my ex, bananas as that may sound. I like you too as far as that goes. I think you'd be a great person to have a beer with, bring the Pisces. 😄

Posted by venusianbull
yeuchan, I think anything worth the having is worth a chance. I don't let my experience dampen my enthusiasm a bit. As a matter of fact I like to big Virgo up for all the really fabulous qualities they have. Because in my opinion, it's truth, not B.S. I think it's an underrated and most misunderstood sign. So YES. Take a chance. 🙂

I agree.

Sorti, I still like my ex, bananas as that may sound. I like you too as far as that goes.

Ahhhh shucks, thanks sug., I like ya too dude. ARIES MOONER SIBLINGS right here!

I think you'd be a great person to have a beer with, bring the Pisces.

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I'm already ahead of you. *starts knocking on venuisbulls door*. Funny, I show her all the discussions i have with people on here, and she cracks up with all the crap i post, but she tends to nod her head when i spend time on her than on her, so i've been a bit busy not coming on here haha. Yeah, i'll e-bring her just for you dude!

*drags shaks with one hand and Dy on the other*

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney

...I\'m august born that\'s why, so I know this stuff, haha. Yes, virgos are fragile, and because he has done this, the things that he has shrugged off, is now disturbing him.

nothing beats first hand source. 😄 is this the same as guilt tripping on oneself and trying to make it up for the guilt/what has disturbed him before?

Funny, no matter how much we clam up, you can still notice that we are disturbed, but we are too stubborn to discuss the problem, but if you nag him enough he\'ll tell you, but it won\'t be a pretty picture. Don\'t worry, it takes time. These virgos are unpredictable, you never know what they are going to do.

That is why people stay away from them, as friend and lovers...

I understand, ah well. We aren\'t liked. 😄

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again, too right! i do notice when he does calm up (because most of the time he can be a chatterbox) but right now, i don't think i have enough of his side of the picture to bring his moments up to discuss anything about.

he has self professed that routine is his thing.. but he can be unpredictable too. quite a paradox there.

funny, you should say that people tend to stay away/(are not liked) from you guys. i find that people tend to gravitate to him. in a way. and on my part, i am helplessly pulled in. 🙂) i've yet to decide if it is a good or a bad thing. currently, seeing where this will go.

Aries Moon Sibs in da HIZZZOUSE! 🙂 And you and your lady are welcome any time. 🙂 Bring suits. I have many lovely lakes to show off. LOL and yes, pay attention to that woman. Or your lil' sis will knock you spang upside the head. Fire Moon style . 😛

LOL Sorti. Oh see now? It's just a party at this point. Now I'll have to bomb blast y'all with my cooking. Suck it up and enjoy yourselves. 😄

i'm co signing with 85 everybody avoids august virgos like a plague we seem weird to other virgos or signs when people ask for my sign i say ima virgo they be like sept or august i say august i get the oh lol.

i think dy said most august virgos are broken souls but i forgot why he said it though.

but what i dont get the first decan virgo is the first virgo double mercury ruled so why are we disregarded lol

i guess cuz we are the smart virgos more logical and detached but show feelings when worthwhile but are crazy non stable nervous wrecks picky and a smart ass sums us up nicely lmao.

Hehehehee LV, owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

oh yeah.

we had dinner last night with colleagues. i ended up mentioning that he changed from what he was like a few months ago. i wasn't expecting him to be bothered by that statement enough to pursue the topic. in any case, boy was he persistent in getting a feedback, which made me remember a topic that was brought up here as well on virgos and their survey forms.

i've yet to give my full answer on what his changes were, because i sense this is kind of a pop quiz on whether i will pass or fail on a grading/point system that i've yet to know. haha.. so i'll be taking my time on it a bit.

also, i just kind of noticed, whenever i was doing the asking, he tends to give me glossed out answers/or forgets to answer at all. but now that it's his turn to ask, he kind of expects that i should give him one, right now, just because he asked. kind of a bit unfair that. :\

Posted by venusianbull
Hehehehee LV, owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

lmao gotta love it owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao 🙂

LOL He didn't forget, he filed than in the ol' gray matter. It's still there, rattling about. I think most men want the hoop jump. Checks and balances. Weighing matters most carefully. You've the right of it to give the best possible answer. And you're perfectly free to give him that as a response. "I want to give you the truest and most accurate answer to your question." Be honest, completely. Because that will get ferreted out quickly if you do not.

LOL LV, it's got a good beat, and I can dance to it. Owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. 😄

imo still august virgos are headaches that no pain killers can't get rid of people say i drive them crazy with my crazy sense of humor and picky ness while being serious and blunt be real and down to earth lmao.

Erm, it's hilarious I think. But then again I go from serious hammer to complete goofy kid. In the blink of an eye at times. Ees' all good. 🙂

Posted by yuechan

nothing beats first hand source. 😄 is this the same as guilt tripping on oneself and trying to make it up for the guilt/what has disturbed him before?

Of course. 😄. Yeah, that is the same guilt trip. He wants to show you that he isn't a wussy (part wimp part pussy), and he's more than likely showing you how confident he really is... Like i said, he probably knew that his distancing was going to make you doubt his intentions of actually liking you, so he realized that has to deal with the problem (those people) and get over the childish behavior. Once this happends, then its smooth sailing...

again, too right! i do notice when he does calm up (because most of the time he can be a chatterbox) but right now, i don't think i have enough of his side of the picture to bring his moments up to discuss anything about.

Yeah, when we are good were great, but when we are not in the mood we'll become unemotionally involved. Only way to bring us out is to comfort us with a good movie or talk about stuff that doesn't relate to the topic and when he settles you can ask him his problem haha.

he has self professed that routine is his thing.. but he can be unpredictable too. quite a paradox there.

funny, you should say that people tend to stay away/(are not liked) from you guys. i find that people tend to gravitate to him. in a way. and on my part, i am helplessly pulled in. 🙂) i've yet to decide if it is a good or a bad thing. currently, seeing where this will go.

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People have bad experiences with them. A great deal of people are friends with me and other virgos born around our time, and people love their company but can't find any reason to become more involved...

Don't know, I have to do more research or get more feedback from people why we are kept within a certain radius.

Yeah, we do get a great deal of attention from people and its weird, but because of our nature of gaining attention,

Posted by venusianbull
Aries Moon Sibs in da HIZZZOUSE! 🙂 And you and your lady are welcome any time. 🙂 Bring suits. I have many lovely lakes to show off. LOL and yes, pay attention to that woman. Or your lil' sis will knock you spang upside the head. Fire Moon style . 😛

I will, I will sister. 😄

You did give me a good beating the last time. I can't get rid of those indian burns. 😢

I'm so sorry Sorti ( erm NOT 😛 ) but if you hadn't have rubbed peanut butter in my hair we'd be cool. And showing my diary to the guy I'm crushing on was just so wrong. Big bro's are such a pain. I swear. 😄

Posted by yuechan


also, i just kind of noticed, whenever i was doing the asking, he tends to give me glossed out answers/or forgets to answer at all. but now that it's his turn to ask, he kind of expects that i should give him one, right now, just because he asked. kind of a bit unfair that. :\

Yeah, I do that. Its a bad habit. Most of the time, I am paying half attention and the other half of the time my mind just wonders. You have to grab his full attention and do the same to him as he does to you. 😄

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll be honest with you, these guys are great, but they always have to come across a small insignificant problem that no other person really cares about, and they make a real problem out of it.., but if anything happens with you two just keep us informed. 😄

Where here to help you dude! If not, show him what I'm writing so it can get through the guys thick headed skull, so he doesn't loose an opportunity with you.

Posted by venusianbull
LOL Sorti. Oh see now? It's just a party at this point. Now I'll have to bomb blast y'all with my cooking. Suck it up and enjoy yourselves. 😄

*pulls out knife and fork* I'm ready.

And I know how much the bulls love to cook, I'm going to be stuffed like a pig by the end of the night.

And in response to the bubble gum, I thought it looked nice, but you had to cut it off. 😢

Oh yes, you will be fed very well Mr. Sorti. 🙂

But, but *lip trembling and eyes filling with tears* my braids were down to my waist. *wiping nose on your shirt* You wait till Mom gets home. You're gonna GET IT.

@sorti and venusianbull:

a big thank you for all your insights! 😄

between the last time and now, here's what happened:

1. he's been touchy, more touchy than normal. but this is when we're in the vicinity of each other. we tend to drift to each other.
2. he repetitively said that he's satisfied by being alone.
3. he made me hear all american reject's swing swing -- after which, reminds me of a funeral with the song's intro. anyhow, i think it kind of sums up his last relationship's status until now.
4. gave my honest feedback this morning. brought up when we were teased.

this is what he said: in his honest opinion, he dislikes people liking him in a like-like way, it makes him feel weird. because he feels responsible for the other's feeling's because he knows he cannot return the same feeling thus not making the other party happy, and then asks me on what is the proper response to that kind of situation.

i replied that it's okay, specially being a boy, he could be burdened by guilt of making someone unhappy. but then i explained that he need not feel burdened by it, because in my pov, liking someone is a more personal/internal thing. so he should not feel pressured.

i eventually ended my reply with: just so we're on that topic, i like you, but don't panic, because (noting that you're happy alone) i really value our friendship and your companionship far more than my liking of you. so, just breathe and take it easy.

after which, no reply to that message yet.

i hope i didn't freak him out again. 🙂) >__