I am a Virgo, and although I give off the Vulcan vibe, and try to be rational. The truth is, I take things super personally that I probably shouldn't and obsessed about things that do not matter. Such as people passing their failures on to me, I'll brood over passing the buck for days. Or, someone insulting me, things such as this will affect my judgement for extended periods whether I want to believe it or not. Am I unique, or are others Virgos sometimes too sensitive?
My experience with virgo's (males) is that they were very hyper sensitive to anything they interpreted as being an attack to their character and/or intellect. In most cases, no one was attacking them; the reality was someone was expressing their frustration or feelings about something, but not about the virgo guy. and on most occasions, he took it as if HE was the one being criticized and blamed for their frustration etc.
personally, I think virgos (males), can be some of the nicest and most helpful guys. It's been my experience they are some of the most intuitive guys knowing what areas you need help in and making sure you follow through on what you need to do to reach your goals. They do it in a very subtle and decisive manner. Unless you are a very perceptive individual, you will only see/feel the changes that come about. They have a way of pushing you to succeed, but making it appear as if you were the mastermind of your success.
Virgo males are a paradox. They radiate confidence, but underneath, are always yearning to believe in themselves. I think they often look to other people, especially the ones they push, to validate them in return in terms of confidence/self esteem.
When I was younger and didn't realize the differences between signs and how people really think, I would have never thought the virgo males in my life fit the description above. But they all fit it to a "T". Of course, I probably would have handled a few things differently as well realizing how my actions affected them inside. It's hard when you are younger and not experienced with many relationships to be able to decipher a man's feelings; let alone a virgo man. I read this once about Virgo men: "it is the most calm waters that has the most depth..." There is certainly much depth, but with that comes a lot of passion and sensitivity that often gets bottled up inside until the right person comes along who can help him release it.
I've definitely noticed this. Virgo males tend to be critical of a lot of things; most of all, themselves. Any slight remark that could be misinterpreted as an insult or negative comment is internalized and picked apart in the confines of their mind. They seem to live and die (self-esteem wise) in the depths of their thoughts. They're very pensive and sensitive creatures.
The truth is, I take things super personally that I probably shouldn't and obsessed about things that do not matter.
Such as people passing their failures on to me, I'll brood over passing the buck for days.
Or, someone insulting me, things such as this will affect my judgement for extended periods whether I want to believe it or not.
Am I unique, or are others Virgos sometimes too sensitive?