I am a Scorpio girl and she is a Capricorn

I don’t know anything about Capricorns. To my knowledge, I’ve only met a few and the ones I met I didn’t care to be around. Except her. We are good friends only been knowing each other for 2 years and I am attracted to her. Her mind, her body, her enthusiasm and her ambition. We are both beautiful tall and slim. we both have kinky long hair. we feed off of each other’s beauty when we go out. It may seem vain but it’s true lol. Also we are straight.

To make a long story short she likes to model and I like to sew, I am into fashion. We collabed together and I made a outfit for her do a photoshoot. When I went to go fit her for the outfit she stripped in front of me and was standing in front of me naked with just a thong. I have seen plenty of women naked because that’s what women do when we are around each other plus I used to model as well so everyone is always walking around half naked. And I never felt an attraction to seeing a woman naked like I do with her. Everything about her is perfect to me.

The other night I went to her house because she had some cake left over from this little gathering that she had and asked me did I want anymore to take back home. Honestly I didn’t care about the cake I just wanted to see her. So I went there and we’re just talking about random stuff. You know, girl stuff, and she’s getting dressed to go out with some of her friends. I am sitting in the living room and she goes to grab clothes out of her bedroom to change. She starts to change in front of me because her full length mirror is in the living room. She takes her top off and changes into a new top with out a bra. So I am playing it off like I don’t have the hots for her lol and just continue with my conversation.

Remind you, Before I went to her house that night to grab some cake I had a sex dream about her. And in the dream I enjoyed it so much. I have never in my entire life had a sex dream about anyone. I know Capricorn girls are low key about their feelings. If I know her am much as I think I do she is good with hiding her true feelings if she likes someone.

What do y’all think about this situation. I am afraid to tell her that I am attracted to her because I don’t want to mess up our friendship. Also she is moving out of state in a month and I wish that I had more time with her because I know that I could slowly give her a subtle idea that I am feeling her without being pushy. I don’t like moving too fast or being pushy with things like this and I don’t want to rush into telling her just because she is moving out of state. Should I tell her or should I not? If I do tell her, what should I say.

One more thing she just lost her virginity a year ago and has had sex with one person. She is 22 And she values her body a lot. So I don’t want her thinking that I just want her for sex like everyone else does. Thanks for your input.

Posted by MareInfame

It sounds like timing is just off and against you.

From what I read, there was no indication she felt anything for you... I think she was behaving as she naturally does in your industry.

You are right, Caps are super slow and reserved... only way was to get to know her better, with TIME.... and you don’t have that.

You said you don’t want her to think you only want her for sex. But so far, you’ve only mentioned liking her physical beauty and got stronger feelings when you had a sexual dream of her. Sounds like you are just on lust, nothing to take seriously.

Maybe keep her friendship and WAIT... get to know her better and create some history and comfort with her.

Also... is this same sex? Is she into women?

I agree. I think I have a lot of lust for her lol and I didn’t want that to overshadow any logic. Thank you for replying. That helped. Yes she is straight as well. My friendship with her means more than lust. We are both straight and we have this thing when are out dancing we smack each other’s butt while twerking but it’s all girlie fun. Yes, she is straight too.

Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

"To make a long story short"

Lol

Haha ikr but trust me this is short compared to the real story.

And I like to watch.

Posted by TurnedOn

And I like to watch.

what is it with dudes and lez fantasies. I had a lezbian sex dream once and It was.... Dry. As a the Sahara desert. Personally I want to watch straight two straight guys go for it.

I'd say go ahead and try. What have you got to lose. But that whole part about we like to wait isn't true. At least not for me anyway. We caps are some lowkey sex fiends. We just don't like tp telegraph that shit to the whole world. Except for now😁. Chill, relax there's no rush just enjoy each moment as it comes. We hate when people try to rush things along, we like when things are happening organically. When people try to rush or plan every little detail it feels fake.

Posted by SaintAmour

I swear, it's like my relationship with capricorn women! There's always been this sexual tension with them even though we all are straight. I just like their confidence and that I can always depend on them. I don't want to discourage you but I wouldn't ruin that friendship if I were you, especially with the time disadvantage here. But that's probably just me and I 100% would choose a friendship over any romantic or sexual relationship.

I love her confidence too and she’s so sweet. She’s also complicated not easy to read and I love that about her.

Posted by mrfish23

Damn I thought Scorpios might be the only sign that can't be bisexual.

But today that misconception of mine also broke down. 🙃

I didn’t think I could be bisexual either never fantasized about another girl until her.

Posted by jezzyboo21

I'd say go ahead and try. What have you got to lose. But that whole part about we like to wait isn't true. At least not for me anyway. We caps are some lowkey sex fiends. We just don't like tp telegraph that shit to the whole world. Except for now😁. Chill, relax there's no rush just enjoy each moment as it comes. We hate when people try to rush things along, we like when things are happening organically. When people try to rush or plan every little detail it feels fake.

Since You’re a cap giving me advice I want to go for it now reading your response. Thanks for the insight. 😉

Posted by Southerness_

Posted by jezzyboo21

I'd say go ahead and try. What have you got to lose. But that whole part about we like to wait isn't true. At least not for me anyway. We caps are some lowkey sex fiends. We just don't like tp telegraph that shit to the whole world. Except for now😁. Chill, relax there's no rush just enjoy each moment as it comes. We hate when people try to rush things along, we like when things are happening organically. When people try to rush or plan every little detail it feels fake.

Since You’re a cap giving me advice I want to go for it now reading your response. Thanks for the insight. 😉

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