Is is right/wrong to be annoyed at the fact that your boyfriend hasnt texted since 11 and when you text him at 4 saying "Been busy today huh babe?" he answers, "just a little, how's work?" Now, your boyfriend has been at a picnic with his class. And he gets out at 2:30, and doesnt have TIME to text? And now the only reason I am annoyed is because he is readily texting back now, despite being "just a little busy" and if I do this, he doesnt let me get away with it? ARGH. Advice please! 🙂
Lol, yes I chilled. I am stressed with all the college stuff and the cutting back on public school employees :/ Guys, dont ever work for a school system.
I think you should just chill. It could either be that you're a little clingy or maybe have a deep down impatience with him or insecurity with him. It would be one thing if you texted him all day and he DIDN'T respond (because then your arguement about being too busy to text might be valid) but atleast he responded. Maybe he really is busy & as long as what he's "busy" doing is productive you should chill out a little. And even if he gets mad when you're a little too busy, oh well 2 people dating or that are in love should never hold it against the other person when they are doing something productive
It would be one thing if he was "too busy" out with his friends, but if he's being productive & taking care of his business, he's not doing anything wrong, it might just be you being used to hearing from him all the time. There are going to be sometimes when 2 people have to take care of business & sometimes that involves leaving the other person behind at home wondering, "Where is he? What is he doing?" But honestly, if there is a deeper insecurity involved, it might be that even if he had've texted you back right after there's still a chance that your craving for his attention might've still been there.
You know what they say, time apart makes the heart grow fonder...
Yeah I think thats it, a deeper insecurity, I've been feeling blah lately with him. I think it happens with everyone though, and I've chalked it up to be just stress. Lady M, I woke at an elementary school named Cypress. As we are in deep doodoo in the economy, the school system has been cutting back. 😢 But, again, I'm just getting over my stress period and I honeslty think I'll feel better when I'm up at college and I'm more accomplished. Im not clingy at all, and sometimes I need a little too much space, but I guess it was just one of those days, I usually post it and look back and say, ugh! 🙂 Thanks for the comments (some lol)
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Now, your boyfriend has been at a picnic with his class. And he gets out at 2:30, and doesnt have TIME to text?
And now the only reason I am annoyed is because he is readily texting back now, despite being "just a little busy" and if I do this, he doesnt let me get away with it?
ARGH.
Advice please! 🙂