Aquarius guys & trusting?

I have an Aquarius boyfriend, [first boyfriend too!]
and I've been together with him for 9 months and a couple of days.
He's a very moody and emotional guy towards me when in private
but when he's out with his cousin's friends or just some new friends he acts like the regular Aquarian and not-no emotional one either.

Im a cancer and for me it's just so hard to trust someone if they're not one of my gal pals.
Sometimes him and his cousin go out to places with a couple of girls that are very gorgeous and his race. [we're not the same race!] Short skirts and skimpy clothing. . .

He says he'll never cheat on me, but can I really believe him?
Plus, I'm not a pretty girl myself. Sorta overweight with thick legs, and not the slim and slender long legs that the girls had when he was with his cousins.

Obviously I cannot speak on behalf of every Aquarius guy but personally I have never cheated nor will I ever. I stand against cheating because for me it's the wrong thing to do; I can understand why some people do cheat, and it's not a sign thing, it's down to individuals, I find it funny when people say "Oh don't date this sign because they're cheaters" - get real! It's impossible to prove that.

Anyways back on topic I have noticed that I am very different towards some people myself - whether in public or private. You have to trust him otherwise the relationship will not work - also I'm sure he is with you for far more than looks, there are some gorgeous girls out there, and everybody is beautiful in their own way - but at the end of the day I don't believe in going out with someone based on physical attraction, personally I require much more than that - I believe that many Aquarius people are the same, and that the same can apply to other signs.

Also from reading up we do like to spend our time with friends while in relationships, which again from what I've seen is not just an Aquarius thing at all; everybody needs their own alone time and it has to be work both ways as well. I'm sure he is just having fun but thinking of you, and that there is no cheating going on when he is out with other friends.

Good luck with your relationship anyway and I wish you all the best 🙂

Well here's the first problem: You mentioned that you were not pretty & talked about how your weight might not be as "good looking" as those other women. That's the first problem. If your distrust for him is stemming from your OWN insecurities (things that were there before him) then your relationship will quickly go down the drain.

Secondly, you've got to establish some boundaries within your relationship in regards to how you feel about him spending extra time with other women in general. If you TRULY trust him, would it matter if those girls were ugly or pretty? Trust is trust. And it seems like there might be some jealousy & insecurities going on. The reason I'm mentioning this is b/c when you both have this conversation, it'll be important for YOU to atleast acknowledge these things so that he doesn't accidentally get blamed for them.

With Aquarian men, it's true; they are not ones to cheat. BUT the key is that they have to truly love you & consider you someone worthy. The problem is being "worthy" in his eyes is a very hard thing to accomplish. Don't worry so much about how he acts when he's around his friends. Most men are one way with their girlfriends & another with outside friends & family. Now, if he's just being down right fake & a completely diff. person then that's different, but don't sweat over the small stuff. Listen to your gut, your instincts & your common sense & establish communication with him about this before your emotions get out of control about this