Aquarius Men...Again

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It's not the guys' fault...

Understanding
Hmmm?there's a little help in attempting to understand I guess but what to do with the information becomes the question?
Are you understanding to help your communication with the person or are you understanding to morph into something you're not? Very fine line

Again and again, I've seen people say, 'oh I can be this too, I can be that too?' but with the questions that keep coming, it's obvious they can't.

The thing is 'have you spend this amount of time understanding YOURSELF and your wants or needs?' instead of analysing what generic information is out there for strangers.... all sun signs are so different that you have to take so much into consideration. Experience with one or two of similar signs does not make us experts, so how come the advice is used like bible idk.
I mean most Aquas and Sags I know are married. I know some Cancer and Taurus suns not interested in marriage or kids but nurtur other things just as efficiently ? makes sense ? nurturing doesn't always mean with kids.

It's ok to be emotional, clingy, detached, aggressive, critical, bitter/vengeful ?-? we all have needs to be met ? why are we so uncomfortable? idk

It's not needing permission from, it's actually what they want to do ? no one is making them do it.
I think this is partly the issue - people pass judgements - people who want families and want to stay home keep defending their actions, independent-type keep defending...when do we accept people just want to be?

I find out that my friends don't want to go out and use needing permission as an excuse not to be judged for being dependent...bleh

It's just a never ending viscious cycle.