Aquas' and Space

I am wondering (since I am seeing an aqua man) about just asking him if he needs space in general? I mean we have only been seeing each other for 2 months but if I knew this and understood it was going to be like that I would be able to deal with it all better. I don't notice anyone on here just talking to the other person (aqua) about it. It kinda seems like a no brainer. But maybe not?

When we were dating at about six months I asked him if he felt he got enough time for his family and himself because I didn't want him to feel smothered by me. He said "I'm breathing aren't I?"

If you leave most of the contact and plans up to him, then you'll know you're giving him enough space. It's cool to suggest things or invite him places, just let him do 80% of the plans/contact. He'll contact you or make plans with you and you'll know its because he wants to and he's making time for you.

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When we were dating at about six months I asked him if he felt he got enough time for his family and himself because I didn't want him to feel smothered by me. He said "I'm breathing aren't I?"

If you leave most of the contact and plans up to him, then you'll know you're giving him enough space. It's cool to suggest things or invite him places, just let him do 80% of the plans/contact. He'll contact you or make plans with you and you'll know its because he wants to and he's making time for you.

I'm seeing a Scorpio right now and it kinda works like that. He hints often enough about dates and such, but the ultimate decision is left up to me, and I'll tell ya, I love it. My life isn't taken over and I'm not being pushed into anything.

To be honest, with me, not wanting to be around the person isn't because I don't want to be around the person. It's really because I'm thinking of/troubled by something, and I don't want to keep looking at the clock, staring into space, or projecting deep blue funk onto to my poor unsuspecting date for the whole time. This way, he can be 100% sure that my attention is his for the time being...I'm all there.

[This reasoning might be because my chart is a bit more Scorp (15% ) than Aqua (13% ), but whatever. 🙂]

Okay, good info. It just feel like he likes being by himself more than I do. I did ask him one time if he was a loaner and he said he was not sure. I thought that was interesting. Aravis, okay that is nice to hear. 🙂

Honestly, just live your life. Get some hobbies, take a class, and/or start a business. In my experience Aqua males like you to have your own life...but, they also like to be pampered a little. My Aqua man loves the fact that I am really busy but, I take time out to bake him cookies once a month or prepare him a little goodie bag once in awhile. He beams. It's cute. 🙂

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Honestly, just live your life. Get some hobbies, take a class, and/or start a business. In my experience Aqua males like you to have your own life...but, they also like to be pampered a little. My Aqua man loves the fact that I am really busy but, I take time out to bake him cookies once a month or prepare him a little goodie bag once in awhile. He beams. It's cute. 🙂

Oohh!!! I like the goody bag idea!!!! I may have to steal one if you don't mind!

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Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
Honestly, just live your life. Get some hobbies, take a class, and/or start a business. In my experience Aqua males like you to have your own life...but, they also like to be pampered a little. My Aqua man loves the fact that I am really busy but, I take time out to bake him cookies once a month or prepare him a little goodie bag once in awhile. He beams. It's cute. 🙂

Oohh!!! I like the goody bag idea!!!! I may have to steal one if you don't mind!

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When they beam like that, it allows me to see the little boy inside! Love, love, love when he looks like that!!

+1 on staying busy. They like an independent woman.