Did the dinner date go well?

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evecap
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He's Aqua in sun/venus, taurus rising, moon gemini, mercury/mars in pisces. He's 29, i'm 21 and we met at work. All those eye contact and stuff just led to more conversation and him hanging around my desk and things. We were having a conversation when i said i was hungry and if he wanted to have dinner. He said yes. At first it was kinda awkward but we did talk alot during our journey to the eatery. He was asking alot of stuff like why I studied psychology in college, why did i like it, how was my life like at home etc.

He was really nice and gentlemanly. Like watching out for the traffic for me and all that. I was suffering from coughs and he was quite concerned. Plus, he was asking me a ZILLION questions. From my hair (i think he spent about 15 minutes talking abt it) to my family to previous relationships, our interests, everything - random things like why i carried so many things to work, why i liked big watches etc. We have quite alot in common and he was and joking and teasing me quite abit. Though there were long, drawn out silences also and he would ask me what i was thinking about etc.
He was pretty chatty and talked alot about his life and his family (he showed me a few photos of his nieces), and his interests, freetime activities etc. When he was talking about his exes (i got abit jealous actually and tried my best to hide it) he said they were all still friends and that he couldn't hate people. He seems to be a very sensitive person and said he'd cry during sad movies and that his exes never really missed him, he though takes a year to get over them ha. We talked for really really long. And yes really, so many questions he has haha.

He asked for my number and then walked me to the train station. After I reached home, he texted me to ask if I was safe at home. We then exchanged a few texts before i said I didnt wanna bother him at work and he said night. I know he was staring alot into my eyes which I kept looking away for some reason. And he did mention that he wanted to tell me somemore stuff in future and that we should go exercise together. He seems really busy with work though.

Did it go fine? I know he's very friendly and nice so I can't tell if he's being friendly or more.
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From what you've shared, I think the date went VERY well & is looking UP for you two. I'm not going to lie and tell you that this guy is already/probably head over heels for you b/c I think we both know that it'd be too soon for any of that. But this guy generally showed alot of signs of interest like him:

1. Opening up to you about his family. Aquas don't start asking questions unless they generally care. If they're not really "sure" about a person yet, they're very patient & will usually let the other person slowly reveal themselves so they don't have to do most of the work by asking questions. If he wasn't intrigued, he wouldn't have asked you so many questions. He wouldn't have opened up his dialogue to you & kept it flowing.

2. He already asked you out on another semi-date. If he wasn't interested in you from the dinner, he wouldn't have gone out of his way to initiate another "meeting" b/w you two & ESPECIALLY since he already gets to see you enough at work. Trust me, Aquas don't like wasting their own time. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have asked to see you again outside of work.

3. Just by what you claims he shared with you (his neices, for ex.) just shows that he was generally "into" the date. He was staring into your eyes b/c he was checking for sincerity in whatever you were saying. He was observing your body language. He was "taking in" you, & that generally is a good thing.

You can always tell how much an Aqua is "feeling you," by how much of themselves they dish out. Aquas are REALLY good at tricking the other person into spilling the beans so that they don't have to do any of that themselves. And since this guy was comfortable enough with you to share certain things with you that the average person probably doesn't know, it's probably b/c he's assuming you 2 will have many more conversations in the future. Rule of thumb: The MORE an Aqua talks about themselves to you, the MORE interested they are in you