tiffany3624
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Gemini female confused over Aqua's male statement
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Any reason why he would be saying this? will it ever change as time goes on.
Please help!
No, it probably won't change. If he's already "comfortable" in the relationship, what you see is what you get. If he's been cool so far with sex occuring only once a week, there's no reason for you to believe that he was joking about his "sex isn't important" statment. There's no reason for you to believe that he'll all of the sudden become something he's not.
He's already told you that sex wasn't that important to him. WHY it's not is only something he knows & is something you oughta ask him. Trying to guess or anaylze the answer to that question will only drive you crazy.
Since sex is more important to you than it is to him, you need to communicate your concerns. Atleast communicate before you go putting up huge security walls. For all you know, his sex drive (or lack of) lately could be just temporarily or b/c of certain things going on in his life. 2 people won't F like rabbits every single month of their relationship.
I'm not saying that sex shouldn't be as important to you as it is (you have a right to place importance on whatever you want) BUT understand that it's in your best interest to atleast give him the benefit of the doubt & open up a dialogue with him before you start making snap judgements or give up too quickly.
Talking to him about this won't guarantee that he'll magically wake up tomorrow with a higher sex drive, BUT if he's aware of your issues & if he cares about your feelings/the relationship, you guys will atleast be able to find a happy medium & make the necessary sacrifices/compromises. Hopefully
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Any reason why he would be saying this? will it ever change as time goes on.
Please help!