GONE

Yesterday, I told my Aquarius boyfriend to leave. It felt so dam good and honestly I think I should have done it a long time ago. This past weekend my car was given me problems, so he took it to go get fixed. He called me around 5:00p.m. and told me a little things that was going wrong with it and he said he would call me back. I didn't here from him till Sunday morning around 10:00a.m. The sad thing about it was that I had to call him. He doesn't have a cell phone(it's broke) and he said that he was over his mother house. I did call and his brother and he said that he wasn't there the first time I called. Then I called again and he said "my bad girl I was knocked out that boy is out there working on that car" I didn't believe that one bit. I really think that the car was fixed on Saturday. He didn't even have the nerves to call me to say that he was going to spend the night over his mother's house. I have been so good to him. I have three kids of my own and I even took care of his two kids not to keep him, but because their mother is on drugs and have no part of their lives. I cook, clean, take care of the family and have been faithful to this man. He's all over me one day and the next day he isn't. I told him to leave while I was at work. When I got home he was gone....he left his DVD player and some clothes in the washer. I don't know if he just forgot it or did it on purpose. I truly love this man and I wish that we could work it out, but he has got to get it together. I don't ask for much so how could he do me this way. He left me a letter telling me that he will always love me and my kids with all his heart(I wonder did he mean it) Do you think he will call? Do you think he's hurting? Do you think he miss me? Help me please someone.....

I feel there are missing pieces to the puzzle, did you talk to him about his actions or you just decided to throw him out? You were fed up so there had to be other acts of bad behavior for you to feel you had to end things this way....What led up to you deciding to put him out?

It's not what you do for him that dictates if he will love you and be loyal to you, a man will love a woman when he's ready, when his life is complete, it has to do with him. Is he happy with who he is? is he doing the things in life that make him feel like a man? And is he making the money he needs to make to feel satisified with his familylife? If any of these ingredients are missing he's not going to be the man you need him to be kids or no kids, he's going to cheat, he's going to behave poorly because he for whatever reason can't man up and get his life right.

He will be back but lay down some boundaries or continue with the drama, HE NEEDS TO KNOW WHAT'S ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR or he will assume he can do what he wants.