Aqua guy and I are friends. I want to take the friendship we have to the next level (comfortably). How should I go about it? We both are with other people, but I want to become best friends with him...
Next level friendship

Why?

why not koniucha? about friends with girl

Well, until OP fesses up and explains why she wants to be best friends with someone other than her bf/gf, I'm out.
Man, you guys are a stiff bunch! He's also friends with my boyfriend and I'm friends with his wife. He's an amazing person and I love being around him. I am an adult and know about boundaries and such. I am not attracted to him at all. So, if y'all could work on my question instead of the psychoanalysis of why I would like a friendship with an Aqua - as if it is so uncommon - that would be great. Humph. Loosen up, Aquas!

i dont think u can control who u want to be your bestfriend?
itll happen naturally
itll happen naturally

also, do u want him to leave the nutz hanging out of you or just bff?
I guess a better question should have been, how does one get close to an Aqua? What steps should I take to let him know that I would like to spend more time with him, that he isn't bothering me when he reaches out, etc.

You're friends with his wife...idk, ask to go out on double dates mpre often, or dinners at each others' himes?
I don't know how you become "bffs" with someone. Doesn't it just happen organically? Don't you consider your friend and his wife as a unit, and not one where you would do stuff with him and not her?
Something about this question is weird to me.
I don't know how you become "bffs" with someone. Doesn't it just happen organically? Don't you consider your friend and his wife as a unit, and not one where you would do stuff with him and not her?
Something about this question is weird to me.

Posted by AquaMermaidLOL, love it! That should go over well...
If you all are so close, why not directly ask his wife? She would be the best one who knows him inside out. Ask her, " I want to be best friends with your husband,can you give me some tips?"

Posted by sultrykittyLMAO!Posted by AquaMermaidLOL, love it! That should go over well...
If you all are so close, why not directly ask his wife? She would be the best one who knows him inside out. Ask her, " I want to be best friends with your husband,can you give me some tips?"click to expand

add him on facebook lol or text him play games with him
i make a lot of connections w people on words with friends lmao seriously tho thats the kinda stuff aqua guys like
i make a lot of connections w people on words with friends lmao seriously tho thats the kinda stuff aqua guys like

I definitely love ikea but you better be ready for things like this:
Don't know hey, just be a friend. There's really no way to go about it I don't particular respond to anyone trying to befriend me or taking that friendship to the next level. It's on my turf or it just doesn't happen. Sharing laughter, tears and what not.
Don't know hey, just be a friend. There's really no way to go about it I don't particular respond to anyone trying to befriend me or taking that friendship to the next level. It's on my turf or it just doesn't happen. Sharing laughter, tears and what not.
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