Taurus/Moon in Pisces but Aquarius' magnet

Hi,
I'm a Taurus and have moon in Pisces. I have read many articles and most of them say that Taurus and Pisces with Aqua is a challenging match. For some reason, I always meet Aqua guys who are attracted and interested in me.

I'm a typical Taurus female very sensual and warm-hearted. I'm by nature true and sincere. My affections are deep and loyal. On top of it I'm extremely strong when it comes to emotions.
Aquas are fascinating and smart but they appear to me a bit cold and detached. We are on different wavelengths.
On many occasions, I met Aquarius men and thought that they treated me like a friend. We were doing many fun things together such as hiking, playing tennis, biking, going to museums etc. I treated them casually just like friends. It usually ended in huge fights. It turned out that they were really interested in me and thought that we were dating.

I wonder how Aquas guys show that they are interested in women. Since they are coming from a foreign land lol I cannot read their clues. Can you be interested in a woman and not to call/text her at least 3 /4 times a week? Can you be interested in a woman and do not to flirt with her/ not to cuddle and not to romance her? How do you guys show affection?

I just met another Aqua who kind of seems interested. He asked me out about 4 times but he has habit of asking me out a day or two days before he wants to meet. Each time he asked me out I had something already planned. Finally we met after 4 weeks from our first. He told me that he felt ignored by me. Sorry but statements like this are just so annoying.

Hi Slonce,
I am a Sag female and I have been dealing with an Aqua for 3 years now. I have had my fair share of ups and downs with him and I have even posted my dilemas on the Aqua msg board.
I needed validation that I was not in fact "crazy" as he has called me a time or two. The fact of the matter is, any sign of emotion to an Aqua is irrational. Aqua men think with their mind and not with their hearts first and foremost.
So if you display emotion "fight" as they like to call it, or challenge them, you are crazy in their eyes.
I'll try to answer your ? and hopefully those Aquas out there will correct me or agree with me.
Aquas will not come right out and show you they are interested. First off Aquas have many friends. MANY friends. And being humanitarians they are fine by this. Once an Aqua does show interest in you, it is in the form of the things your Aqua is doing, with out saying otherwise. See, in their minds they have already analyzed you, they do that a lot. They get lost in their heads, and they already "know" your position. Have you told him that you want a relationship? If you have not he will be fine just being your friend.
Since Aquas think so much, they can retreat into their minds, or want "space" to think, so yes, they can do days, weeks, months without speaking to you.
Eventually after they come up with the solution that they have been pondering they will come out of their shells and contact or reconnect again. The thing here is, if you show your dismay, upset, cry or otherwise through accusations or a tantrum in their general direction they will retreat once more. They do not like irrational displays of affection at any time.
They may seem cold, and they will seperate themselves from you to protect themselves, you just need to be the bigger person and KNOW them. Learn by thinking with your mind, be rational and cool and voice your opinions in a non confrontational accusing manner IE: with as little emotion as possible.
Aquas do not romance, buy flowers, plan special dates, hell they will forget your anniversary and bday!
But they will pounce their version of romance on you when you least expect it! Like compliment you on your insanely vibrant teeth or tell you you looked nice, months ago at that family dinner.
Take it, and run with it! Once you get to know that that is their way of "romancing" you, you are golden.
If the Aqua you mention in your last paragraph is STILL contacting you to "hang" out, he still hasn't figured

you out yet, so that is why he is still coming around. You are playing "the game" very well. Aqua guys do that, but only to see what your reaction will be. To see if what they "thought" in their mind about you was true.
Just always be upfront and honest with them and they will do the same.
You may be annoyed, frustrated, depressed, cry (by yourself), mad, vengeful, pissed and loving, caring, missing, thinking, pining, sweating, feeling (they can also send subliminal thoughts to you as well), wondering, etc with your Aqua all at the same time.
Its a love hate, hate love, love love, hate hate, love hate love hate, hate love hate love kind of relationship, and if you do not date or get to that next level, because he decided it will be like that, think of this.
You will have a FRIEND for life! 🙂

Hi,

Thanks for your answer. I always thought that Sag women get along well with Aquas. Anyway, I can get along with them as long as we are friends.

You said that Aqua show interest in the form of the things my Aqua is doing and you also said that he would be fine just being my friend. So do you mean that he showed interest in being just a friend? I'm asking out of curiosity. I'm not really interested in him. I thought that I would give him a chance, but after all I read here it seems that our relationship would not last long.

You mentioned that Aquas do not romance, buy flowers, plan special dates, hell they will forget your anniversary and bday!
So what are they good for in a relationship lol?

That is their way with twist of unexpected weird displays of affection. Seems like they do many weird things lol

maybe it's just a case of opposites attracting n b/c ur diff he finds u appealing. i seem to attract caps often n we're complete opposites. my bff (sagi) attracts mostly cancers. i kno esp w/ aquas we can get attracted to people who r different n stand out, so maybe that has something to do w/ it? idk. but to answer ur q's about how aquas show affection -- we don't. or @ least i know i don't lol. i dont answer calls & texts all the time too i don't like to cuddle (i feel like i cant breath otherwise, sad i know lol) & i treat everyone like a friend -- including people im romantically interested in. im uncomfortable expressing emotion so that's y. n if the "friends" im interested in treat me as a friend back, i become more interested haha. maybe ur aqua fren is the same?

Hi,

Opposites attract but do not last lol. It is hard to answer your question. Am I different and stand out? I always follow my dreams and do not care so much what others think. Having said that all people are unique and different in their own ways.

Aquas treat everyone like a friend -- including people they are romantically interested in right? How their partners suppose to feel special and unique?

I started this post out of curiosity. I'm not really into him. I'm not really attracted to him. I cannot feel intense strong chemistry unless I have an emotional connection with someone. Without chemistry, there is no point of having a relationship.

I'm wondering how do Aqua parents express love and other feelings to their children. My mom was Aqua and I perceive her lie a rather cold person. But maybe it is not typical to Aquas.

Slonce5,
You are welcome. I am not an Aquarius, however, having "wrestled" with them a time or two and from seeking advice on here, it becomes much clearer.
Sag and Aquas get along great, however, other influences can and will affect the relationship. Whether it is friends or bf/gf etc.
The thing about Aquas is to connect to their mind first. The rest will follow.
I beleive your Aqua is showing interest as a friend, bcus that is what he "feels" from you.
Aquas are great companions if you love their minds first, then their hearts.
I am still trying to figure out mine, and hopefully by joining this sight, MY SIGHT will strengthen what I know, feel and already "connect" me to his mind.
🙂

Posted by slonce5

Hi,

Thanks for your answer. I always thought that Sag women get along well with Aquas. Anyway, I can get along with them as long as we are friends.

You said that Aqua show interest in the form of the things my Aqua is doing and you also said that he would be fine just being my friend. So do you mean that he showed interest in being just a friend? I'm asking out of curiosity. I'm not really interested in him. I thought that I would give him a chance, but after all I read here it seems that our relationship would not last long.

You mentioned that Aquas do not romance, buy flowers, plan special dates, hell they will forget your anniversary and bday!
So what are they good for in a relationship lol?

lol im cracking up @ ur last comment. i've SO been guilty for forgetting my sig. other's birthdays. for some reason for 2 yrs i thought my ex's bday was jan 25th; it's jan 24th lol. n then my last ex id forget if it was dec 30 or dec 31st. always just a day apart but still bad i guess lol. n i've accidentally given greeting cards for the wrong occasion (like a bday card given on vday). haha its sad but really i just think most of us r really emotionally retarded n have this affection disability like astro sez 😛 but even though we're naturally emotionally withdrawn, it's not intentional n we CAN change. ive had exes break me down where i finally became a little mushy. but after those relationships ended, id go back to normal just cuz it's our natural way of being 🙂


n sagis + aquas do get along! we do things differently but think the exact same way & we appreciate each other's differents. my guy bff is a sagi and one of my girl bff's is one too n it's really like a yin&yang relationship: different, but complete each other as corny as that sounds. in fact, mostly every sagi ive met has always been best friend material 🙂 but i question whether it can go beyond friendships sometimes as ive been romantically involved w/ 3 and they've never really progressed to anything more serious. n it was always due to no care for effort to on both parts -- which btw ive read is usually the reason romantic relationships between sagi & aquas don't evolve. b/c both can easily just go off n do their own thing n be fine w/ it lol. but i think if both parties did try to make it work it'd be magical. really like your boyfriend is your best friend @ the same

Nicely stated Aquarius 21! 🙂

Posted by slonce5
Aquas treat everyone like a friend -- including people they are romantically interested in right? How their partners suppose to feel special and unique?

their partners don't! if u notice most the posts people put up here r q's y their aqua boyfriend has gone MIA or aren't sympathetic to their emotional needs lol. but the key is just communication. we're understandable people so if our partner logically explained what specific actions make them feel insignificant and provided reasonable suggestions to change it; we can change 🙂

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Nicely stated Aquarius 21! 🙂

thanks miss sagi! lol 😉

Anytime! As you describe above Aquarius21 that is exactly what I am trying to do with my Aqua ex! LOL. To a "T"! 🙂