the soft underbelly of an aqua :)

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i've been getting to know an aqua man, as i've mentioned here before. it's not an overly romantic connection and he's been in switzerland for the last two weeks but we have been doing a lot of business together and that is going extremely well. i'm a business analyst and he's a rich dude who is trying to continue his family's businesses.

today i emailed him on some matters of business and asked when he was going to be returning to spain cos i miss him actually. he replied with the following:

"I have been screwed all my life, im sure you know how it is.
Except I was in University learning about other things, not law or finance, as im dislexic, which means creative.
So im usless at finance and im tired of going it alone, but thats the way life is, for me now, any help you can give me
is most precious to me and I will appreciate it.

Its along time I have not trusted anyone at all but I feel I can with you.........."

i just thought that was remarkably open and extremely touching. i responded that he could absolutely trust me (i've come to feel very fiercely protective of this man) and that we were obviously drawn together to balance out each others' strengths and weaknesses. i said i found him to be the least judgemental person i have ever met.

he called me minutes after and we had the most wonderful chat and i felt like we became much closer because of this exchange. we agree that it doesn't matter where it's going or IF it's going romantically. we both need honest people close to us for different reasons and it's all kinda lovely 🙂

i know quite a few aquas (5 of them feb 9th'ers) and they have all been taken advantage of at some point by someone unscrupulous when really, they are the most charitable, giving people i know. is this something aquas find common and if so, how do you go about selecting the people you want close to you and what value do you place on such trust.



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i know quite a few aquas (5 of them feb 9th'ers) and they have all been taken advantage of at some point by someone unscrupulous when really, they are the most charitable, giving people i know. is this something aquas find common and if so, how do you go about selecting the people you want close to you and what value do you place on such trust.





well im not a feb 9th'ers, but i do know what you mean. by nature we are charitable people. and people will try to take advantage of that. i learned at an early age how to decipher who are my friends and who is not. also, i brought them around my dad to scope them out. he had a better since of character than i did. mine developed over time. i have all the people i need, close to me. i have known them since i was 8 years and we have been through everything together. my dad told me, these girls will stand by you through everything and they have been so far. the trust i have in my bff's is priceless. 🙂