Whaddayathink about this Aqua?!

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bell00
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I'm a leo female with virgo/moon taurus/asc leo/venus
this boy has a Scorpio/moon cap/venus (dont know his asc)

PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ,I NEED ADVICE pretttty pleease

we've known each other/been friends for about 6-7 years, not super 'close'.. but over the past 2 or three years we've always shared an attraction with mild flirtation whenever we would hang out.

9 months ago when we were watching A band together he asked if we could make out during the set, so we did.. it was nice and he said he had been wanting to do that for ages. he texted me after saying how much he liked my presence and that i was a beautiful person, i didnt reply. week after i eneded up staying at his house after a night out with friends, we only kissed and cuddled...

..then massive gap! we went 2 months without seeing each other, had some friendly encounters.. nothing awkward, just returned to being friends like normal. I then start talking to one of his friends (hard to meet anyone that doesnt know this aqua) i wasn't overly flirtatious i was just simply moving on and getting to know this other fella(Gemini) then bam! only a month ago this aqua came back, texting me asking me to go places he was going, we met up whilst seeing another band and ended up going back to his house and we slept together, it was electric, so much chemistry (however i was a little nervous around him). i then left the next day and we didn't really communicate again until he texts me at the end of the month chasing me all both friday and saturday asking to meet up, so we did the saturday night.. again went back to is house. however, we didnt sleep together this time round, it was mostly foreplay and just playfulness and saying sweet things like "i like lying next to you/holding you".. which has now made me a tad confused. fair enough if we are slept together and were going to again but this playfulness cutsie stuff blurs the line a little.. he invited me to a party he was having this weekend just gone, i went and we hung out most of the night with others around as well. and we slept together again, i then proceeded to stick around to help clean the morning after.

we are getting closer but i dont know what he wants from me or what this is... im trying to go with the flow, but he's so enchanting its mind boggling. (i've always dug this guy, but i have issues when it comes to feelings, never had a real relationship, just mostly "flings and things". I tend to get bored or 'over' a guy, but this
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There is not a question in there, what do you want to know?

Does he like you = yes.

Why??s he hot and cold = Aquas are like that. A lot is self defence mechanism. The confident exterior is partially real and partially a facade. Coz he likes you, there are emotions attached. Aquas don't deal with emotions well, we are not sure what to do with them.

Playful cutsie stuff = Reaction to above.

What he wants = Keep it light, flirt, playful, be open minded, we are odd creatures. Slightly mysterious is good. We don't play by conventional rules, don't expect because other relationships like this, that your Aqua will behave similarly, we like to make our own rules. One point Leo is a fixed sign, I always struggle with fixed signs, you like the now, while I'm always pushing for the future, try and let him pull you into the future (not sure that one made sense).

—he's so enchanting its mind boggling?? = Of course he is, he's a Aqua (we are also full of ourselves)
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Posted by whiterebbit
There is not a question in there, what do you want to know?

Does he like you = yes.

Why??s he hot and cold = Aquas are like that. A lot is self defence mechanism. The confident exterior is partially real and partially a facade. Coz he likes you, there are emotions attached. Aquas don't deal with emotions well, we are not sure what to do with them.

Playful cutsie stuff = Reaction to above.

What he wants = Keep it light, flirt, playful, be open minded, we are odd creatures. Slightly mysterious is good. We don't play by conventional rules, don't expect because other relationships like this, that your Aqua will behave similarly, we like to make our own rules. One point Leo is a fixed sign, I always struggle with fixed signs, you like the now, while I'm always pushing for the future, try and let him pull you into the future (not sure that one made sense).

—he's so enchanting its mind boggling?? = Of course he is, he's a Aqua (we are also full of ourselves)


Um, i hate men who are full of themselves. Probably why Aquarius woman and Aquarius man usually fizzles out. Unless they have alot of shy and humble placements.
as for hot and cold, all the signs display that, meaning all the guys in all signs display that. If he's that way, he's not really into you. That's usually a red flag.
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Hot/cold - if he's like that, it will be insecurities, everyone's got them. If she's likes the guy and is prepared to put up with it, go for it.

I like to think, I do the —full of myself??, in a very humble way. I know my strengths and I know my weaknesses. I??ve had a —successful?? relationship with an Aqua, it depends on your level of tolerance for chaos. It was interesting, I??ve had fun, but if you want a relationship for personal growth, I prefer having a partner with opposite characteristics to me.
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The one thing I've learned with Aquas, no matter how great of a man he is...he will always be like the following:

1. He will always be in your life off and on even if your in the same room he'll ignore you one day and then stick by your side the next day

2. They are always never thinking about anything in particular for too long unless its something that bothers them

3. They do seem like they have a cold / resistent exterior even though they are caring individuals


That being said...you will always be confused by them until you realize they will never make sense. You have to kind of always "live" in the present with them cause things can change in their heads 2 minutes later. Never get mad at them for that, that's how they naturally are as much as everyone else plans things ahead of time.

The other thing is...they are super independent so you have to be a secure individual and must be both flexible yet independent at the same time.

LOL kinda sucks but it is how they are...
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Posted by ScorpioFemale79
The one thing I've learned with Aquas, no matter how great of a man he is...he will always be like the following:

1. He will always be in your life off and on even if your in the same room he'll ignore you one day and then stick by your side the next day

2. They are always never thinking about anything in particular for too long unless its something that bothers them

3. They do seem like they have a cold / resistent exterior even though they are caring individuals


That being said...you will always be confused by them until you realize they will never make sense. You have to kind of always "live" in the present with them cause things can change in their heads 2 minutes later. Never get mad at them for that, that's how they naturally are as much as everyone else plans things ahead of time.

The other thing is...they are super independent so you have to be a secure individual and must be both flexible yet independent at the same time.

LOL kinda sucks but it is how they are...



This. 100 plus. But the TRUST has to be formed first. They'll feel you out, or vibe you out, or whatever it is...and depending on their love placements, and for men, it's mostly venus/moon...though other factors too when you get deeper. Once the trust forms, and you're both secure. Loyalty and trust is unbreakable.
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Thanks for the input guys! we messaged each other the next day and he thanked me for helping him out, and that last night was really nice. i replied in a friendly manner, thanking him as well. I still treat him like a friend most of the time, I've never had a solid boyfriend so the whole "dating" thing is unheard of to me, so i'm acting in the only way i know, i show affection when its time to, i restrain when its time to. I'm very independent , i'm currently studying a diploma, i work over the weekends and i have many friends of both sexes. I've also been told many many times that i have a barrier/wall and that it's hard to "crack" me. which is something i've never really noticed.. and to me sounds like an odd thing for a Leo to do, however i am on the Virgo cusp as well and notice that i'm not your "typical" leo, i do carry come traits but not to their full extent.

I wasn't really sure exactly what i was asking @whiterebbit
maybe just food for thought, insight, however i do want to keep him interested and not get bored, but then again i don't want to loose myself in the process, which i'm not too sure if that's in my nature but who knows, i rarely like someone this much :\