What aspects do you guys like in a girl/boy friend?
What makes you melt? What do they do that makes you happy? What makes your heart flutter? What makes you want to spend more time with them? What are the little things they do that you like? What makes you fall in love? What makes you laugh? Etc, etc, etc....
And please, no one say "intelligent conversation" or "friendship first" - we already know that about yall! lol!
common ground, appreciating the things I do. A giver like me. I like to do things for my SO like cook their favorite meals, help them with projects, and bake sugar cookies after sex 🙂...attention to detail. I complained to one of my bf's that I couldn't rent SuckerPunch from the RedBox. He went and bought the movie and surprised me when he came over. It was so cute and meant a lot cause he was actually listening to what I had to say. I like my SO to literally feel like my best friend. I wanna punch you in the arm and call you a jerkface and still be able to seriously look you in the eyes and tell you I love you. I love romance that isn't cheesey, but is genuine. And then there's all that basic stuff like honesty, consideration, and preferably a high sex drive. Biggest thing is consistency. If you're consistent, I can decide whether or not I'm willing to adapt to you so we can compliment each other. But when you change on me, I'll change on you.
The things others don't see in you and the things you miss them yourself. They just appreciate the "weirdest" traits of yours. I've a silly habbit of puffing my cheeks out when I disagree with someone and it makes him laugh alot 😛
1.dependability 2.loyalty 3.no matter how hard you have fallen, your partner in life will never give up on you (same as if you rise above, and lose your way going up, distracted by success, people and change, he/she is there to the end) 4.laughter 5.kindness 6.strong ethics/strong morals 7.spiritual 8.consistent 9.protective 10.very loving (I'm sure i have missed some but they are not in order, they're all important)
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What makes you melt? What do they do that makes you happy? What makes your heart flutter? What makes you want to spend more time with them? What are the little things they do that you like? What makes you fall in love? What makes you laugh? Etc, etc, etc....
And please, no one say "intelligent conversation" or "friendship first" - we already know that about yall! lol!