aquariver
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Advice on closure with an aries male
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I have been with my Aries bf for 1 1/2 years, and he doesn't hold my hand in public. He's somewhat affectionate when we are alone, but I am by far the more touchy feely one. Any couples out there who are or aren't hand holders? If not, what would be t
I'm the Libra. I'd like advice about my Aries Ex. I'm wondering if he's rebounding and expecting us to eventually get back together or what he's most likely doing. Okay. We were friends for 4 years before we even dated. I always had this "trance" over
So frustrating...
Hi all, Pls help me, especially aries man. so here is the story: I have known this aries man for around a year, he suggested to date, and for me, I'd prefer either friendship or relationship. so i talk to him (want to ask him if he want to get into
I have tried everything to get this Aries man out of my radar but nothing works! I've ignored him, cancelled our plans on last minute, spoke to him about how I am not into him, but he just doesn't get it! He still refers me as his girlfriend! He has
My Aries boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year, although we just got together after being broken up for a short time. It has been about a month since then, but these past 2 weeks he has been very distant and passive when it comes to our rel
My aries man told me to come take my stuff and go look for what i need somewhere else. At first he was sweet, caring and i don't think i've ever connected with someone as deeply before. Time passed and he just seems like he's lost interest. I feel like
Hey Aquas! I hope all is well. Recently, I broke up (err - something very similar) to my aries bf. Funny, he's actually an Ares/Taurus cusp. This is funny because the man I assumed was my first true love was a Taurus and they both carry some very similar
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the a
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are r
Here's where I can't seem to get it done. I want to investigate everything and really understand the WHY. Why he treated me poorly? Why he couldn't just say he wasn't interested (would've saved a lot of time and bad blood)? However, I continue to silence myself b/c I don't feel like it'll go anywhere. Not to say I want some end result. Well I do, but it's for me to be able to put these last few nails in the coffin. Anyway, he's very emotionally unavailable (an aqua's fav type) so I know that any talk about relationships, love, hurt, wrong doing, will never sit well with him. It causes him to look inward and I don't think he's ready to do so. BUT I need to get this emotional energy out of me.
It's literally eating at me every day. i write and repeat the same things I want to ask and say over and over and over, but it's the actual doing. It doesn't help when he acts like he wants to be friends, saw his social media and he's liked some things like "hopefully we'll meet 10 years down the line at a coffee shop and start again" or "Good things never last forever" "Never be the bitter ex" (I wished him hbd and he was very kind in his response).
To that end, how would you suggest talking to an aries/taurus cusp openly about past mistakes. Again, my heart is cold for him. I know i do not love him anymore, maybe attachment, but not love. I just want to be able to brush away this emotional fog and keep on trucking.
NOTE: Tots not bashing Aries. Really nice people actually, but this one did not fair so well.