Aries and more Aries - Would you give up?

Well,

So it must be the weather...I met a new Aries, aside from the Aries girl I went on few dates alreeady...

The Aries I went on few dates (Aries girl #1) is so fun and so cute. She isn't ready for a relationship, she says, which is great for me, because I'm not either at this very moment (if ever again)...so she went out of town this past weekend and she told me she's totally cool any of us going on other dates w people, as long as we are honest...I said the same to her, since there is this one guy chasing her butt right now. Nothing is serious between us yet (if ever). So I'm giving it a shot on maybe being open to go on dates...since I haven't done that in years (after that last relationships I had).

Anyhow, I met this other girl, who happens to be an Aries too, a bit more calm that the first one...and looks more like a relationship type of girl...so she asked me out...um and I said allright, another fun girl...just very sweet and a bit more down-to-earth than the first one I thought...

So here is the deal. I told this new girl (Aries girl #2) that I went on dates with this other girl (Aries girl#1), nothing serious, but that we've been talking and that I just wanted to be honest with everyone. So...I don't know if that was a good idea or not, maybe a bit too soon? Either way, after some few questions...she and I found out she knows the girl (Aries girl #1) :O...and in fact they both have friends who play for the same team in the city...

So, at this point, I don't know that I should completely back up before things get a bit messy or just chill and keep on getting to know both of them...wouldn't that be a bit ackward for them though?

Aries girl # 2 said, "we should do this again", but I don't know...they aren't close friends at all...more like good acquaintances...but I never just randomly dated people who were friends at the same time...so how would you guys handle that?

I'm not planning to do anything but go out in dates and get to know them better...but I just don't want any drama or hurting someone OR worst getting ditched by all of them haha...because of all this extinuaning circumstances...

Any words?

VLL

So she said, ok cool, and at the end of the date (she asked me out btw) she said "we should do this again"...oh and before she left, she asked me more infor

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Hi Aprilbaby!

Thank you for responding. That is exactly what I needed to hear...just some sort of opinion about the situation. I just don't want to be an a** but seeing them both, but since neither one is my girlfriend and we've only gone in few dates and they BOTH know about it...I just I'll keep on playing the dating game until we all figure more things out.

I just always get afraid that by telling the truth I'd hurt someone, but honestly I think it's better that way, so at least we all know what we are getting into right?

Why do I even overthink that? Because I'm Virgo! 😛

Are you and Aries girl April?

oh i just checked your profile and yes you are! sweet combination of signs btw, including the rising in virgo with the "isn't everyone these days?" hahaha...

nice...

That's some good advice solitas; very refreshing, i concur..! 😉

"Forget this analysis crap. Do you like her? Then go for it and may the chips fall where they may"

solitas and mystic_fish...i don't know which one i like more at the moment...but i'll stay honest with them and see what develops ya know.
they both play the same sports and sometimes see each other at games and practice...both of them hot rams! one represents fun times...and is very exciting...the other is relationship material and so very sweet...they are both so funny 😛 it depends on what we all, including me, want at this time ya know...

so!

may the chips fall where they may...cheers!

I love Rams

"Virgo,

Just know now that you know a couple of us rams, we will forever be in your life and you're destined to end up with one of us....LOL"

haha...

yeah you guys are FUN! we'll see what happens 😉

fieryearth...what is it that you love so much about them? i like them mucho this far...

yes rams are the bomb!!

yeah, so much bombs that i actually i can only see both bombs once a week...😛 otherwise i would feel so exhausted...

friends, if you ever thought about a working out plan...that will actually boost you up, try dating two rams and maybe one aqua from time to time...those girls will really keep on draggin you out and makes you play every single game until they are done winning them all...haha...not to mention, their impulsive ways will NEVER ever leave your eyes close, just went you thought you were ready for a nap...BOOM...you are awake again with what you just heard coming out of that pretty little mouth...

luckily for a Virgo that is not a problem, because we save the best shocking moments for emergencies only 😉

I was wondering do Aries women date men who are in a relationship?

Meaning if she met a guy and he clearly is taken but he pursues her or flirts with her, how would she deal with that?

I read online that Aries women do not play second to anyone and when up and disappear once they feel that the relationship isn't going anywhere.

well...

i don't know tiki, it's probably true, but in this one of the rams was 'talking w someone else' before i met the other one, which gave me the grounds to talk with the other ram as well, now that first ram says she isn't...and she is only seeing me know (veru convenient ha) and the second ram it is now talking with someone else besides me...haha...what a confusing world.

i don't mind all this for a bit, but after a while it will wear me down, so i'm just playing the field for a bit, won't be for long.
they both know about each other...i've only kissed one of them...so our dates have been very awesome and yet very innocent.

i just like them...but like them, i'm scared...so we'll have to wait and see.

meanwhile i only see them once a week, like i said, which gives me the time to focus on other stuff i need to focus on anyway.

it's been fun this far and kinda refreshing.

vll

okay i just re-read my first paragraph and it may sound really confusing 😛

so here it goes again (sorry, sometimes i type really fast and make no-sense when i misstype something).

so...here is the story behind this situation:

Ram #1: She and I have been going out on dates since the end of March. Neither one of us was looking nor wanted a serious relationship, we just liked each other and wanted to go on dates...which has been wonderful. At some point in the beginning of this story, she told me that she had to be honest with me and that she was also 'talking' with someone else besides me. That fact didn't bother me at all, because we were just getting to know each other at that point...so I actually appreciated her honesty since all of us are/were single. "Talking to someone" for us means, going on dates, that's all.

Ram #2: Knew her for a while and she asked me out a month or so ago. She is a sweet lovely girl. Knows what she wants as well, like most arieas girls seem to...haha...and she and I have been only going out in very few dates...and she knows about Ram #1 and viceversa...they know each other, because of the sports they play, but aren't the closest friends...which makes things less acknward.

Current situation: Ram #1 decided to stop seeing the guy she was seeing about a month ago, just around the same time I met the other Ram, lol, and so...I don't know...what she expects me to do, but I'm not assuming anything until we talk. We are all already clear with the fact that nobody is in a seriious relationship and all I've shared with any of them has been kisses...very few kisses...so that has been all...and of course awesome fun times that never seem to end.

There isn't any dilemma or stress in either part...I think both rams are perfectly with enjoying their summer doing whatever they want, as long as we are all honest and stay single...haha...BUT I know for me...this probably will have to be defined or ended at some point, because the dating game is a bit too much for me if it goes on and on...too confusing AND eventually, being the earthly person I am, I may want either something defined or nothing at all...but for now I'm just having a blast since it's summer and it's hot 🙂

😉

your hot stuff.

As an Aries I tend to seperate men into 3 categories- family/friend, sex object, or boyfrend material/sex partner. So as long as you are honest w/ both women, you are fine at this point as they have likely catergized you in the second category. At this point they still like you (Aries women wouldn't bother hanging out w/ smeone they weren't attracted to) but their is no emotional involvement and it is the challenge of the hunt and a desire for sexual conquest that is motivating them. This is good in one way as you are presenting yourself as a challenge which makes you more desirable and gives us something to expend our relentless energy on. What you risk is being permanently set into one catergory, and worse if one of them moves you to the potential boyfriend/sex partner group, you will be forced to choose. (This is because we don't let men walk over us, and when you are its only sex we're playing the field too, but otherwise we feel wont be put off). Aries like being wild and crazy, but once any emotions get involved, we only like getting wild and crazy w/ one person. Don't worry though, they'll definately tell you at that point so you won't have to guess. In the meantime I would have fun w/ both and see if either might develop into something more. Cant speak for all Aries, just my point of view.

firegirl,

sorry it took this long to reply. very interesting response...thank you.

yeah, one of the aries girls (the one who is a bit more shy) is doing well w the progress...maybe because we haven't gone on as many dates as w the other tho...she's a bit more innocent...just also a bit more aloof tho...but very sweet.

they are both totally unpredictable, clueless at times, but SO fun...

anyhow, the other one, just kinda freaked out last week after stayin over for the first time, even tho all we did was cuddle and kiss...but i gave her the time...and let me tell ya she's a trip...oh my...bad bad girl, but she's also very honest, so it's cool.

so yeah im hangin in there. i dont care which category im in for either as long as we all are honest and we don't hurt each other...im sure eventually as the summer ends things will have to take some turns for me tho...because i can like this forever...

Oh by the way...what should one do when the Aries man throws his toys out of the pram about how your not being caring enough and not showing enough affection and and thinks your somehow to blame for all his current troubles?..Leave him be or phone him to console him?

Well I am not going to try anything..his bad mood..his problem..I am not stupid so I don't get myself into a mess in the first place..

Yeah where is Roxi gone...

No its not the same place..too much bitching going on..normal people have turned pyschotic and so on..Used to be a friendly place..somewhere you could escape to from time to time..

Wonder if its something to do with the Mercury retrograde...which is happening till July sometime..

archer, missmorals, and geminifox...thanks for your inputs.

im on way out to a trip for week, but ill write more as soon as i get back...simply because i want to! 😛

im still sort of seein both aries...but considering calling it quits with the baby one of the two...because of although her badness and crazy ways are attractive...they are also a bit costly...and the demand is high 🙂 so yeah, im probably going to see how i feel this week while i think about it...i told them both i needed some time to process...it's been so fun this far though...

to be continued...