Aries + Aries = STAY AWAY!!

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purplehaze986
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19 Years

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Was recently involved in an Aries + Aries relationship.. went off like a bang.. in love in the first month, talking about moving in together.. We both legitimately though we were soulmates.... Then see started lying.. little lies I would catch her in.. she would think it was "no big deal". And actually get mad at me for getting so upset... she would lie, and lie about her lies.. soon enough we were having the old fashion phone stand-off.. who is calling who.. who is going to appologize... one would finally give in, and the one that gave in would resent the other... finally we would make up.. have amazing sex.. and bam.. it's the greatest relationship again.. until the next disagreement.. the next lie I would catch her in..... This relationship is not for the faint of heart.. it remains me of a drug.. you have an intense desire to go back, but you gut tells you to stay the F@#% away.. and you keep coming back... She wronged me in a big way.. and is begging me back, but I can't, I have to break this cycle.. I try to talk and she is too stubborn to listen, always thinks that I have it out for her... I suppose this relationship could work with two indivuduals with no ego.. but in our case we were two children who insisted on playing with matches.....
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purplehaze986
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19 Years

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It's funny how you said little stuff didn't add up.. and soon enough you would encover the big lie. Same exact situation.. she would do stuff that would have me scratching my head... little lies, things not adding up.... usually I'm not that gulable and I tend to be a very rational thinker.. .but she was such a good liar.. and had such an innocent demeanor that I always just believed her.. I finally woke up and I was like WTF is wrong with me. It hurt at first, but after about a week, I enjoying were I stand.. no more drama, no more BS... I have peace.....
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Freebird
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*SLAP-SLAP-SLAP* right upside the head! Listen to YOUR intution unless of course you enjoy the pain of being burned...if so, jump back into the fire and have fun playing! 😉

A man has gotta do what a man has gotta do.... btw..it is your EGO that wants to go back, not your heart.

Hey PH..have you ever tried, Firewalking? it truly is an awesome experience - and not painful at all.

Good luck - let me know if the slap was hard enough 😉
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*angelface*
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19 Years

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hi angelface here,
a week ago i would have disagreed with you saying that arians should stay away from one another where relationships are concerned as i myself am an aries female and went out with a aries male for five years, he was wonderfull, gentle,caring and romantic also stubborn and had a temper on him but honestly i cant think of anything bad about our relationship a aries man in love will be very faithfull and loyal.we broke up because i met someone else (a leo)i broke his heart but still to this day we are the best of friends we talk on the phone at least once a week.

what i have found with us arians and also read is that if you delve to deep into an arians personal life to soon then you are going to get lies, they will tell you when they are good and ready,we are deep inside quite insecure people always worrying wht people will think of us, and if you know to much before you get to know us then you might judge us and not like us. so we might lie to make ourselfs seem better and to make you like us.