soluna
@soluna
15 Years
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Posted by starlover
It is not the early sex i was getting at. It was the fact that he had sex and then became thoughtless...that is what happens to some men, especially Aries ones. I was with one for years...he was like this...we had sex and he became thoughtless....i challenged him on it and he admitted to being self involved anyway, so i guess after sex .. even moreso...me man, me had sex, job done
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My dilema is that the Aries man I started dating a month ago is starting to act different. We had dinner last night and I drove a long way home. I haven't heard from him all day. Not even to see if I made it home safe? I am not trying to be dramatic however I feel he should have at least texted to see if I made it home ok. He has been very stressed out at work this whole week and kinda been distance. I mentioned it earlier in the week and he apologized told me about his stresses.
Dinner last night was great as usual. But I do not feel like him being stressed at work is an excuse to disregard what we have going. I have been giving him space but i am hurt that he didn't at least have time to see if I made it home safe.
I really care about him and I just don't know how to go about bringing it up. I know he is under stress and don't want to seem like i am being dramatic or needy or bugging him. It has started to affect my mood bc deep down I don't like being treated this way. I've known him for a couple months we started going out a month ago. Mind you we hooked up last night (that wasn't the first time) so i am more sensitive to why he hasn't checked up on me. He usually is really attentive.
I guess I just need advice to see if I should contact him and bring up how i've felt or wait till he contacts me. Any ideas on how to approach him when I do talk to him? Thank you everyone