Aries Man & Leo Gal

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soluna
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Hi guys! I am a Leo female who recently started dating an Aries Male. I have always had an instant attraction to Aries men. It is like love at first sight bt the two of us. I would always say that I would end up with an Aries. My ex is an Aries and we are still friends.

My dilema is that the Aries man I started dating a month ago is starting to act different. We had dinner last night and I drove a long way home. I haven't heard from him all day. Not even to see if I made it home safe? I am not trying to be dramatic however I feel he should have at least texted to see if I made it home ok. He has been very stressed out at work this whole week and kinda been distance. I mentioned it earlier in the week and he apologized told me about his stresses.

Dinner last night was great as usual. But I do not feel like him being stressed at work is an excuse to disregard what we have going. I have been giving him space but i am hurt that he didn't at least have time to see if I made it home safe.

I really care about him and I just don't know how to go about bringing it up. I know he is under stress and don't want to seem like i am being dramatic or needy or bugging him. It has started to affect my mood bc deep down I don't like being treated this way. I've known him for a couple months we started going out a month ago. Mind you we hooked up last night (that wasn't the first time) so i am more sensitive to why he hasn't checked up on me. He usually is really attentive.

I guess I just need advice to see if I should contact him and bring up how i've felt or wait till he contacts me. Any ideas on how to approach him when I do talk to him? Thank you everyone
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Noreallynow
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I don't think that her having sex with him that early has anything to do with it. I know a aries guy who has sex with multiple woman that are in relationships or engaged and he puts them on a pedestal. To him they're very respectable women with morals. So hey! If you want to see if something is wrong just casually hit him up and say hey. The worse thing that he can do is not respond back. If he doesn't, at least you know where you stand with him.
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Noreallynow
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Posted by starlover
It is not the early sex i was getting at. It was the fact that he had sex and then became thoughtless...that is what happens to some men, especially Aries ones. I was with one for years...he was like this...we had sex and he became thoughtless....i challenged him on it and he admitted to being self involved anyway, so i guess after sex .. even moreso...me man, me had sex, job done



Never experienced that, but ok.