Cancer Men and Aries Women are (doomed)

Im an Aries women and been around for 47 years, and I have been single for 11 years, and recently started working for Jason as his assistant, he also buy supplies from my Main job for his business. I've known him since 2008 and we have just start working together 10 months ago, I respected Jason as my Boss and then we start hanging out at my Apt to work and play, you know Drink Wine and smoke, but then I realize he was coming over to hangout more than work so I chilled on Jason coming over as much from weekly to every other month cuz He just wasn't serious about working, My Bad for getting him started. Then just a few months ago, and keep in mind I was never Attracted to Jason cuz he is just not my type, he is very skinny, do too many drugs and just bummy looking all the time, he basically looked like Cuzzin IT...he he but he was fun to hangout with and his energy level was awesome, we feed off each other he professed his love for me, I was floored this was unexpected, and also shocking that he wasn't afraid to lose our friendship as he knows that I just go out of an horrible Fling and needed ME TIME, which is my friends support (hanging out having fun) and alone time as well. Now im in my new apartment and I can't get rid of Jason but realize he is so supportive and amazing to me why not let him stay with me as long as he gives me my space and not smother me. So now we started having sex which was incredible, totally unexpected a Plus but I still feel that he is so consumned with his own emotions and not connected with mine or interested in my day in general, this Cancer man loves Drama and loathe that I am a calm Aries women and this comes with years of experience, but he cannot seem to give me even a few hours of peace. I know have to dump Jason but this has become a challenge cuz he refuses to leave and he is totally scary when we talk cuz he is verbally abusive and I don't react well to abuse or disrepect. This Cancer man is totally Self Obsorbed and selfish its very hurtful cuz I really love him like now other. Im sad that I allowed myself to let another invade my heart for selfish reasons, he has it all I have nothing and feel desserted, dissappointed and scare about what he'll make me do, and that is to LOSE IT after I've come so far..😢

dont be scared your a Aries...you have what it takes to tell him to beat it...thats what youll have to do and if you have to get the authorities involved do so. Tell him to kick fucking rocks. but stay calm while doing so. and even if you lose it this is one of those situations where you really might have to, doesnt negate any wotk you have done on yourself.

Posted by Marrakesha
LOL...Don't share his real name here! This is supposed to be like AA...LOL


And while I don't have any real experience with Cancer men except for one, I do wanna have a few with them in this lifetime at least. They fuckin' turn me on.

i say air him out...he needs to be embarrased.

Posted by sewdope
I just got out of a relationship with a cancer man and he sounds just like your Jason. He was a bit selfish and overbearing with his emotions as well. He also had some very scary outbursts and would say hateful things to me and about me when we argued. He claimed to have such deep love but sometimes his actions proved otherwise. I don't think he's a bad person but out personalities clashed. When I needed time to myself he would go on these emotional rants and force me to communicate with him. It was really weird. It seemed very effeminate and that was a turn off for me. It's weird because whenever I would give him back whatever fire he gave me he would be so incredibly hurt even though he said and did things way more hurtful. It was just too much. I had to let him go. I do sometimes miss how affectionate he was though. The clinginess also did a lot for my ego but it also worried me that he wasn't able to be alone. I was right. A month after we stopped dating, he immediately clung to another woman. He did so much to get my attention. I thought that was weird.

wow sounds like my cancer...scary.

they have really sharp tongues that do nt get talked about often.