Hey! I am new to the boards, but love all the posts here, and would love some insight on something. I am an Aries guy, and I have recently met this other Aries guy that I think is very cute. When I first met him, I could tell there was a "spark", but thence I suppose things were getting too close for comfort, and he withdrew. We both happen to be singers working together on an opera, I am kinda shy and new to the company we are both singing in, and he's been an established member. So I would see him all the time, but you could never tell if he was going to be social or not. Weeks pass, and I notice him constantly always around where I am, yet, not saying anything, he even followed me in the bathroom once, still not saying anything. He is always in my sight-line pretending he is doing something else related to our rehearsals, but it just happens to be near me. Once, I got up to do a scene, and he was sitting my chair that I left unoccupied, when there were other places to sit. It was also obvious this was my seat. These are just examples of his odd behavior towards me. Finally, he wished me a "Happy Birthday" under his breath, as our birthdays are a day apart, and I find his reserved behavior around me so odd, yet he is so friendly with everyone else. We finally went out with some others from our show, and after all was said and done, we chatted and had a great time, and actually shared a cab and travelled home together, where at our time of departing, he gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. NOW, he is back to ignoring me, and I think he might be mocking me behind my back. What the hell is going on here? I am not looking for him to like me, but his behavior towards me is so odd, and I need to know if is playing me or what. Any thoughts? Thanks!
Fellow Aries Guy has me so confused!
You know, that might be very possible. We are both tenors, and he did make a point of talking about his vocal training in our conversation. Mind you, I never asked him for that info.
I felt he was mocking me because he was imitating my vocal inflections, with someone else. I will try to strike up conversation with him, but I don't want to be subjected to being ignored if I put myself out there with him again!
Well that sucks....I can't stand haters either....ugh!
Yeah, I still feel this guy might be interested, but is very childish and threatened by me. I don't think I want to be bothered with that....
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