should i break up with my aries

my aries guy and i have been best friends for over a year, and we're really close--we talk every day! in january he told me he was in love with me and i *THINK* i feel the same way-- but i think i should end things now. sooner or later, because i feel like nothing else will be accomplished. we haven't seen each other in two weeks! and yesterday he ignored me the entire day. i didn't text him at all either yesterday, but obviously i'm not going to put my ego on the line and get humiliated if he doesn't reply. especially because the night before i was being emotional and the last text i sent he didn't reply to. i still have IMMENSE FEELINGS of love toward him, but nothing is happening! he tells me every day that he loves and misses me loads. but then why wouldn't he try to make more of an effort to hang out with me? i am not exaggerating here we always make plans and he never follows through. yet he has enough time to hang out with my best friend every third day nearly; they never hang out alone though, and they do live extremely close to each other. i live across the city and neither of us have cars or licenses haha. and on the other hand he is extremely busy in his life right now. i just don't understand how you could say/act like you miss/love someone so much then never really try to hang out with them?..? two weeks is a long time kind of 😢

i just get so EXTREMELY jealous whenever he is with my best friend, although every other factor in the situation tells me to react otherwise. i'm tired of getting such negative feelings from someone that should be making me happy. i sort of feel like i would crush him if i told him we should just stay friends for now...but i still must think of what is happening to me. i may just be overreacting; i feel like there's still hope for this to happen right now. i need advice 😢 😢


he is ::
cancer rising
sun in aries
moon in cancer
mercury in aries
mars in aries
venus in taurus

i am ::
libra rising
sun in gemini
moon in capricorn
mercury in taurus
mars in taurus
venus in gemini

are yall friends or lovers?

Posted by bkbella86
are yall friends or lovers?

both right now but i'm so bored of waiting to hang out with him soon we may only be friends.

I would just lay low. Keep up the not texting or reaching out to him. Keep busy busy busy!🙂 Find something that will keep your mind focused on IT rather than HIM. I was thinking about that how so many times men will say they keep themselves busy so they don't think about fights or breakups, etc. It SO works.

Aries men are fairly simple creatures. Not simple minded, most I know are very intelligent. But with them they are certain with what they want, how to get it, and what it takes to get it. They're sweet and remember things that either they know you like, or something that can connect you two, a place in time, or an inside thing between you. They're sentimental, and can be hurt easily but they'll rarely show it outwardly. So really pay attention to what he tells you, how he's presenting himself during those types of conversations.

If he was mad at you or sick of you two things would happen... he would either hit the roof with such a firey blow up cut you through the heart comment or tongue lashing or simply dismiss you to your face or 'hit ignore'and POOF you're out of his life. Until he's over whatever it is, and he'll come back on his terms. Can't stand to not have people not like them (even if inside they don't like that person). Bt they'll make it known if they don't like someone.

Be certain though if it's what you want to do if you want to respond back when you do hear from him. Gaaahh, the worst feeling is responding and regretting it afterwards either from (a) wanting to stay strong or (b) they either odn't respond, respond in a way that downplays things, or in a negative way. At least for me, and then I kick myself for breaking!! lol Especially with Aries men, they are such charmers and completely know how to win their way😉

My question in all of this, is what in THEE hell is your bestfriend thinking?