Lil.ladie.taurus
@Lil.ladie.taurus
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THE USUAL QUESTION
He truly feels he wants to work on himself and be in a different relationship status. Yes in a way he is trying to let you down easy, but not because he is saying you aren't good enough, just that he can't be the right kind of happy or excited about being in a relationship with you, with all that goes into a relationship.
He could go along with the motions and pretend to be in the relationship, but that would be lying to himself and having you put your life into a doomed relationship. He is technically looking out for both of you.
When I say I am not ready for a relationship or that I am not gonna be able to go forward with us, I am worried that the other person won't understand and become out of sorts by the rejection, and take it as rejection and so I have to almost go through all these extra measures to say, "this isn't going to happen".
Of course I can do with the companionship and talking and all the other stuff, but relationships can either seem promising or doomed (at least to me) and sounds like he seems to think he won't be a able to stick it through with you.
I don't look too far ahead, and let my heart guide me on where to start a dating scenario or start of a relationship. Once the truths start coming into view, all these things I didn't want to think about at first naturally come out and then after examining them, if they don't seem good for us both then yeah I break it off.
Mind you, we all have to be able to keep swimming and and keep going on dates and exploring other relationships when we are in the dating scene. Once we find an option, then yes we all have to explore it to see how far it will go, but don't stop thinking it can happen out in the wild for you one day just because the person you like doesn't want to be in a relationship.
He could go along with the motions and pretend to be in the relationship, but that would be lying to himself and having you put your life into a doomed relationship. He is technically looking out for both of you.
When I say I am not ready for a relationship or that I am not gonna be able to go forward with us, I am worried that the other person won't understand and become out of sorts by the rejection, and take it as rejection and so I have to almost go through all these extra measures to say, "this isn't going to happen".
Of course I can do with the companionship and talking and all the other stuff, but relationships can either seem promising or doomed (at least to me) and sounds like he seems to think he won't be a able to stick it through with you.
I don't look too far ahead, and let my heart guide me on where to start a dating scenario or start of a relationship. Once the truths start coming into view, all these things I didn't want to think about at first naturally come out and then after examining them, if they don't seem good for us both then yeah I break it off.
Mind you, we all have to be able to keep swimming and and keep going on dates and exploring other relationships when we are in the dating scene. Once we find an option, then yes we all have to explore it to see how far it will go, but don't stop thinking it can happen out in the wild for you one day just because the person you like doesn't want to be in a relationship.
LilLady believe what he's telling you ok?
If he is deeply fond of you or really likes you he will
come back,you can count on it.He needs time for himself.
maybe he isn't interested but when you listen to him and
do what he says he will see that you at least respect his
wishes.let him come to you because if he wants you,he will.
If he is deeply fond of you or really likes you he will
come back,you can count on it.He needs time for himself.
maybe he isn't interested but when you listen to him and
do what he says he will see that you at least respect his
wishes.let him come to you because if he wants you,he will.
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