Um...so, what the fuck?

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So the aries guy and I are getting along better today,we say together a lunch today and it was really weird. One of his friends literally pulled us close together, and he didn't seem the slightest bothered by the fact his friends were trying to make us talk, but what was weird was this...

Everyone left, and it was just us and we started talking a bunch, and we were discussing politics and how we have the same views, and why...etc...

He was sitting there, right next to me, but wouldn't look me in the eye. I'd say it was a good 10 min talk, an he did most of the talking so I know he wasn't trying to get out of it since he kept making commentary and explaining himself, but this guy wouldn't even come close to looking me in the eyes, and I was looking at him most of the time. He looked sideways, just straight.
We even started walking to class together, and he STILL wouldn't look me in the eyes, until finally I directly asked him a question, and said goodbye.

Why the fuck? Like it may not seem like a big deal, but that bothers the shit out of me. When I have conversations with people, its really uncomfortable for me when they won't meet your eye, like at all.
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Posted by geegee
It doesn't matter if you believe it or not. It's what it is. The added years are psychological years.

Boys can be awkward at that age. Maybe he has a Virgo mom or Virgo siblings n friends. They can eat away at your confidence
I'm the one with a Virgo mom and grandmother. Yes they do, she was abusive, and I no longer am under her control. But his parents are a little older and really nice though, i couldn't see it but. It's a possibility, wouldn't hurt to ask. I feel like I'm at a place with him where I can also ask his birthday and get chart details, so i might do that this week.
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Posted by DMVFangirl
You are intense and demanding lol. He is probably intimidated by you. You have Aries Mercury and Venus so you probably pop off at the mouth all the time without even thinking. If he has any Pisces placements at all, he's gonna take it to heart. I barely have any water but I do have a Pisces Mercury and I'm pretty sensitive to the tone that people talk to me. You're gonna have to chill out a lot.

Stop thinking everything he does is a direct threat to you. He's just trying to find his footing with you.
Thank makes a lot of sense. I do make fun of my friends a lot, BUT I have notice hes sensitive, ad never will I or have i ever made fun of or in any way insulted him that I noticed. And when his friends do, I tell them that its not nice 😆 but i admit the phone thing may have upset him. But he isn't a very direct person at all, and Im having a really hard time communicating with him. When he does talk and engage, he's extremely engaged and i love it because i get to hear how he thinks and just what goes through his head...but then he becomes distant. It's like a cycle, he goes from completely engrossing himself to completely ignoring and distancing. It's really frustrating and confusing, especially the past few days, i honestly don't even know what to think of him.
I want to say its my coming on too strong, but I really don't know.