ARIES GIRL NEEDS HELP WITH LIBRA MAN

HEY GUYS I NEED YOUR HELP...I AM A 27 YEAR OLD ARIES FEMALE..WHO RECENTLY GOT INVOLVED WITH A 32 YEAR OLD LIBRA...AND I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO NEXT. THIS LIBRA HAS MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE WANTS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME BUT I JUST CAN'T FIGURE HIM OUT. HE SEEMS TO BE VERY SELF-CENTERED...LOL..THAT'S FUNNY COMING FROM AN ARIES. ALL HE TALKS ABOUT IS WORK..THIS IS ALL THAT SEEMS TO BE ON HIS MIND. HE IS ALSO NOT VERY AFFECTIONATE...HOWEVER, EVERYTIME I TRY TO BREAK THINGS OFF...HE COMES RIGHT BACK...AND WHEN HE COMES BACK HE ACTS AS IF NOTHING HAD EVER HAPPENED. I JUST REALLY NEED TO KNOW WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO..TO GET CLOSER WITH A LIBRA. I DO BELIEVE THAT A LOT OF HIS RELATIONSHIP ISSUES STEM FROM A PRIOR RELATIONSHIP. HOWEVER, I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP HIM OVER COME THIS. I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY HE HAS ALL THE THINGS I AM LOOKING FOR...BUT I JUST CAN'T SEEM TO GET CLOSE TO HIM. HELP!!! IT COULD BE ME ...BECAUSE I AM AN ARIES..JUST PLEASE TELL WHAT TO DO ..OR WHAT NOT TO DO...THANKS!!

Well, you can start by talking honestly about this problem just as you have on this thread! Maybe this guy can't read your mind!

I would also suggest reading some of the old threads on this board, and you may find one or two good replies from Libra men. There aren't to many around but occassionally they will pop up!

Gee, here is a different approach, how about spending time with him gaining his trust and maybe then you might get somewhere. Do you think everyone is just going to spill their guts to people they barely know—

WELL THANKS FOR THE ADVICE..AS FOR THE PERSON WHO SAID GIVE IT TIME..HE IS NOT GOING TO TELL HIS SECRETS TO SOMEONE HE BARELY KNOWS..WELL THAT IS WHERE YOU ARE MISTAKEN. DON'T TELL ME YOU WANT TO TAKE OUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE NEXT LEVEL...BUT THEN KEEP YOUR DISTANCE..WHAT'S UP WITH THAT? I TRY TO BE SUPPORTIVE TO HIM AND HIS NEEDS BUT RIGHT NOW HE IS SOOOO CONSUMED WITH HIS WORK..HIS WORK IS ALWAYS THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION..WE TALK ABOUT WORK MORE THAN WE TALK ABOUT US. I GUESS I AM GOING TO HAVE TO LAY THIS ALL OUT ON THE TABLE. I WILL KEEP YOU GUYS POSTED..THANKS AGAIN!!

Well I hope you aren't the type is so incredibly nosy that you break into your b/f computer and read his mail and other files. That would be one sicko! If I was him, I would start changing passwords!!!

Yes, I think that would be the best way to go. Be honest and lay it out! That is always the best way to go. No manipulation!!

I'm a gemini girl w/ a libra man. I'm 25 he's 26 and we have an 8 mnth old boy. He's secretive, hidden, not affectionate, not passionate, not romantic, not sexual at all. I think he's cheating or he's gay. Did I mention he's a manager at a stip club-- it all comes together now huh? I am miserable,sad, depressed and did not ask for a marriage n kids package. I'm a party girl. I am sexually aggressive. I feel like I'm the man in this relationship and he's the woman. I have to beg him for sex... no thanx it's time to end it or cheat. I have to give myself a pat on the back for not cheating and sticking it out b/c geminis are known for "2" double minded, fickle, gets bored EASILY, needs 2 of everything. I need 2 pairs of shoes, 2 bank accounts, 2 cars, 2 dicks---- best advice: ALWAYS HAVE A BACK UP!!!!! He's latin also -- they say latin men are great lovers or they're great in bed. Uh NO. That's all BULLSHIT! How about-- awww how cute an extra BELLY BUTTON!!!!—!!!

GEMINI GIRL..OH MY IT WAS IF YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT MY LIBRA. ALL OF WHAT YOU HAVE SAID..I SEE. IT'S QUITE AMAZING. WHAT IS EVEN MORE CRAZY IS THE FACT THAT I AM MUCH LIKE YOU...THE PARTY GIRL. I HAVE FOUND THAT GEMINI'S AND ARIES FEMALE SHARE ALOT...WHEN IT COMES TO BEING SOCIAL BUTTERFLYS. MY LIBRA WANTS ME TO HAVE A CHILD WITH HIM. I FEEL IT IS JUST TO TRY AND LOCK ME DOWN. HOWEVER, AFTER READING YOUR RESPONSE...I SEE THAT I MIGHT WANT TO RETHINK THIS ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP. I MEAN THE DEscriptION YOU GAVE OF YOUR GUY WAS EXACTLY IDENTICAL TO MY GUYS PERSONALITY.

AS FOR THE PERSON WHO TYPED THAT COMMENT ABOUT ME BREAKING INTO MY LIBRA'S COMPUTER...RELAX...ARIES ARE JEALOUS BUT WITH AGE AND KNOWLEDGE YOU LEARN HOW TO CONTROL IT. I WOULD NEVER DO SUCH A THING. HOWEVER, YOU SEEM LIKE YOU MUST HAVE HAD A WIDTH OF THE ARIES EXPERIENCE..I UNDERSTAND NOT MANY SIGNS ARE CAPABLE OF DEALING WITH ARIES. IT TAKES A STRONG MINDED PERSON!!!! I WONDER IF YOU ARE A CANCER— ARIES GENERALLY DON'T DO WELL WITH THEM!!!