I've been dating a capricorn male for one and a half years. He wont buy me a ring, although claims he will if I can behave for 3 months straight. I've dumped him and am now looking to date other men. The capricorn claimed to have loved me and that we would marry some day. I am cancerian and wouldve felt more secure with some type of commitment from him other than a vague 'we will marry some day' My question is, do Capricorns mean what they say when they say they love you.
Capricorn concerns.
the ones i know definitely mean it when they say it. i don't think him not asking you to marry him right then and there is a reflection of him not being committed. he probably just wasn't ready to do it when you wanted him to and there's nothing wrong with that. plus, i don't think a year and a half of dating is long enough to take the plunge. i think i'd be more understanding if you two had been dating for say, 8 years and still nothing happened.
i think you reacted a bit harshly with the situation and a bit too eager to get married...
i think you reacted a bit harshly with the situation and a bit too eager to get married...

If he was serious when he said that you should have kicked him in the shin. Honestly, what next, a pat on the head and a biscuit?
I do agree that a year and a half is not long enough. Rushing into marriage is rarely a good idea. And you giving him the heave ho like that wouldn't be conducive to anyone even thinking about making the plunge. You bailed hastily and without any real provocation other than that he wasn't doing what you wanted him to do. Takes two to be ready.
I do agree that a year and a half is not long enough. Rushing into marriage is rarely a good idea. And you giving him the heave ho like that wouldn't be conducive to anyone even thinking about making the plunge. You bailed hastily and without any real provocation other than that he wasn't doing what you wanted him to do. Takes two to be ready.

Posted by MissBizarre
I've been dating a capricorn male for one and a half years. He wont buy me a ring, although claims he will if I can behave for 3 months straight. I've dumped him and am now looking to date other men.
^^that made me chortle 😄

"although claims he will if I can behave for 3 months straight"
What exactly does he mean by behave?
Were you a naughty girl?
What exactly does he mean by behave?
Were you a naughty girl?
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