clarity

I was sitting in the waiting room at the doctor's office reflecting upon chart compatibility and all that. like many of us here I often contemplate my birth chart with my boyfriend's, to better understand him, myself and our relationship. it is both interesting and baffling to me how astrology works in terms of our social spheres and intimacy, and I always enjoy mulling it over in my mind for better clarity. I suddenly started thinking about myself (and him) in this particular method, and I thought I would share it with those of you who might find understanding in its simplicity.

I understand these are massive generalizations, but I expect you will get the overall point:

I am a pisces (sun). this is who I am.
likewise, I feel (moon) as a pisces feels.
in any new or unknown experience, I carry myself (ascendant) like a taurus. I think and love (venus/mercury) like an aries, and I take action (mars) like a gemini. at my worst, (lilith) I can behave like a sagittarius-- at its worst.

my other half is a virgo (sun). this is who he is.
he feels as a cancer feels (moon), and in any new or unknown experience, he carries himself (ascendant) like a gemini. he thinks and loves (venus/mercury) like a leo, and takes action (mars) like a libra. at his worst, (lilith) he can behave like a capricorn-- at its worst.

feel free to interpret/make adjustments to the standard. do any of you find clarity in this sort of framework? if so, go ahead and post your own placements to see if this makes sense for you 🙂 you don't have to relate it to a SO.

hey! this is not the answer you want, but I couldn't help myself, you're thinking way too much! leave that to us mindfreak virgo's! In my opinion, If you can keep a virgo interested, than you can make almost any relationship work, and you must be a pretty, awesome, interesting, understanding, patient, caring, loving person IMO:-)

well to be honest I don't think too hard about being able to "keep" him... lol I love who he is, what we are, and who I am when I'm with him-- with or without astrology. I just like thinking about it, that's all. I'm not concerned with how to maintain our relationship, we do that well enough without needing to think about it... together.

I don't think there's such a thing as "keeping a virgo interested." I honestly don't know how because I've never tried. I've only dated two men, both virgos; the latter being my current boyfriend. I was never anything but myself when I met him, and that hasn't changed. in fact, I've only become more of myself with him in my life because he encourages me to do so. I actually wanted nothing to do with him on a relationship level at first... but that's only because in any romantic venture, friendship to me is the most important foundation, and my boyfriend was and still is my best I first. but I do know this, virgos do have a charming way of stealing your heart, in the most simple, quiet way. I am very happy to be with him.