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Mars in Scorpio love?
What Is Mars in Scorpio Like in Love?
Mars in Scorpio is known for intense, all-or-nothing love. This placement seeks deep emotional and physical connection, often showing loyalty, possessiveness, and a need to test trust. Relationships can feel powerful and consuming, with strong expectations around honesty, commitment, and emotional depth.
I;m a Libra, Venus Libra and have Mars in Scorpio. I get so jealous. If I like a guy, and we were just close physically or were together in some way, I don't want him to be around other woman. That is just wrong to me. lol I personally adore when the person I'm crushing on gets jealous. When you first brought up the "You're mine." and "Remember who you belong to. " bit , I couldn't help but laugh. These are sayings I have said before. Hahahaa
If I love someone, I'm always like "YOU'RE MINE!!" and I don't share one bit. haha
When I was just a kid and mars and venus signs hadn't really manifested much, I was crushing on my friend. He was a venus gemini, mars in scorpio. He was the exact same way. He kept calling me his bitch. And whenever I protested, he would go gemini venus wit on me and say "No, bitch is a female dog," and not let me argue. It was the cutest thing ever! "Come here bitch. Sit down bitch. Do this for me, bitch."
We had fun, but it end it's just like, those kind of placements are better off as friends. A venus libra with a venus gemini. Compatible venus and venus signs are good for friendships. Compatible venus and mars signs are when the relationships start, let me tell ya!
I wouldn't test him. Make him feel like the most special person in the world, if you love him. Why the hell would you do that to him? That just hurts and I can never agree with you on that one.
* please note... these are not conscious games we play. i think i'm just honestly describing the love style of this Mars placement and would like to hear from those who have it*
Oh sorry, I didn't read this little boogar! Haha.
"He is also very big into me showing vulnerability and testing my loyalty. Granted, he's never used any of my weaknesses against me, except jealousy (it gets the biggest reaction from me) and he says the testing won't stop.. BUT, i should never test him? ya, right... I do, but am sneaky about it."
Lol. Okay, if you insist. Haha.
Your venus in cancer just loves that he is doing all of this testing and cares about you to make sure you're being faithful to him. So you're doing it also, haha. The only honest advice I can give is to do it when you feel necessary. Don't over do it, but let him know that your wanted from others. That it will just make things more intense!
mars in scorpio is different in different people.
in a sag that i know, he is very forthcoming, bossy, controlling, and in bed he calls the shots 100% . he has uttered those words about possessions. my mars in virgo cant get enough. he nourishes my moon in scorpio.
he's never talked about his relationships with other women, i think id get secretly jealous. ive talked about a few guys around him and he has never hinted at jealousy. unless this is some act, he's very easy going. doesnt flip out when he cant get me. when his mars in scorp cant get his way, hes cool
in the cap sun, his mars in scorpio is brutal. just nasty and ill-timed. when his mars in scorpio cant get his way, he is not a nice person. i swear he is a restraining order in the making.
probably has alot to do with the house placement and degrees.
I have mars in scorp and i love to hear 'ur mine and im yours' especially during sex, my aqua sun cringes everytime though. I can be jealous, dont like it one bit and i have a temper from hell, but u'll never know because it comes as a surprise...even to myself
Your venus in cancer just loves that he is doing all of this testing and cares about you to make sure you're being faithful to him. So you're doing it also, haha. The only honest advice I can give is to do it when you feel necessary. Don't over do it, but let him know that your wanted from others. That it will just make things more intense!
Hey, look at all the responses! ^^^ This is very, very true! A little goes a long way..
Mars in Scorpio is super interesting.. It is so covert with underlined force compared to my in your face, get out my way, Aries Mars
Posted by ZipZapZoooom
Although he never reciprocrated any of the gestures, be it grand or not. I dont remember him "owning" me in any kinda sense throughout the 7 yrs; always felt like there was no anchor for me to him. Not once did he say any words that might've rung in my ears for years and made me feel like i "belonged" to him or his family.
I see.. did you want to here those things from him? Wanted to feel "claimed"?
I've laid claim many times, more in action than in words, but still... those gestures have been received very well
I'm not really a jealous type person. not anymore.
i like the extreme emotions at times
I suppose I'm just all kinds of ass backwards. 😛
....but I like it that way 😄
you mentioned ass.. is that a Mars in Scorp thing as well? 😛
Not so much jealous, but more possessive. Very, very possessive... Like, "you must conduct yourself at all times like I am beside you. There should be no question of your availability.."
Posted by DMV
probably has alot to do with the house placement and degrees.
This might be a combo with the Pisces Sun/Taurus moon and a couple of 2nd house placements...
Posted by WaterCup
I have mars in scorp and i love to hear 'ur mine and im yours' especially during sex,click to expand
Yes, yes and yes! Also must always be in control?
Great info people!!! 🙂
i'm a mars in scorpio, find myself to be get quite jealous, but just need to know your mine. Funny how you say you guys play a game to see how far you can push it. I've found that i did that with my ex, who also happened to be a venus in cancer. She got super jealous of me, too.
Hi! I am a capricorn sun, aries moon with mars in scorpio. And like other people have mentioned, this placement makes one a very jealous individual. Jealousy is something my venus in aquarius can't prevent. Although I believe in Aquarius' concept of love, when I do fall in love I feel very intesely. This does apply for all my near and dear ones, I like them to believe that they are a part of me and that I must be their first and foremost priority. I remember that when I was in highschool I saw my crush talking to another girl. I literally felt my chest and eyes burning. No matter how much I tried to control myself I couldnot help taking a peak. Forgot to mention that I repeatedly observed him for 4 years. Every day, every minute. No one could however know till I told them. The same goes for my bestfriend whenever I see her with others, I give her a cold shoulder, ignore her and be very rude to her and yes I try to make her jealous. I also keep tabs on my family and her so I know what they are doing. I need to assire myself that they do not go out of hand. Also I show my anger and dissatisfaction to them because I believe that only they deserve to see my anger. I deem anger as a sign of weakness, and weakness can only be shown to people I love and trust. No matter how many times my capricorn sun tries to say that this behaviour is undignified I can't help it because whats mine is mine and only I shall have it.
Yeah, my libra hubby has scorpio mercury AND mars. They don't like sharing their significant others .. AT ALL even though they won't admit it. They do like to be in control but at least when they say they want you.. they really do want you for life.
I have mars in Scorpio and boy oh boy jealous ain’t the word... mix with me being a Taurus and thinking everything is mine already lol....
But yes, I loved to be owned too.... mars in Scorpio is the best placement in a man for me.... double whammy 🤞💦
The Scorpio man I was getting to know, used the words "I want you to be mine". That literally made my kitty tingle. (I have Venus in Cancer, Moon in Scorpio, with Mars in the 8th)😂😊 However, I had to back off and let him go.
He has Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars and Uranus in Scorpio.
My boyfriend is a Leo with Scorpio Mars and Venus in Leo in the 8th, Moon in Leo in 8th. Pluto is also his chart ruler.
That MF'r is JEALOUS! Also, loves to incite jealousy in me. Gets off on it. It doesnt bother me because its sooooo transparent. He will try to get women to check him out and have me see it. He tells me shit all the time....with a twinkle in his eye... when I dont engage it, he gets all upset, but wont show it! hahaha its goddamn hilarious.
He stormed out of a bar and walked home because an old male friend and I were talking, and I didnt introduce him off the bat cause he was sitting at the bar.
My virgo placements love that shit though.
My ex was a Libra with Scorpio moon and Mars.... he wasnt jealous at all. Insecure, but not jealous. Probably because he was busy being shady somewhere on his own, hahaha
He used sex manipulatively though. He was withholding to maintain emotional control, psychological control...,very very strange and strategic.
My boyfriend is a Leo with Scorpio Mars and Venus in Leo in the 8th, Moon in Leo in 8th. Pluto is also his chart ruler.
That MF'r is JEALOUS! Also, loves to incite jealousy in me. Gets off on it. It doesnt bother me because its sooooo transparent. He will try to get women to check him out and have me see it. He tells me shit all the time....with a twinkle in his eye... when I dont engage it, he gets all upset, but wont show it! hahaha its goddamn hilarious.
He stormed out of a bar and walked home because an old male friend and I were talking, and I didnt introduce him off the bat cause he was sitting at the bar.
My virgo placements love that shit though.
Whats his Merc?
I like to think women with Mars in scorpio aren't perceived as crazy... 🤞
My boyfriend is a Leo with Scorpio Mars and Venus in Leo in the 8th, Moon in Leo in 8th. Pluto is also his chart ruler.
That MF'r is JEALOUS! Also, loves to incite jealousy in me. Gets off on it. It doesnt bother me because its sooooo transparent. He will try to get women to check him out and have me see it. He tells me shit all the time....with a twinkle in his eye... when I dont engage it, he gets all upset, but wont show it! hahaha its goddamn hilarious.
He stormed out of a bar and walked home because an old male friend and I were talking, and I didnt introduce him off the bat cause he was sitting at the bar.
My virgo placements love that shit though.
Whats his Merc?
I like to think women with Mars in scorpio aren't perceived as crazy... 🤞
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His Merc is Virgo!
My boyfriend is a Leo with Scorpio Mars and Venus in Leo in the 8th, Moon in Leo in 8th. Pluto is also his chart ruler.
That MF'r is JEALOUS! Also, loves to incite jealousy in me. Gets off on it. It doesnt bother me because its sooooo transparent. He will try to get women to check him out and have me see it. He tells me shit all the time....with a twinkle in his eye... when I dont engage it, he gets all upset, but wont show it! hahaha its goddamn hilarious.
He stormed out of a bar and walked home because an old male friend and I were talking, and I didnt introduce him off the bat cause he was sitting at the bar.
My virgo placements love that shit though.
Whats his Merc?
I like to think women with Mars in scorpio aren't perceived as crazy... 🤞
His Merc is Virgo!
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Perhaps he has trouble communicating his reasons or reasoning for feeling jealous. Insecurity.
Interesting chart..
I noticed I don't get along with MIS guys..so far anyway.
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My partner has Mars in Scorpio.
I hear a fair bit of.. "You're mine." and "Remember who you belong to." My Venus in Cancer luvs, luvs, luvs this but how far does this ownership go for males with this placement?
He is also very big into me showing vulnerability and testing my loyalty. Granted, he's never used any of my weaknesses against me, except jealousy (it gets the biggest reaction from me) and he says the testing won't stop.. BUT, i should never test him? ya, right... I do, but am sneaky about it.
* please note... these are not conscious games we play. i think i'm just honestly describing the love style of this Mars placement and would like to hear from those who have it*
thanks!