Contemplating or Not Interested? Need help in understanding this Capricorn Man...

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TrulyScorpio
@TrulyScorpio
9 Years

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Hello,

This is the first time I am actually posting something about my life online and hopefully will be able to clear some of my doubts after this.
So well I met this guy on tinder two weeks back and he we hit it off really soon, so much so that I even gave out my number in two days which is so unlikely of me. We did chat day and night for a week and never did once get bored or have to think of topics. We would even talk on call in the nights everyday for hours together. However, being a Scorpio I said I was scared as this was moving too quick and seemed very serious and he confessed that it is exactly how he felt but wasn't scared. During this week that we were in contact he would flirt a lot and even kept saying that he misses me and cant have enough of our conversations. He even asked me a couple of times why was I still on Tinder which made me feel very weird since I was just getting to know him and it was only a week.

After a week he tells me that he would be going to Florida for his higher education and dint want to tell me earlier as he didn't want to stop talking to me. He accepted that he was a bit selfish but wanted me to know all this before we could meet up. To which I replied that I am glad we didn't meet up as I do need some time to think as this is going way to fast and I needed to distract myself a bit. Listening to this he sounded a bit upset and annoyed with this situation and wanted me to come back soon.

However, I missed him and messaged him by the end of the day itself to which he seemed very cold. The next day out of no where he messaged that he needs some timeout as he felt he is getting too serious and he cannot afford to go down this path again. A bit shocked that I was I wanted to talk and clear things out but he didnt call me or text the entire day and claimed at the end of the day that he was super busy. The next day it was the same situation because of which I felt a bit insulted and messaged him abruptly that he was inconsiderate and he can enjoy his space to which he apologized and said he needs time.

Realizing my mistake after two days when I was much more calm I called him up but no answer so I dropped him a message saying I was sorry for being mean and even asked him if he needed more time? to which he said its alright but needs some more time.

After which it has been a couple of days and he hasn't contacted me yet and this has started to bother me now. I honestly do like this guy but it is so hard to know what he feels? He gave me all the attention I wanted and more for a week and then the next entire week snatched it away.. I know its kind of silly cause I have never met him and just spoken to him a lot on call but I have never felt the same way for any guy. before.

So what do you guys think I should do? And do you think he will ever come back or should I give up already? Also, normally how much time does it take for a Capricorn man to come back?
TIA