Does this Taurus Woman like me?

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SagitariusGuy
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9 Years

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So I'm a Sagitarius Man 38 and I have a Taurus female friend 27 whos been a good friend of mine for the past 11 year. We met when she was 15 (nothing weird) and we've been best friends since that day. Well as years went by, weve hung out a lot and usually after a few drinks, we end up making out (initiated by her every time). She walways ends up in crappy relationships and we always ask each other "why aren't we together"? "We both want the same thing and we'd be perfect together" but we never do it. Well a couple nights ago, she came over with her sister and we had drinks, her sister was flirting with me and I flirted back. Before I knew it, my Taurus friend asked me straight out of id have sex with her tonight and I agreed, so we had sex for the first time ever and totally random and unexpected, saddled after, she cuddled up to me actually and she went to work the next morning. WELL, that was lretty much the end of it. I text her now and for the first time in our history, her replies are short and one worded. I ask if somethings wrong and she says "no" and I asked if she had regrets and she said "I have no regrets dork". Im confused.. Did we ruin our friendship? Im totally into her and would be with her had I had the chance. I wanna tell her how I feel now that its gotten to that point but I don't want to spook her. Mind you shes in a sexless relationship with a Man shes not attracted to and she dislikes very much. One of her texts to me was "I'm over him". She really has no idea why shes with him. Id love to take her off his hands but I don't know where I stand. Can anyone tell me what she might be thinking? Maybe what I should do or say? I need closure.
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NobleSag
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Dude nobody knows what to say. Lol your a sag. That flirty, cocky, mofo that she wants is the one who flirted with her sister but still had time to wink at her and say I'd tap you too. Grab your bow and get back in the game. She's a bull and she charged at you.

Stop bringing it up its probably messing with your mojo and it's making her feel awkward. You were fun to be around. Get that guy back. Put on your matador suit and start whipping that red blanket around. Tame that bull. Ole amigo. Adios.
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TaurusCap323
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10 Years

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Well it's hard to speak for someone else but just some opinions from a fellow Taurus.

1)we don't always deal with change well so her being in her relationship though it may not be ideal it is familiar and steady she can count on it you would be a risk

2)maybe she's conflicted about after having sex with u and is trying to sort out her feelings so less communication with you would b needed to rly process that

3)the sex may not have been what she expected ice had major crushes on guys in the past one I even spent years lusting over but I never crossed the line because he was an exes friend but I really through we'd me so good together it was a idea of it all but the reality ever quiet worked starting with the sex once we actually had sexy was over him and gave him a one way ticket to the friend zone

These are just same of my opinions but all in all if u want to really get a Taurus heart it takes time we may be good to you but in our own minds still haven't rly decided on you that takes time esp if she has other placements in Taurus as well. It takes patience but once we love we LOVE!
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Espresso
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9 Years

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Hey, i was engaged to a Sag a few years ago. I think those two signs do not naturally get each others needs. But there might be good synastry still, look at the entire chart. What is her moon (needs to feel safe) and he venus (love style ).

She definitely likes you. She told you she is confused. Of course she is, i fully understand her. Personally i would not have sex after you flirted with her sister, but it's just me.

Taurus needs emotional security and a fair commitment on your part before she can consider you as a life partner. She wants it, but she is confused about your intentions. She needs reassurance and clarity. It's pretty obvious to me. You are confusing the hell out of her. Taurus women just want to take care and give love. But if they doubt you want to do the same for her, they will turn cold.

Why did she need to ask you for sex anyways? Why were you flirting with someone else? It's a turn off for me. She probably wantes you but is now dissapointed that she has to make the move.

Work on your communication, or you might lose her. Being vulnerable is a demonstration of strengh and she will dive in with you as soon as she is certain of your love.

Taurus women generally take time to heal from past relationships aswell, because they often feel they give too much but never receive all the love back. Be her hero, take care of her.

Good luck 🙂